{"id":91804,"date":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91804"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","slug":"non-piacera-a-tutti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-piacera-a-tutti\/","title":{"rendered":"Non piacerai a tutti ed ecco perch\u00e9 va bene cos\u00ec"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent (better said wasted) half of their lives worrying about what other people think and whether they&#8217;re going to like me or not.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Volevo essere venerata e apprezzata dagli altri, sia nella vita reale che su internet. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quindi ero letteralmente pronto a fare QUALSIASI cosa pur di ottenere la loro approvazione.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un po' di tempo per rendermi conto che, facendo tutto questo, mi stavo privando di <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and I&#8217;d become a legit <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persone che piacciono<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I&#8217;d lost touch with my true self and become devoid of personality.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I used to dance to other people&#8217;s tunes, but now I&#8217;m creating my own.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parlando di uno dei pi\u00f9 preziosi <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lezioni di vita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that no one teaches you at school. I no longer worry about being everyone&#8217;s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tazza di t\u00e8<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, being judged, or gossiped about and I&#8217;ve never been happier!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ognuno di noi pu\u00f2 scegliere di abbracciare uno di questi due principi fondamentali:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>a)<\/b> <b><i>Non preoccuparsi di ci\u00f2 che pensano gli altri o di essere apprezzati.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>b)<\/b><b><i> Preoccuparsi di ci\u00f2 che pensano gli altri e cercare attivamente la loro approvazione.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A mio parere, il primo principio si \u00e8 rivelato il pi\u00f9 efficiente e privo di stress, mentre il secondo \u00e8 una scorciatoia per finire in un loop, diminuendo la vostra <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e non avere il controllo del proprio <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la propria vita<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non piacerete a tutti e questo non \u00e8 un problema di cui preoccuparsi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Come superare il fatto che non piacerai a tutti&nbsp;<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Chiedetevi perch\u00e9 avete bisogno di piacere e di essere approvati da tutti.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91822 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg\" alt=\"donna con occhiali da vista che si tocca il mento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram, Facebook, Twitter e altro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">social media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Le app hanno tutte una cosa in comune: Vogliamo essere visti, seguiti, ritwittati, complimentati e cos\u00ec via. Lo stesso vale per la vita reale.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In altre parole:<\/span><b> We want to be liked because it&#8217;s in our <\/b><b>natura umana<\/b><b> (and that&#8217;s totally okay).&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, sometimes this becomes an addiction and we&#8217;re no longer in control of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi capita mai di preoccuparvi per i seguenti tipi di cose? <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why didn&#8217;t he\/she like my <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">post precedente<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Why don&#8217;t they approve of my style \/ ideas \/ habits?&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In caso affermativo, \u00e8 necessario chiedersi perch\u00e9 si ha la tendenza a farlo. Di solito questo \u00e8 legato a un basso livello di <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/passi-verso-lamore-incondizionato-per-se-stessi\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autostima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e la mancanza di attenzione da parte dei genitori durante l'infanzia.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mettendovi in discussione, scoprirete qual \u00e8 la vera ragione che sta dietro al vostro bisogno di piacere e di essere approvati da tutti. Naturalmente, una volta individuato il motivo, \u00e8 necessario iniziare a lavorarci su.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lavorare per sviluppare un rapporto migliore con se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91823 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda che guarda la montagna mentre \u00e8 seduta all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece di cercare di soddisfare ogni <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persona singola<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you come into contact with, you need to start working on winning your own approval. You&#8217;ll do that by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/aumentare-lamore-per-se-stessi-e-smettere-di-sentirsi-indesiderati\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sviluppare un rapporto migliore con se stessi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should only focus on positive things about yourself, but you need to be realistic. You can make a list of things you like about yourself and things you would like to improve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the real definition of who you REALLY are! When you accept yourself for who you are and do your best every day, you won&#8217;t bother with what other people are saying or thinking about you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Think about all those people YOU don&#8217;t like<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91824 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna con rossetto rosso che tiene in mano una tazza bianca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I really love this one because we seldom think about it, but it rings true to the core! Pause for a moment and think about the people in your life that you don&#8217;t really like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, think about why you don&#8217;t like them. Perhaps it\u2019s because they have a weird way of expressing themselves, they are rude, loud, or shy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il passo successivo \u00e8 chiedersi se si tratta di qualcosa che si pu\u00f2 cambiare o di qualcosa che d\u00e0 veramente fastidio.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Credo che la risposta sia la seguente: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, this is not something I can influence and it&#8217;s none of my business. I just don&#8217;t like them and that&#8217;s all.