{"id":9167,"date":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9167"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","slug":"10-trucchi-psicologici-per-ottenere-un-impegno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-trucchi-psicologici-per-ottenere-un-impegno\/","title":{"rendered":"Come convincerlo a impegnarsi e a volere solo te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Given that you’re here, I suppose you’re in a situation where you\u2019ve met a great guy but he doesn\u2019t want to be in a relationship even though he\u2019s regularly been taking you on fun dates and he really seems interested, right?<\/p>\n

He’s been sending you mixed signals for what seems like a decade now and you have no idea what is really going on.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa a cui si pu\u00f2 pensare \u00e8 la famosa domanda che tormenta molte donne in tutto il mondo: Come convincerlo a impegnarsi?<\/b><\/p>\n

You can really see a future together with him but every time you bring up the idea of you two taking it to the next level (officially being boyfriend and girlfriend), he ends up hiding in his \u2018man cave\u2019 and he doesn\u2019t want to hear anything about it.<\/p>\n

Continua a ripetere che a lui piace cos\u00ec com'\u00e8 e che he doesn\u2019t want to commit<\/a> to something serious because he\u2019s not ready yet or because he doesn’t even know whether he’s ready or not and he wants to play safe and preserve your current \u2018pending status\u2019.<\/p>\n

Capisco quanto sia stancante per te avere a che fare con queste assurdit\u00e0 e con la quantit\u00e0 tossica di indecisione nell'aria quando tutto ci\u00f2 che vuoi \u00e8 che lui apra gli occhi e veda quanto tieni a lui e che avete una grande cosa insieme.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che volete \u00e8 una relazione vera e propria, ovvero una relazione esclusiva in cui lui si sforzer\u00e0 di rispondere a tutte le vostre telefonate e di fare tutte quelle piccole cose carine che le coppie fanno l'una per l'altra, perch\u00e9 questo ha un grande valore per voi, giusto?<\/p>\n

E voi potete averla! <\/b>S\u00ec, potete convertire il vostro uomo che ha la fobia di impegnarsi in un uomo nuovo che trasuda fiducia in se stesso e che non ha alcun tipo di problema di impegno.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there is a way you can escape from the gray zone you\u2019ve been stuck in for too long.<\/p>\n

Seguite questi consigli e trucchi e riuscirete a convincerlo a impegnarsi con voi in un batter d'occhio!<\/p>\n

Smettere di parlare di impegno<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, se volete che un uomo si impegni in una relazione seria, dovete smettere di parlarne.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019re putting pressure on him and no man wants to be pressured or forced to do something, let alone enter a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Per essere precisi, a nessuno piacciono le pressioni, perch\u00e9 la pressione porta allo stress e chi vuole stare con una persona che ti stressa?<\/p>\n

Quindi, parlare di impegno \u00e8 un grande no se volete imparare a farlo impegnare senza pressioni e a tempo di record.<\/p>\n

You see, once you stop talking about it, he will think that you got over the whole idea of commitment, so he\u2019ll ask himself eventually why that is so and he\u2019ll be thinking about commitment even more. And that’s exactly what we need, right?<\/p>\n

Mettete le vostre esigenze al primo posto<\/h2>\n

\"sorridente<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t invest too much of yourself in him. Instead of waiting for him to change and finally decide to commit, make plans by yourself and stay a whole day in your room reading or watching movies or having fun with your girls.<\/p>\n

Fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici e la vostra autostima, la vostra autostima e la vostra passione raggiungeranno il culmine.<\/p>\n

What I’m about to tell you is the greatest relationship advice I’ve ever received: When you stop making him your number one priority, he\u2019ll crave your presence!<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedr\u00e0 quanto vi dedicate a voi stessi e vorr\u00e0 far parte anche lui di quel mondo.<\/p>\n

Ragazza, quando smetterai di fare i salti mortali per lui, non solo vorr\u00e0 una relazione fantastica con te, ma vorr\u00e0 sposarti!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 4 primi segnali di pericolo per i suoi problemi di impegno<\/a><\/p>\n

Menzionare il vostro ex (in modo sottile)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do this a huge amount because you don’t want to be the type of woman who primarily uses jealousy in order to improve her love life and make a guy commit.<\/p>\n

Ma se lo fate in modo sottile e decente, il vostro uomo inizier\u00e0 a chiedersi del vostro ex e lo motiverete a voler essere migliore di lui!<\/p>\n

You can casually say that your ex has been texting you but that it’s nothing important and that he shouldn’t worry about it.<\/p>\n

Even if you have blocked your ex on all social media, it doesn\u2019t hurt to play a mind game because it\u2019ll make your man wants to be better than your ex!<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll invest more energy into your relationship and he\u2019ll want to be your boyfriend before you get back with your ex, just to show you how much of a better catch he is.<\/p>\n

Mantenere le distanze<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Relationship experts claim that when we like someone, it\u2019s really easy to get carried away and constantly be in their presence.<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to learn how to get him to commit!<\/p>\n

Invece di passare tutto il tuo tempo libero con lui o di sognare di passare tutto il tuo tempo con lui, devi mantenere una sana distanza da lui e lasciare che gli manchi da morire!<\/p>\n

Lasciate che si chieda dove siete e con chi. Fatelo impegnare allontanandovi.<\/p>\n

Let him think that you’re dating other men or your ex even though you’re lying in your bed watching your favorite TV shows or having the time of your life with your girls.<\/p>\n

Let him walk on eggshells and you’ll get an answer on how to get him to commit to dating you exclusively.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize how much he misses you and that he doesn\u2019t want another guy to slip into your life.<\/p>\n

Trust me, he wouldn\u2019t want to miss his chance to win you and make you his official girlfriend!<\/p>\n

