{"id":93494,"date":"2020-09-16T22:06:41","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T22:06:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93494"},"modified":"2021-11-03T15:14:23","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T15:14:23","slug":"la-vita-e-disordinata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-vita-e-disordinata\/","title":{"rendered":"La vita \u00e8 disordinata: ecco 8 motivi per cui dovreste abbracciarla completamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

La vita reale \u00e8 disordinata. E per quanto tutti ci sforziamo di condurre una vita perfetta, ci saranno sempre giorni belli e giorni brutti. <\/p>\n

You cannot escape the messiness of life no matter how much of a perfectionist you are (trust me, I’ve tried). It’s time to embrace, accept and learn to love the total mess your life can be at times. Why?<\/p>\n

Because if you keep striving for perfection, you’re never going to be happy. If you keep looking for that <\/b>pezzo mancante<\/b> invece di vivere il tuo <\/b>vita disordinata<\/b> Non \u00e8 detto che, se non si riesce a sfruttare appieno il proprio potenziale, la felicit\u00e0 non possa passare.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lasciate andare il vostro bisogno di avere il controllo e sappiate quando dire addio a quegli obiettivi irraggiungibili che vi fanno sentire cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

L'ossessione per la perfezione non far\u00e0 altro che peggiorare il vostro benessere e vi porter\u00e0 a un inevitabile fallimento.<\/p>\n

Instead, hear me out when I tell you that embracing life’s messiness is the most gracious thing you can do for yourself. And here’s why!<\/b><\/p>\n

L'ossessione per una perfezione irraggiungibile fa perdere di vista se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Chi eravate prima che il vostro bisogno di perfezione vi superasse e iniziasse a essere la vostra guida nella vita? <\/p>\n

Di che cosa vi siete occupati? Avete messo in pratica la cura di voi stessi ogni giorno e la vostra vita \u00e8 stata disordinata ma ne \u00e8 valsa la pena?<\/p>\n

Remind yourself of this person! Remind yourself of all the hard work you put into everything that you do. You’re more than your need for perfection.<\/p>\n

You’re more than that one unattainable goal that’s been bugging you for years.<\/p>\n

Siete perfetti esattamente come siete. Non manca nulla nella vostra vita, se non un piccolo controllo della realt\u00e0. You don’t need to be perfect to be amazing.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don’t have to keep pushing yourself beyond your limits to the point of forgetting to just sit back and enjoy life.<\/b><\/p>\n

Give yourself a break with everything you’ve done and all you’ve been through. You work hard, take care of your loved ones, put real food on the table and keep a tidy home.<\/p>\n

So what if it gets messy sometimes? That’s a sign you’re alive. Fully embrace every part of yourself and love every single flaw that makes you unique.<\/p>\n

Trying to be someone you’re not is messy work. Be your unapologetic, authentic self and remind yourself to enjoy the little things.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Relazione incrinata: Definizione, segni e consigli per superarla<\/a><\/p>\n

The voice telling you that you need to be perfect doesn’t really matter<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La perfezione \u00e8 una piaga che ha invaso la nostra societ\u00e0. I media continuano a promuovere immagini corporee malsane e vite apparentemente perfette che in realt\u00e0 sono ben lontane.<\/p>\n

Nessuno ha tutto. Nessuno \u00e8 pienamente soddisfatto di ogni aspetto della propria vita senza un solo rimpianto. Ma nessuno scriver\u00e0 di questo.<\/p>\n

Nobody will tell you that it’s totally okay to be average but happy.<\/p>\n

Nobody is going to tell you that leading tidy lives will ultimately keep you wondering what could’ve been if you weren’t so focused on the next thing.<\/p>\n

What I’m trying to say is this: That voice that keeps telling you to keep reaching for more and to never settle for less doesn’t carry any significance. <\/p>\n

It’s just what the outside world has instilled in you. It’s not real.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s countless hours spent looking at Victoria’s Secret supermodels. It’s bingeing TV shows filled with gorgeous girls who seemingly have it all.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s your best friend whose body looks smashing no matter how much she eats and her face that could be compared to those of the biggest beauties of today.<\/p>\n

Ma dovete smettere di lasciare che queste cose influenzino la vostra mentalit\u00e0. La vita \u00e8 disordinata. Le persone sono disordinate. Anche le persone pi\u00f9 ordinate hanno cose che le turbano nel profondo.<\/p>\n

Smettetela di farvi pressioni inutili e, invece di guardare le top model in bikini, guardate Harry Potter e scoprite che cos'\u00e8 davvero la vita.<\/p>\n