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, that&#8217;s the exact same thing someone who doesn&#8217;t like you would say as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and vice versa. It&#8217;s a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fatto semplice<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you need to ACCEPT as it\u2019s the only way to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">superarlo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Decifrare la differenza tra le credenze e la vera verit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91825 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con capelli ricci in piedi vicino a una pianta verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diverso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tipi di persone<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> come la cassiera del <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">negozio di alimentari<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scuola superiore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> coetanei, colleghi e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">migliori amici<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tutti vi vedono sotto una luce diversa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tutti hanno delle convinzioni sulle persone che li circondano e queste convinzioni non sono necessariamente la vera verit\u00e0.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ricordo il mio <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scuola media<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8220;adventures&#8221; when I wasn&#8217;t liked by some students, so they would spread lies about me. But, I didn&#8217;t really care about it because my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amici intimi<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e sapevo la vera verit\u00e0.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s what you need to do as well! Always decipher the difference between their beliefs and the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le uniche persone che conoscono la vera verit\u00e0 siete voi e coloro che vi conoscono e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ti amo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> per chi siete veramente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn&#8217;t bother with what some irrelevant person in your life thinks about you if you yourself know whether their assumptions are valid or just plain wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controllare la situazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91839 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna con capelli blu seduta su una poltrona\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prima di diventare scontrosi o frustrati per qualcosa, assicuratevi di valutare la situazione.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you found a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nuovo lavoro<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you&#8217;re trying hard to make a good impression, so you work extra hours and do your best every day.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dopo un po' di tempo, si nota che il <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">collaboratore<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t like you and now you&#8217;re wondering about what you have done wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prima di saltare alle conclusioni, \u00e8 necessario verificare l'intera situazione da una prospettiva diversa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chances are high that this colleague feels threatened by you because you&#8217;re diligent, organized, and determined and now you&#8217;re making them feel bad about themselves because they are the total opposite of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho voglia di ripetere ancora: <\/span><b>Not everyone is going to like you and that&#8217;s totally okay!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/come-smettere-di-cercare-conferme-dagli-altri\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Come smettere di cercare la convalida degli altri per iniziare a prosperare<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not everyone&#8217;s cup of tea and this doesn&#8217;t mean there&#8217;s something wrong with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91840 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente seduta sul tetto che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The biggest mistake that many people make is thinking that not being liked by someone means there&#8217;s something wrong with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Insomma, viviamo nel XXI secolo e ci evolviamo ogni giorno, dando vita a una maggiore diversit\u00e0, a nuove cose, a nuove personalit\u00e0 e cos\u00ec via.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Neither you or I are everyone&#8217;s <\/b><b>tazza di t\u00e8<\/b><b> e questo non \u00e8 qualcosa di cui dobbiamo preoccuparci.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m an introvert who gets easily drained by social events and you might be an extrovert who likes partying and social gatherings and this doesn&#8217;t make either of us RIGHT or WRONG.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you should change yourself for the sake of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/uscire-con-gli-introversi-14-cose-fondamentali-da-sapere-prima-di-uscire-con-loro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uscire con gli introversi<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o di piacere e di essere accettati da pi\u00f9 persone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Abbiamo semplicemente preferenze diverse e tutto ci\u00f2 che possiamo fare \u00e8 accettarlo e andare avanti.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t take it personally<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91852 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente con giacca di jeans in piedi vicino al muro dei graffiti\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there&#8217;s one thing you should really MEMORIZE from this entire article, it is the following: <\/span><b>Don&#8217;t let someone <\/b><b>else&#8217;s<\/b><b> l'opinione vi definisce!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because someone doesn&#8217;t approve of your style or choices, you shouldn&#8217;t get offended by it. You can respect their opinion, but never let it define you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t take things personally because you will waste your life thinking about what other people think instead of doing things you enjoy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have the right to express your opinion even if it is different from other people&#8217;s and if they don&#8217;t like it, you shouldn&#8217;t take it personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s the real beauty of being who you are and nourishing your true self. Respecting other people\u2019s opinions, but not letting them define you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re allowed to be who you are<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91856 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente in camicia bianca in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u00ec, voi siete voi e non c'\u00e8 un altro VOI in tutto l'universo. Avete tutto il diritto di essere ci\u00f2 che siete, perch\u00e9 cos\u00ec facendo portate la diversit\u00e0 e la bellezza nel mondo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ora immaginate che ognuno di noi sia uguale e abbia paura di essere diverso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be really hard to differentiate ourselves or fall in love with someone when we&#8217;re all the same (and we would certainly die of boredom).