{"id":9196,"date":"2020-09-28T11:27:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T11:27:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9196"},"modified":"2021-12-17T01:51:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T01:51:12","slug":"la-ragazza-deve-smettere-di-cercare-di-salvare-le-persone-tossiche","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-deve-smettere-di-cercare-di-salvare-le-persone-tossiche\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che ha bisogno di smettere di cercare di salvare le persone tossiche"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s a hard thing to realize that you’re attracting toxic people<\/a>\u2014let alone realizing that you’re trying to save them, too. You’re someone who knows you were born to help others.<\/p>\n

Sapete che far s\u00ec che le persone trovino la loro strada e diventino le persone che sono sempre state destinate a essere \u00e8 nel vostro sangue. Ma sapete anche che c'\u00e8 un limite che, per qualche motivo, viene sempre superato.<\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 il tipo di persona che metterebbe a rischio la propria vita per salvare chiunque.<\/p>\n

And even though that’s an amazing trait, it leaves you open to being taken advantage of and hurt constantly\u2014which you’ve had to deal with plenty of times before.<\/p>\n

The thing is though, you don’t need to deal with it from toxic people.<\/p>\n

You don’t need to stop helping people, but you do need to stop trying to help persone tossiche<\/a>. You have to start deciding: who deserves you in their life and who doesn’t?<\/p>\n

\"<\/p>\n

La parte pi\u00f9 difficile dell'essere un risparmiatore e una persona che farebbe di tutto per aiutare qualcun altro \u00e8 che si d\u00e0 troppo di s\u00e9 stessi.<\/p>\n

And you don’t ask for anything in return\u2014which leaves you hurting and empty after an encounter with a toxic person.<\/p>\n

Dovete concentrarvi su voi stessi e su ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno, oltre che su ci\u00f2 di cui hanno bisogno gli altri. Siete cos\u00ec inclini a mettere gli altri al primo posto che dimenticate quanto sia importante prendervi cura di voi stessi e di ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>\n

Life is too short to not be enjoying it. And yes, saving people is just what you do, but you can’t save toxic people.<\/p>\n

Toxic people will drain, manipulate, and hurt you\u2014no matter how much they need help and someone in their corner. That person can not be you.<\/p>\n

You’re too kind, too giving, and you have a hard time standing up for yourself. Now this is in no way bad.<\/p>\n

Ma una volta che una persona tossica si impossessa di voi, pu\u00f2 cambiarvi in peggio.<\/p>\n

Cominciano a farvi sentire arrabbiati e feriti per il dono che avete. Vi fanno sentire come se il mondo fosse senza speranza e tutto ci\u00f2 che chiunque far\u00e0 sar\u00e0 solo ferirvi e usarvi.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You’ll go down a path that will kill you from the inside out. And it will be terribly hard to find the person you used to be\u2014the one who only ever wanted to help others.<\/p>\n

It’s going to be hard to say no. These people are going to make you want to cave in and want to help them, but you know all too well what will happen.<\/p>\n

So, please stay strong. Don’t let people who don’t care about your amazing outlook on the world and its people change you. Vi renderanno solo infelici.<\/a><\/p>\n

Toxic people will always be toxic. It’s something they have inside that won’t change unless they change it themselves.<\/p>\n

E quando si tratta di persone come voi, persone che hanno un cuore d'oro, si approfittano di voi il pi\u00f9 possibile.<\/p>\n

Because deep down, they wish that your heart was theirs, and they wish that the world wasn’t so cruel to them and so good to you.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Little do they know, it’s not the world who’s been cruel, it is them.<\/p>\n

But they end up trying to make you a cruel person because they are jealous. It’s a cycle that isn’t fair, but you can stop it.<\/p>\n

Quando si incontra una persona tossica, indipendentemente dal fatto che la si ami o meno, bisogna andarsene.<\/p>\n

You need to remind yourself that your gift of helping people needs to go to those who deserve it\u2014the people who always give something back.<\/p>\n

These are the people who will appreciate you and all you do for them and will never make you feel hurt or like you aren’t getting anything in return.<\/p>\n

Your life, and everyone’s for that matter, is hard enough as it is. So, stop trying to fix those who don’t want to be fixed.<\/p>\n

It will save you so much heartache and it will remind you that some people don’t deserve someone as good as you in their lives.<\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>\n

di Nicole Clements<\/strong><\/p>\n

Read more of Nicole\u2019s articles on her Facebook page<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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