{"id":9304,"date":"2020-11-29T21:38:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-29T21:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9304"},"modified":"2022-01-27T23:26:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-27T23:26:59","slug":"la-ragazza-dal-lato-brutto-si-prende-sempre-cura-degli-altri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-dal-lato-brutto-si-prende-sempre-cura-degli-altri\/","title":{"rendered":"Il lato brutto di essere una ragazza che si prende sempre cura degli altri"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re always there for people who need a friend…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Siete il tipo di persona su cui si pu\u00f2 sempre contare. Giorno e notte, siete sempre a disposizione di chi ha bisogno.<\/p>\n

E la gente conta su di te soprattutto perch\u00e9 trovi sempre la cosa giusta da dire al momento giusto.<\/p>\n

Your comfort feels so good and that\u2019s why people always rely on you when they need a friend.<\/p>\n

You never get to treat people the way they treat you…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You live by your own rules and even though you\u2019d want to treat people the way they treat you to teach them a lesson, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t because you\u2019re not that kind of a person.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body and you can never make others taste their own medicine.<\/p>\n

Quando ti danno un pugno, tu rispondi con gentilezza, cercando sempre di non fare cose cattive alle persone.<\/p>\n

You forgive easily…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Since you\u2019re the type of person who always tries to understand others, you have a hard time holding grudges.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto qualcuno vi abbia ferito, non importa quanto a lungo sentiate quel dolore presente in voi, si perdona abbastanza facilmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che qualcuno ti fa del male<\/a>Si cerca di mettersi nei loro panni e si finisce per perdonarli.<\/p>\n

You forgive too much…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

No matter how many times someone has shown you that you shouldn\u2019t trust them, you keep placing your hand in the fire, hoping this time you won\u2019t get burned.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just not the type of person who remembers bad things.<\/p>\n

And sometimes even if you don\u2019t forget that someone did you wrong, you needing to take care of people is always bigger than your pain.<\/p>\n

You often forget about yourself because of others…<\/h2>\n

\"ragazze<\/p>\n

Forse quel giorno volete fare qualcosa solo per voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Forse avete deciso che questo periodo sar\u00e0 dedicato a voi e solo a voi, ma ogni volta che qualcuno viene a chiedervi aiuto, dimenticate tutto quello che avete in ballo, tutto quello che avete programmato, e decidete di occuparvi prima di tutto dei suoi bisogni.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you never have time for yourself.<\/p>\n

People are used to your kindness…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body and people know that.<\/p>\n

Ottenere la vostra gentilezza<\/a>avere voi intorno a voi per prendervi cura di loro, sono cose che dovreste fare perch\u00e9 non hanno mai sentito la vostra assenza.<\/p>\n

Eravate sempre presenti quando avevano bisogno di voi e avere intorno delle brave persone \u00e8 una cosa a cui ci si abitua molto in fretta.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s never something extraordinary when you do a favor for others because that\u2019s something they\u2019re expecting from you anyway.<\/p>\n

You feel bad for saying \u2018no\u2019…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Because people got used to your kindness and your favors, they are surprised when they see you with too much on your plate and you trying to say \u2018no\u2019 to them.<\/p>\n

I wrote \u2018trying\u2019 for a reason, because even though you feel like saying \u2018no\u2019 to them, your guilty conscience doesn\u2019t allow you to do it.<\/p>\n

It would keep you awake at night and it would make you feel bad or make you feel like a bad person and that\u2019s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n

So you end up doing things for other people who don\u2019t deserve you lifting one finger for them.<\/p>\n

Nobody knows how you feel…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

The worst part of being a girl who always takes care of others is to see that there isn\u2019t anyone to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Anche voi cadete in un buco nero. Puoi essere gi\u00f9 di morale, puoi anche sentirti male con la tua vita. Ma nessuno se ne accorge.<\/p>\n

Nessuno saprebbe cosa fare di te.<\/p>\n

So you don\u2019t let others know how you feel. You bottle your feelings up and you decide to take care of yourself alone.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re never treated the way you deserve to be treated…<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Il lato negativo dell'essere una ragazza che si prende cura degli altri \u00e8 il fatto che le persone non si comportano mai con te come dovrebbero.<\/p>\n

Non ti trattano mai come meriti di essere trattato.<\/p>\n

You deserve the world. You deserve someone who\u2019ll know how to treat you.<\/p>\n

Anche voi meritate di prendervi cura di voi. Meritate l'amore che continuate a dare agli altri. E sperate di ottenerlo un giorno.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ci riuscirete, basta avere pazienza.<\/p>\n

Il lato bello di essere una ragazza che si prende sempre cura degli altri \u00e8 il fatto che l\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 una persona che \u00e8 calorosa e gentile proprio come voi.<\/p>\n

That person is going through whatever you\u2019re going through as well.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t lose hope and don\u2019t turn out to be like everyone else in this world.<\/p>\n

Rimanete fedeli a voi stessi, in modo che la vostra anima gemella possa riconoscervi una volta che vi sarete incontrati.<\/p>\n

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You\u2019re always there for people who need a friend… You\u2019re the type of person whom people can always count on. Day and night, you\u2019re always available for those in need. And people count on you mostly because you always find the right thing to say at the right moment. Your comfort feels so good and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":124312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Always-Takes-Care-Of-Others-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9304\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}