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be proud of who you are and don&#8217;t be afraid to express yourself in every aspect of your life. If you&#8217;re a girl and you want to wear tomboy clothes (even though they are considered unfeminine), then do it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re a guy and you&#8217;re afraid of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/horoscope\/life-horoscope\/zodiac-sign-expresses-emotions\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esprimere le proprie emozioni<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> perch\u00e9 \u00e8 considerato femminile, fatelo lo stesso! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is who you are and if you&#8217;re comfortable with it, there&#8217;s absolutely no reason why you shouldn&#8217;t be YOU.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t overthink it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91857 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda con occhiali da sole sdraiata sull&#039;auto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s potential opinion make you anxious about your own actions. Just remind yourself of the fact that there are also people you don&#8217;t like and it is not a big deal, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, why would you overthink if someone else doesn&#8217;t like you? When you put it that way, it sounds really funny. But, we human beings like to complicate things even when we&#8217;re offered an easy way out.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rilassatevi, fate un respiro profondo e chiedetevi quanto segue: <\/span><b><i>Mi preoccuper\u00f2 ancora di queste stesse cose tra cinque anni?&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me answer this one for you: You won&#8217;t! The truth is, you won&#8217;t remember any of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now it might seem like a big deal if someone doesn&#8217;t like you, but after some time you will find yourself laughing at it and thinking about whether you could have used your time more wisely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>8 Things That Happen When You&#8217;re (Finally) Okay With Not Being Liked By Everyone<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Vi permette di essere chi siete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91869 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente in abito bianco che si tocca i capelli\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I believe there&#8217;s nothing more powerful in the whole wide world than knowing who you are and being proud of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you&#8217;re basically okay with yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You accept the fact that you&#8217;re an imperfect human being and you don&#8217;t worry about it. Instead, you embrace it. You make an effort to be your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">il meglio di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> every day and that&#8217;s all that matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not anxious about expressing yourself in front of other people because you know the only thing that matters is that you believe in what you&#8217;re talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rispettate gli altri e difendete voi stessi e i vostri principi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sapete quando dire di no<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top blu seduta sulla sabbia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non siete pi\u00f9 un <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">persone che piacciono<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You know when to say no because you&#8217;re being true to yourself. If someone asks you to do something you&#8217;re not okay with, you reject them politely and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After that, you don&#8217;t spend the rest of the day worrying about whether they still like you or not. Why? Because you don&#8217;t care.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that you did the right thing and they have a choice to respect that or to hold grudges. And whatever their choice is, you don&#8217;t take it personally.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece di fare di tutto per compiacere tutti quelli che vi circondano, vi concentrate su ci\u00f2 che volete e su ci\u00f2 che vi sembra giusto per voi. Si tratta della dose definitiva di amore e rispetto per se stessi!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-segni-che-sei-una-persona-che-piace-alle-persone\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8 Signs You&#8217;re A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persone che piacciono<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> E come smettere di esserlo<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Potete esprimervi liberamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91880 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con una donna seduta al tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re worried about being liked by everyone, you tend to overthink your words and actions. We all know the drill:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hmm&#8230;if I wear this dress to a party, everyone will think that I overdid it. I probably shouldn&#8217;t wear it (because I don&#8217;t want them to think that I&#8217;m trying too hard. Instead, I want them to like me.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, when you&#8217;re FINALLY okay with not being liked by everyone, you don&#8217;t overthink such things. You think about how you feel in that dress and not about what other people might say.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your own comfort becomes your number one priority and not other people&#8217;s opinions. You&#8217;re not afraid to express yourself in different ways because you know that&#8217;s who you truly are and you&#8217;re not ashamed of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Tu <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/come-lasciare-andare-tutto-2\/\"><b>diventare LIBERI<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if everyone else around you is partying, you&#8217;re not afraid to read a book instead and say that you&#8217;re not interested in going out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the majority of people are wearing\/doing one thing, you&#8217;re not afraid to rock your own style and do what feels natural to you and not someone else.<\/span><b>&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi aiuta a spendere il vostro tempo in modo saggio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top marrone che cammina vicino agli alberi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ho imparato a mie spese che preoccuparsi di ci\u00f2 che pensano gli altri e di piacere a loro \u00e8 un'enorme perdita di tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are so many inspiring, creative things we can do instead of blindly dancing to other people&#8217;s tunes and &#8220;begging&#8221; them to like us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando ce ne rendiamo conto, scegliamo di spendere il nostro tempo con saggezza. Ci concediamo un po' di nutrimento <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/consigli-per-la-cura-di-se\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cura di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> rituali<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Andiamo a fare una passeggiata, andiamo al cinema da soli.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We dance like there&#8217;s no tomorrow (not caring about what others think) and Taylor Swift agrees with us as well:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;&#8216;Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E gli odiatori odieranno, odieranno, odieranno, odieranno, odieranno, odieranno.