{"id":92852,"date":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=92852"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","slug":"mio-marito-vuole-il-divorzio-ma-io-lo-amo-ancora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-vuole-il-divorzio-ma-io-lo-amo-ancora\/","title":{"rendered":"Mio marito vuole divorziare, ma io lo amo ancora - 16 regole e regole da non rispettare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il mio il marito vuole il divorzio ma Lo amo ancora<\/a>. What we have is worth fighting for and I can’t let years of marriage to my best friend just wither\u2026 Is it too late to make my marriage work?<\/em><\/p>\n

It depends. There are countless factors and underlying issues that could be influencing your husband’s incredibly difficult decision.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, un giorno si \u00e8 svegliato e le ha dato una notizia scioccante.<\/p>\n

Quello che credevate fosse l'ennesimo marted\u00ec mattina si \u00e8 rivelato l'ultima cosa che vi aspettavate: il discorso sul divorzio.<\/p>\n

However, before you’re served actual divorce papers, there’s plenty of time to get to the bottom of your broken marriage and find a glimmer of hope that could salvage it.<\/p>\n

Marriage problems aren’t unusual, but it takes a lot of work to save a marriage that your husband is so eager to end. So let’s get to it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Una relazione disfunzionale: Cos'\u00e8 e come riconoscerne i segni<\/a><\/p>\n

Cosa non fare quando il marito vuole il divorzio<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Before we delve into getting your husband back, first, let’s make sure you don’t manifest any of these behaviors.<\/p>\n

Queste cose ridurranno notevolmente le vostre possibilit\u00e0 di riconciliazione e lo spingeranno solo ad allontanarsi ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Recitare<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, mantenete la calma. Il vostro comportamento durante questo strano periodo \u00e8 di vitale importanza.<\/p>\n

Don’t go all crazy and start drinking and partying.<\/p>\n

Stay away from temptations that will only make your husband more sure of his decision. Don’t bash him on social media either.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 bene rimanere freddi, calmi e raccolti e dedicare molto tempo a riflettere su come evitare il processo di divorzio.<\/p>\n

Don’t immediately think that it’s too late.<\/p>\n

Every married couple has their challenges, it’s all about figuring it out together and looking for that spark if it’s still there.<\/p>\n

Imploratelo di riportarvi indietro<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A healthy relationship doesn’t require begging, pleading, crying, or pressuring your spouse to stay with you, especially if you notice all those signs your husband isn’t in love with you.<\/a><\/p>\n

And I’m certain you don’t want his sense of obligation to keep him by your side.<\/p>\n

Think about your mental health. You’re having a hard time dealing with this as it is. Begging will only make you more desperate.<\/p>\n

Try to find out why he’s so hell-bent on divorcing you in the first place and consider all options before doing something you’ll regret.<\/p>\n

I confini sani sono importanti. Per quanto sia difficile in questo momento, cercate di essere rispettosi e di mantenere la vostra dignit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Cercare di riacquistare il suo amore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Especially if you feel like your actions may have prompted his decision, trying to buy his love won’t get you anything but more misery.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t for sale. And if you did something to jeopardize his trust in you, no money or lavish gifts could compensate \u2013 that is, unless you want him to become your ex-husband soon.<\/p>\n

If you’ve ever been to marriage counseling, you probably understand that buying your loved ones’ love is a surefire step in the wrong direction.<\/p>\n

Concentratevi sulla riconnessione emotiva per evitare le inevitabili montagne russe di emozioni.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Il mio ex sta gi\u00e0 uscendo con un'altra persona e fa male: ecco perch\u00e9<\/a><\/p>\n

Cercare di manipolarlo per farlo rimanere<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s not okay to think Mio marito vuole divorziare, ma io lo amo ancora, e questo mi d\u00e0 il diritto di usare qualsiasi mezzo necessario per tenerlo.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know you’re probably saying to yourself, Il mio divorzio, le mie regole<\/em>ma cercate di mettervi nei suoi panni.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if he manipulated you into staying where you didn’t feel right?<\/p>\n

Love isn’t about manipulation. Love is a natural, organic feeling that’s either there or it isn’t.<\/p>\n

Instead of resorting to manipulative tactics, turn to good friends and say what’s on your heart.<\/p>\n

I love my husband more than anything, but I’d never resort to lowly tactics to save my marriage, and you shouldn’t either.<\/p>\n

Rivolgetevi ai suoi cari perch\u00e9 eseguano i vostri ordini.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I procedimenti di divorzio sono disordinati, complicati e riguardano due persone.<\/p>\n

