{"id":93293,"date":"2020-09-11T12:55:48","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T12:55:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93293"},"modified":"2022-07-15T07:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T07:43:01","slug":"non-lasciare-che-un-altro-uomo-consumi-il-mio-tempo-e-le-mie-energie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-lasciare-che-un-altro-uomo-consumi-il-mio-tempo-e-le-mie-energie\/","title":{"rendered":"Non permetter\u00f2 mai a un altro uomo di consumare il mio tempo e le mie energie senza meritarseli per primo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Credo nella parit\u00e0 di sforzo. Mancanza di impegno<\/a> shows me nothing but a lack of interest and that’s not how I imagine my relationship to be. <\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, it’s a huge turn-off.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I want a passionate and meaningful relationship where we both completely support each other and understand each other\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n

Voglio un uomo che apprezzi le mie attenzioni e il mio amore per lui, senza darli per scontati. Voglio Ogni giorno \u00e8 importante<\/a> ed essere speciali.<\/p>\n

I want to be sure he\u2019s my soulmate and I want to proudly call him the l'amore della mia vita.<\/em><\/p>\n

That requires a lot of patience and time, but I’m willing to give it if he shows me an appreciation and desire to do the same.<\/p>\n

I want a love that’s always evolving and growing, not one where I\u2019m stuck in something stagnant and directionless.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Voglio che la mia energia venga restituita, voglio essere nutrito da essa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi sono gi\u00e0 bruciata cercando di dare una possibilit\u00e0 a un uomo senza ottenere nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n

I let him waste my time and my energy I could’ve saved for myself and my aspirations \u2013 or a better man.<\/p>\n

Era ignaro del potenziale del mio amore, quindi non aveva senso cercare di dimostrarlo.<\/p>\n

This time, I’ll do it differently.<\/p>\n

This time I won’t take the active role if he does nothing to inspire it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I won’t make the first move or take action before he proves he’s worthy of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

E come fa un uomo a dimostrare di essere degno? Mettendosi d'impegno. Mostrando un'autentica attenzione per il vostro benessere e perseguendo voi e solo voi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your mind convince you you\u2019re not worthy of someone\u2019s attenzione totale<\/a>. If the man is right \u2013 he won\u2019t have a doubt.<\/p>\n

He will do anything to win your heart and prove to you that he\u2019s the one you can trust and build your life with.<\/p>\n

I need to protect my heart because it’s already been broken by a careless man and I have no desire to relive that scenario.<\/p>\n

I learn from my mistakes and one of the most profound things I learned is that love shouldn’t be about going out of your way to please another person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, that\u2019s the worst thing you can do.<\/p>\n

La base di ogni relazione sana \u00e8 la libert\u00e0 di essere se stessi e di comportarsi come tali mentre un'altra persona fa lo stesso.<\/p>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Mettete lo stesso impegno extra nelle altre relazioni della vostra vita o solo in quelle sentimentali?<\/p>\n

Sono molto pi\u00f9 sane delle vostre relazioni sentimentali?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes like I imagine, I think there\u2019s a reason for that. It\u2019s because we feel less pressure and act more like ourselves.<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, la maggior parte delle relazioni inizia cercando di apparire e di essere migliori per la persona che ci piace, e nel processo di ottenere il suo amore e la sua attenzione, perdiamo lentamente noi stessi.<\/p>\n

Non perdere mai te stesso. Essere voi<\/em> \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 attraente che possiate fare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Per essere voi<\/em> is exactly what\u2019s going to attract the right man into your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amate prima di tutto voi stessi. Dedicatevi del tempo. Dedicatevi attenzione. Costruite la vostra energia.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Be passionate about life and yourself. Don\u2019t wait for someone else to start living your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You start living your life right now \u2013 you don\u2019t need anyone else.<\/p>\n

After you start shining in your authenticity, that\u2019s when the man who can follow you will notice your shine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t dim your own light or think you\u2019re less than, just because your love life has had its ups and downs.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s perfectly fine. We\u2019re here to learn.<\/p>\n

You still have the time and the energy \u2013 only this time around, use it wisely.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Questa volta, datelo a voi stessi e guardate come l'amore per voi stessi si trasforma in tutti gli altri tipi di amore che desiderate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I believe in equal effort. Lack of effort shows me nothing but a lack of interest and that’s not how I imagine my relationship to be. In fact, it’s a huge turn-off. I want a passionate and meaningful relationship where we both completely support each other and understand each other\u2019s needs. I want a man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":93382,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Ill-Never-Let-Another-Man-Consume-My-Time-And-Energy-Without-Deserving-Them-First.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93293","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93293"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93293\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}