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me lo scrollo di dosso, me lo scrollo di dosso<\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gli spezzacuori si spezzeranno, si spezzeranno, si spezzeranno, si spezzeranno, si spezzeranno.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E i falsificatori fingeranno, fingeranno, fingeranno, fingeranno, fingeranno, fingeranno.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I shake it off, I shake it off.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Shake It Off)<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Diventate un'ispirazione per gli altri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"donna con rossetto rosso che indossa una giacca nera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questo \u00e8 uno dei miei preferiti. Pensate ai vostri idoli e modelli (se ne avete uno o pochi) e chiedetevi che cosa vi piace di loro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Probabilmente fanno le cose in modo diverso dagli altri, hanno uno stile, un'opinione diversa e cos\u00ec via, giusto?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the reason why you like them!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You see, when you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you become an inspiration to others because you&#8217;re not afraid to be who you are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you wear a different, non-standard outfit to school or work one day. Some people will see you as a weirdo, while others will be inspired by your courage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s exactly what happens with your role models as well. Some people like them and are inspired by them, while others don&#8217;t and that&#8217;s totally okay.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and by being who you are, you\u2019ve got nothing to lose because you become an inspiration to others.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fare del proprio meglio (invece di preoccuparsi) diventa il vostro motto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91891 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top rosso che utilizza il computer portatile mentre \u00e8 seduta al tavolo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cercate di essere il vostro <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">il meglio di s\u00e9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> oggi e ogni giorno, perch\u00e9 fare del proprio meglio diventi il motto della propria vita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You no longer worry whether someone will judge your choices, habits or ideas because you know that you&#8217;re being the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">meglio per te<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pu\u00f2 essere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando lo sapete, vi proteggete da qualsiasi potenziale negativit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t have a problem acknowledging your flaws and quirks, admitting when you&#8217;re wrong, correcting your mistakes, or apologizing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re open to constant growth and that&#8217;s the main thing you&#8217;re focused on. You see every mistake as a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/6-importanti-lezioni-di-vita-che-si-infrangono-con-il-dolore\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">una lezione preziosa<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you don&#8217;t blame yourself or others for it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si vedono le cose come sono e si cerca di migliorarle, accettando anche quelle che non si possono cambiare.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere diversi \u00e8 la chiave del successo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91892 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"donna con due crocchia di capelli che regge occhiali da vista\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Courtney Love once said that: &#8220;All publicity is good publicity to a certain degree&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se il vostro desiderio \u00e8 quello di diventare un influencer (che \u00e8 una delle vocazioni moderne pi\u00f9 popolari al giorno d'oggi), essere diversi vi aiuter\u00e0 in innumerevoli modi.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both people who like you and those who don&#8217;t (good and bad publicity) will make you successful because the only thing that matters is that you&#8217;re a hot topic.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che condividano, commentino e mettano \"mi piace\" alle vostre cose, il che aumenter\u00e0 il vostro profilo e, di conseguenza, il vostro successo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This rule can be applied to every aspect of our lives as well. When we&#8217;re not afraid to be different from others, we develop a different mindset and skills \u2013 like thinking outside the box, for example.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, yes, be different and don&#8217;t worry whether someone will like you or not because this is the key to success.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi aiuta ad attrarre pi\u00f9 cose positive nella vostra vita.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91895 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente in piedi nella foresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you spread positive <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibrazioni<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> intorno a voi stessi e, soprattutto, all'Universo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thinking positively attracts more positive things into your life and that&#8217;s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-passi-per-manifestare-lamore-con-una-persona-specifica-usando-la-legge-di-attrazione\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">la Legge di Attrazione<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qualsiasi cosa pensiate, la attirerete nella vostra vita.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, imagine that you constantly worry about not being liked by others and how it makes you feel miserable. This will only attract more negative things into your life (and you don&#8217;t want that).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91905 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda in piedi in un campo di grano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of worrying about other people&#8217;s approval, the only thing you should be worrying about is being the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whenever you&#8217;re feeling down about the fact that not everyone is going to like you, remember the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>&#8220;You can\u2019t change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it.&#8221;<\/i><\/b><b> \u2013 Mahatma Gandhi<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vedi anche: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-vero-amore-ti-accetta-cosi-come-sei\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True Love Accepts You As You Are, It Doesn&#8217;t Compare You To Others<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-93360 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non piacerai a tutti ed ecco perch\u00e9 va bene cos\u00ec\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp; I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":91820,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91804"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}