Don’t involve your close friends or family unless absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il momento di fare un esame di coscienza e di discutere di cose come il mantenimento dei figli, il conto in banca comune e altri aspetti tecnici che devono essere risolti se il divorzio \u00e8 davvero in vista.<\/p>\n

It’s between you two, and no one else. If there’s nothing you can do, the very least you can do is keep it civil.<\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 persone si cerca di coinvolgere, pi\u00f9 la situazione diventa tossica.<\/p>\n

Chiamarlo e mandargli messaggi incessantemente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando mai questa tattica ha fatto s\u00ec che l'altra persona volesse rispondere pi\u00f9 velocemente? Semmai, crea solo maggiore frustrazione.<\/p>\n

Take it easy with the phone calls. Especially if he’s currently sleeping on his best friend’s couch.<\/p>\n

Volete dimostrargli che siete in grado di rispettare i suoi spazi, non il contrario.<\/p>\n

Forse ha solo bisogno di una pausa. Il divorzio \u00e8 un passo importante.<\/p>\n

If he’s rushing into it, this time alone will give him a good chance to consider what this entails.<\/p>\n

You’re more likely to get him back if you grant him the time he needs. After taking a step back, things become clearer.<\/p>\n

Cercate di attirarlo di nuovo ricordandogli i bei momenti trascorsi.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He already knows. It’s not like his memories are suddenly erased and he doesn’t remember how happy you once were.<\/p>\n

No matter what’s keeping him away from you, past memories won’t do the trick.<\/p>\n

Reminiscing will only make it hurt more because it’ll remind him how different things are now.<\/p>\n

And I don’t mean in a good way. You don’t want to have to call him an ex-husband, right?<\/p>\n

So don’t rub it in his face because he’s aware of your happy days.<\/p>\n

Ha solo bisogno di tempo per capire se voi due potete tornare in quel posto.<\/p>\n

Dategli la possibilit\u00e0 di vedere quanto sia stancante un futuro senza di voi.<\/p>\n

Spiare il proprio marito<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Trust is the foundation of every marriage. If you can’t trust your life partner, then who pu\u00f2<\/em> ti fidi?<\/p>\n

Nonostante questa situazione difficile, non abbassatevi mai a seguirlo, a spiarlo, a leggere i suoi messaggi e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

It’s below you, and it’s a sign that il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 davvero al di l\u00e0 della salvezza<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you trusted him, you wouldn’t feel the need to breach his privacy. He’ll tell you what you want to know; just ask him.<\/p>\n

Besides, if you’re certain that he’s keeping secrets from you, how solid was your marriage anyway?<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Relazione incrinata: Definizioni, segni e consigli per superarla<\/a><\/p>\n

Here’s What You SHOULD Do When Dealing With Divorce Talk<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we’ve tackled all the don’ts<\/em> di affrontare questa situazione, ecco le misure proattive che potete adottare per cercare di fargli cambiare idea.<\/p>\n

If anything, it’ll keep your mental health in check.<\/p>\n

Rimanere fiduciosi e forti indipendentemente dalla sua decisione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per quanto sia difficile da digerire in questo momento, la vita va avanti.<\/p>\n

Regardless of what’s going on in his head, your life has to move forward. Especially if there are kids involved.<\/p>\n

You have to remain strong for them too. They need both parents, not just one of you. You can’t take a break from being a mother.<\/p>\n

Quindi cercate di pensare a loro, se non al vostro benessere. Essere forti \u00e8 la vostra unica opzione in questo momento.<\/p>\n

Vivete la vostra vita, fate quello che fate normalmente e pregate per il meglio.<\/p>\n

Hard times make you stronger, one way or another, so keep your spirits high and your chin up. If there’s love, there’s hope.<\/p>\n

Let your husband speak what’s on his heart without judging<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Keep it clean, civil, and classy. There has to be a way in which you can discuss what’s happening without pointing fingers.<\/p>\n

It’s important that your husband knows that you’re eager to save your marriage.<\/p>\n

It’s vital that he knows that this is a safe environment where he can speak freely and honestly.<\/p>\n

Like I said before, without trust, you don’t have much. Trust him to share his feelings openly without lashing out.<\/p>\n

Ha il diritto di provare ci\u00f2 che prova. Riconoscete le sue emozioni, preoccupazioni e frustrazioni se volete trovare una soluzione.<\/p>\n

Siate la versione migliore di voi stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il momento di brillare davvero. Invece di pensare Mio marito vuole il divorzio ma io lo amo ancora<\/em>Siate il meglio di voi stessi e concentratevi su di voi.<\/p>\n

Amare se stessi. Nutritevi. Concentratevi sui vostri bisogni.<\/p>\n

Per un attimo, mettete in secondo piano i vostri problemi matrimoniali e spostate l'attenzione su di voi.<\/p>\n