Be \u2018the woman\u2019 in his life<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Se questo non \u00e8 fatto correttamente, pu\u00f2 spaventarlo e allontanarlo da voi, quindi ascoltatelo attentamente.<\/p>\n

By being ‘the woman’ in his life, I don\u2019t mean you being constantly in his face and replacing his mother\u2014NO!<\/p>\n

The best way to be ‘the woman’ in his life is by sending him testi del buongiorno<\/a> e testi della buonanotte<\/a>Magari anche alla stessa ora ogni giorno e ogni sera, in modo che lo ricordi come una routine.<\/p>\n

And the next step is ‘aborting the mission’ and stopping doing any of it.<\/p>\n

Stop for a couple of days and see what happens. He\u2019s the one sending the messages every day now, right? It\u2019ll be a part of his routine he doesn\u2019t want to miss.<\/p>\n

Quale modo migliore per renderlo coerente se non quello di avere una relazione con voi, giusto?<\/p>\n

Premiarlo<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Agli uomini piace essere ricompensati per i loro sforzi dalle loro donne, perch\u00e9 questo li fa sentire dei veri uomini, capaci di prendersi cura delle loro donne e di renderle felici.<\/p>\n

Agli uomini piace essere notati e apprezzati per le loro buone azioni e i loro gesti.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se fa qualcosa di dolce per voi, qualcosa che vi ha fatto sentire speciali, ricordatevi di premiarlo sempre e di mostrargli quanto sia importante per voi.<\/p>\n

Remember to acknowledge that his efforts are appreciated and he’ll keep trying hard for you.<\/p>\n

The more you reward him, the more he’ll be invested in making you feel special and loved!<\/p>\n

And don’t you worry. These rewards don\u2019t need to be some expensive gifts; a simple \u2018thank you\u2019 and a kiss on the cheek can do the job.<\/p>\n

You can hug him or make him pancakes, it\u2019s really up to you. Just be invested and consistent!<\/p>\n

Essere gentili con i suoi amici<\/h2>\n

\"Giovani<\/p>\n

Una delle pi\u00f9 grandi scorciatoie per far s\u00ec che il vostro uomo si impegni completamente con voi \u00e8 andare d'accordo con i suoi amici intimi.<\/p>\n

I’m sure you already know that men put a lot of effort into their friendships and if you don\u2019t get along with his friends, your chances of becoming his girlfriend are not that good or non-existent.<\/p>\n

If his best friends like you, they\u2019ll put in a good word about you and he\u2019ll see how much they want you two to be together.<\/p>\n

He’ll see that they are really fond of you, which will automatically trigger him to consider you becoming his official girlfriend and making you a part of their crew!<\/p>\n

Essere misteriosi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il mistero \u00e8 la pi\u00f9 grande eccitazione e la pi\u00f9 grande motivazione per qualsiasi ragazzo l\u00e0 fuori e, in effetti, essere misteriosi \u00e8 una delle cose migliori che possiate fare per convincerlo a impegnarsi con voi.<\/p>\n

But remember to keep this only to a certain extent as well because if you become overly mysterious, he might just think that you’re hiding something serious from him, which will make him walk away from you (especially if you ignore him for a serious amount of time).<\/p>\n

So, sometimes when he\u2019s looking at you, take out your phone and smile for no reason, just to make him ask himself what is going on and why you aren\u2019t running around to win him over and make him yours.<\/p>\n

Questa \u00e8 la ricetta migliore per una sana dose di mistero che lo porter\u00e0 a pensare a voi pi\u00f9 che mai.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 12 segnali sexy del linguaggio del corpo che vi rendono irresistibili agli uomini<\/a><\/p>\n

Rendilo divertente<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

If you want to learn how to get him to commit to you in no time, then don\u2019t make him think that commitment is something overly serious and that once he enters into a relationship, his life and time spent with his friends will come to an end. Don’t do it.<\/p>\n

Rendetelo invece leggero e spensierato e lui si innamorer\u00e0 non solo di voi, ma anche dell'idea di impegnarsi.<\/p>\n

Bowling games and little road trips with a lot of laughter will make it all look easy-going and he won\u2019t have a problem with being in a committed relationship with you.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, HE WILL DESIRE to be in a committed relationship with you, not because he needs to but because it’s so much fun and he really, really wants to.<\/p>\n

Continuate a lavorare bene<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Lastly, if he asks you to be his girlfriend and you start a wonderful relationship together, don\u2019t start nagging him or pushing him just days after you\u2019ve achieved your goal.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019ll make him regret his decision if you start controlling him and if you demand to be constantly around him.<\/p>\n

You need to continue having your own life instead of being too attached to his because otherwise, it\u2019ll just scare him even more than it did before.<\/p>\n

Dovete continuare a dargli spazio per se stesso, per le sue serate tra uomini con tonnellate di birra e altre attivit\u00e0 che significano molto per lui.<\/p>\n

Per quanto vogliate fare certe cose, fate sempre attenzione a non travolgerlo con le vostre emozioni perch\u00e9, se lo fate, potrebbe tornare allo stadio iniziale di fobia da impegno, che \u00e8 proprio quello che volete evitare che accada.<\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Getting him to commit to you is not an easy task. It is a process that demands lots of patience, dedication and understanding, even after he’s finally yours.<\/p>\n

Ma una volta presa la mano, diventerete una maestra dell'impegno e farete in modo che lui voglia e desideri voi e solo voi!<\/p>\n

Just remember to continue subtly reminding him that it was his decision to commit to you and that it was the best decision he’s ever made in his life!<\/p>\n

And don’t forget to enjoy every second of your new journey\u2014called a happy, committed relationship!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 5 motivi scioccanti per cui non dovreste mai forzare un uomo a impegnarsi<\/a><\/p>\n

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