{"id":9218,"date":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9218"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","slug":"programmato-soggiorno-allontanato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/programmato-soggiorno-allontanato\/","title":{"rendered":"Voleva restare, ma lei l'ha respinta."},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Non ha mai pensato di essere perfetta, ma ha cercato di esserlo solo per te.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di coppia sorridente che si abbraccia e si guarda all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aveva occhi solo per te. Voleva essere degna di te e desiderava tanto essere degna del tuo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Sperava che se avesse continuato a essere una versione migliore di se stessa, se si fosse impegnata abbastanza per soddisfare le vostre aspettative, avreste trovato un posto per lei nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Cercava di essere perfetta, di lavorare sui suoi difetti e sorrideva per quanto dolorose diventassero le cose che stava vivendo, sperando sempre che arrivassero giorni migliori.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non desiderava altro che essere presente per voi...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96991\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"Una donna pensierosa appoggia la testa sulla schiena di un uomo mentre si trova all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-puts-head-on-man-back-while-standing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She wasn&#8217;t one of those girls who wanted to have you 24\/7 even though you were on her mind all the time.<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t have sky-high expectations nor did she ever wish to have something you couldn&#8217;t offer her. Actually, she was the one ready to give all of herself to you.<\/p>\n<p>Voleva solo essere presente per te. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tutto-cio-che-ho-sempre-voluto-sei-tu\/\">Voleva far parte della vostra vita.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Voleva essere una persona in cui trovare conforto, voleva che tu sapessi di avere lei, giorno e notte.<\/p>\n<p>When it came to you, she was selfless with how much she gave herself to you. But at the end of the day, you didn&#8217;t grant her that wish either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Voleva amarti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna premurosa che abbraccia un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/thoughtful-woman-hugging-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Voleva che tu fossi la persona a cui avrebbe dato il suo amore. Ha preferito te a tutto e a tutti.<\/p>\n<p>Voleva baciarvi quando eravate tristi, voleva sentire cosa non andava quando eravate arrabbiati e quando eravate frustrati voleva ascoltarvi e aiutarvi a migliorare.<\/p>\n<p>Lei era la tua persona, ma tu non sei mai stato veramente suo. Non le hai mai permesso di avvicinarsi abbastanza da farti provare quello che provava lei.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Conosceva tutti i tuoi difetti, ma li apprezzava comunque quanto i tuoi punti di forza.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che si abbraccia nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-couple-hugging-on-the-nature-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She never expected you to be extraordinary. She never wanted you to be something you weren&#8217;t. She accepted you just like that, just the way you were.<\/p>\n<p>She wasn&#8217;t blind, she was perfectly aware of your flaws, but she still valued them as much as your strengths.<\/p>\n<p>Sapeva che eri solo un essere umano e che, con tutti i tuoi difetti e i tuoi errori, per lei eri ancora perfetto.<\/p>\n<p><i>She should be next to you now, but she isn&#8217;t. <\/i><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">She still can&#8217;t bring herself to hate you, even though you probably deserve it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park..jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia di adolescenti tristi in un parco verde.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park..jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park.-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park.-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park.-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sad-teenage-couple-in-a-green-park.-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If it was any other girl in her place, you&#8217;d be on her list of of people close to her heart to hate. But she can&#8217;t bring herself to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Non importa cosa hai fatto, non importa quanto l'hai fatta sentire inutile, come l'hai fatta sentire non all'altezza e non importa quanto sei indegno del suo amore, lei non sar\u00e0 mai in grado di odiarti.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Anche se voleva restare, l'hai respinta.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che lascia l&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-man-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-man-768x525.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-leaving-man-150x103.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Truth be told, even though she is a good girl and she utterly cares about you, she wasn&#8217;t able to stay. She wanted to, but you gave her no reason to stay.<\/p>\n<p>She couldn&#8217;t continue bringing herself down just so she could keep you up.<\/p>\n<p>Down the road of giving you everything and getting nothing in return, she realized that sometimes you have to take care of yourself and sometimes you have to give up on love even when it&#8217;s not what you really want to do.<\/p>\n<p>So she left. But she didn&#8217;t leave willingly, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/this-is-how-you-pushed-her-away\/\">l'hai allontanata.<\/a>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>L'hai allontanata non dicendole quanto l'amavi, l'hai allontanata non apprezzando i suoi sforzi, non valorizzando tutte le cose che ha fatto per voi due.<\/p>\n<p>L'hai allontanata scegliendo sempre gli altri prima di lei.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non ci sono scuse per quello che le hai fatto...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96997\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia con difficolt\u00e0 relazionali all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Young-couple-with-relationship-difficulties-outside-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t blame it on your past and you can&#8217;t blame it on anything else. You lost a good girl and this one is on you. You broke her.<\/p>\n<p>Non le hai mai dato ci\u00f2 che meritava e tutto ci\u00f2 che ha sempre voluto \u00e8 stato far parte della tua vita. Dovevi solo trasferirti e creare un posto per lei, ma anche questo era troppo da chiedere.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Era unica nel suo genere e tu te la sei lasciata sfuggire...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto di giovane coppia in conflitto nel parco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Portrait-of-young-couple-having-a-conflict-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You should&#8217;ve loved her. You should&#8217;ve appreciated her. But you didn&#8217;t. And that&#8217;s why you don&#8217;t have her anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Quando le hai dimostrato che non c'era posto nella tua vita, quando non le hai dato nulla, si \u00e8 ricomposta e ha avuto abbastanza dignit\u00e0 per andarsene.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t ever blame it on her. Because she didn&#8217;t just walk away.<\/p>\n<p>A girl like her doesn&#8217;t just walk away like that, you pushed her away. But don\u2019t stress about it. She couldn\u2019t stay yours forever.<\/p>\n<p>One day, you will no longer have a place in her heart because there will be someone out there who&#8217;ll notice her. Who&#8217;ll be able to see her for all she is.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who&#8217;ll value her and treat her the way she deserves. But you&#8217;ll never find anyone like her again. She was a once in a lifetime opportunity. And you missed it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-97003 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Voleva restare, ma lei l&#039;ha respinta.\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She never thought she was perfect, but she tried to be perfect just for you She only had eyes for you. She wanted to be worthy of you and she wanted so hard to be worthy of your love. She hoped if she kept being a better version of herself, if she tried enough to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":96989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/She-Planned-To-Stay-But-You-Pushed-Her-Away.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":11,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9218","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9218"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9218\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}