You are deserving of love. Just because your husband wants a divorce, it doesn’t mean you stop taking care of yourself. This is not the time to fall apart.<\/p>\n

This is your chance to be your best self \u2013 not for him, but for you.<\/p>\n

E quando vi rivedr\u00e0 nel vostro vecchio splendore, potrebbe fargli riconsiderare la sua decisione. Ma qualsiasi cosa facciate, fatela per voi.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Identificare, gestire e sopravvivere a una suocera narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Respect him, he’s still your husband<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Just because you’re dealing with something so messy, complex, and draining, it doesn’t give you the right to be disrespectful toward him.<\/p>\n

He’s still your husband. He’s still the father of your children. Treat him with the same respect you seek in return.<\/p>\n

Mantenere la classe durante questa prova aiuter\u00e0 inevitabilmente la situazione.<\/p>\n

Forse non far\u00e0 tornare suo marito, ma gli dimostrer\u00e0 che, nonostante questa tremenda tristezza, pu\u00f2 trovare la forza e mantenere il rispetto.<\/p>\n

Questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a essere civili gli uni con gli altri, cosa che i vostri figli apprezzeranno pi\u00f9 di chiunque altro.<\/p>\n

State lontani dalle discussioni tossiche<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

If your husband tries to bait you into having meaningless, toxic fights, don’t indulge him.<\/p>\n

Hopefully, you’re dealing with it in a healthy way. But if you’re not, you can be the bigger person.<\/p>\n

A seconda dei problemi che circondano il discorso sul divorzio (mancanza di tempo di qualit\u00e0, relazione emotiva, perdita di fiducia, ecc.<\/p>\n

Just because you’re steering clear of pointless arguments, doesn’t mean you have to smile and dance around him.<\/p>\n

Tutto dipende dai problemi che affliggono il vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

But my advice is to stay away from anything that doesn’t nurture your well-being.<\/p>\n

Provare la terapia di coppia<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Se riuscite a convincere vostro marito a unirsi a voi, questo potrebbe essere il passo giusto per la salvezza del vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

It’s not easy admitting that you need help. It’s definitely even more difficult to relay all your personal issues and flaws to a third party.<\/p>\n

Ma se si pensa a tutti i possibili vantaggi, bisogna almeno prenderla in considerazione.<\/p>\n

You could be dealing with something that a trained professional can help you find a way out of. Don’t be embarrassed to seek help.<\/p>\n

Only those who know when to ask for help ultimately end up finding what they’re looking for.<\/p>\n

Dategli lo spazio di cui ha bisogno<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Most importantly, give him room to breathe. Give him time to consider if he really wants this or if it’s just a minor bump in the road.<\/p>\n

Invece di essere cos\u00ec fissati su Mio marito vuole il divorzio, ma io lo amo ancora,<\/em> concentrarsi per dargli il tempo di rivalutare il suo<\/em> esigenze.<\/p>\n

He’s having a hard time too, you know?<\/p>\n

Just because he was the one asking for the divorce, does not mean he’s happy it has come to this.<\/p>\n

Anni di matrimonio buttati al vento sono l'ultima cosa che si desidera.<\/p>\n

Space could be the only thing keeping you married at this point. Don’t crowd him and ruin your chances of reconciliation.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Sfida di 30 giorni per l'amore di s\u00e9: diventare la versione migliore di se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

Mantenere la vita di tutti i giorni come prima<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Non solo dovreste continuare a svolgere le vostre attivit\u00e0 quotidiane, ma dovreste considerare di aggiungerne altre.<\/p>\n

For example, if you’ve been neglecting spending time with close friends, now’s the time to catch up.<\/p>\n

There is always something keeping you from just going out and unwinding. Now’s your chance to do what’s best for voi<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Per un momento, dimenticate i vostri problemi coniugali e ritrovate voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Dedicarsi a una vita sana. Trovate un nuovo hobby e fate esercizio fisico.<\/p>\n

Questo vi far\u00e0 sentire inevitabilmente pi\u00f9 forti, migliori, ringiovaniti e in grado di affrontare qualsiasi ostacolo.<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 ricordare a voi stessi la vostra forza e la vostra perseveranza, indipendentemente dallo stato del vostro matrimonio. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Understand that you’re just as powerful without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa accada tra voi due, voi siete abbastanza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ve done the best that you could and whatever happens next, you’ll be okay. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but someday.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Non c'\u00e8 sfida abbastanza forte da distruggere il vostro matrimonio, purch\u00e9 entrambi siate disposti a smettere di lottare l'uno contro l'altro e a iniziare a lottare l'uno per l'altro.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Dave Willis<\/p>\n

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