Friendship, overcoming obstacles with the help of your nearest and dearest and being happy just the way you are. Don’t let social media and Facebook groups tell you differently.<\/p>\n

Le persone felici sono troppo soddisfatte della propria vita per pubblicarla online. <\/b>Pensateci un attimo.<\/p>\n

Your flaws and imperfections are what’s so awesome about you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Smettetela di guardare ai vostri difetti. Smettete di pensare che le persone vi vedano solo superficialmente. Voi siete al di l\u00e0 di questo. Anzi, le cose che odiate di voi stessi sono quelle da cui gli altri sono pi\u00f9 probabilmente attratti!<\/p>\n

Le tue innumerevoli lentiggini, la tua personalit\u00e0 forte, il tuo modo di dire e la tua totale apertura ti rendono cos\u00ec speciale.<\/p>\n

You might think that these make you less awesome but it’s the opposite. These things make you stand out from the rest.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every single thing you yearn to change is what someone loves about you. We are our own worst critic and that’s the understatement of the century.<\/p>\n

Here’s what I suggest you do. Whenever you start feeling like you’re not enough or like your life is anywhere but where you want it to be, put yourself in your best friend’s shoes.<\/p>\n

What would she\/he tell you if they were with you right now? And be honest with yourself. You know that they would tell you’re so much more than that dream you still haven’t achieved.<\/p>\n

They’d tell you that your flaws are actually cute, peculiar qualities that people find surprisingly adorable. They would never let you be so hard on yourself. <\/p>\n

And they’d be right. Everything we want to change about ourself is exactly what makes us so unique. Why would you want to be like someone else anyway?<\/p>\n

It’s better to stand out with your uniqueness than to be bland and go with the crowd.<\/b> You’re too awesome for that anyway.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: My Ex is Dating Someone Else Already And It Hurts – This Is Why<\/a><\/p>\n

La perfezione non lascia spazio alla crescita<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Pensateci. La cosa che desiderate cos\u00ec profondamente \u00e8 un luogo stagnante. Non si pu\u00f2 andare da nessuna parte se non verso il basso. Una volta raggiunta la perfezione, dove si pu\u00f2 andare dopo?<\/p>\n

Everything that follows will be a massive let-down because in that perfect bubble, there is no room left for you to grow, change and achieve more than you ever could’ve hoped for.<\/p>\n

Non ci sono pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0. Quindi, se ci pensate bene, \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec allettante?<\/p>\n

Commettendo errori e accettando il concetto che <\/b>la vita \u00e8 disordinata<\/b>Si d\u00e0 costantemente l'opportunit\u00e0 di imparare e di migliorarsi attraverso l'esperienza.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s what grounds you, shapes you and ultimately makes you who you are. Being imperfect means always striving for more but never to the point of being obsessed with something as unattainable as perfection.<\/p>\n

Nutrite un ambiente che vi permetta di essere ci\u00f2 che siete, senza aspettative, limitazioni o vincoli assurdi.<\/p>\n

For the first time ever, try to see the beauty that lies in all the messiness that’s ahead. Yes, you’ll make mistakes and no, life won’t always be a breeze but that’s okay.<\/p>\n

When you go through life with the right, realistic mindset, you’ll see the beauty that lies everywhere around you. Your messy kitchen counter means you’re not hungry. <\/p>\n

Your untidy living room means that people live there freely and happily. Your job that you’re not sure you want to keep means that you’ll likely push yourself to find something that fulfills you.<\/p>\n

All of these things bring endless possibilities. It’s all about how you choose to see it. Abbracciate il vostro <\/b>vita disordinata<\/b>; si ha solo una possibilit\u00e0 di farlo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Embracing life’s messiness means you’re in control of your happiness<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Si tratta di prendersi cura di se stessi e di assicurarsi di vivere una vita in accordo con le proprie esigenze. il tuo <\/i>aspettative.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to please anyone else but your own self. You don’t have to let anyone tell you how to live your life because it’s none of their business!<\/p>\n

Don’t let them tell you that you’re not enough. Don’t let them make you feel less worthy because you still haven’t got it all figured out. It’s your life, your rules and your own pace.<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 chi sa chi \u00e8 e cosa vuole a 20 anni e chi invece impiega decenni per capire davvero tutto. E allora?<\/b><\/p>\n

Life is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time. Just because things are a bit messy now, it doesn’t mean it’ll be that way forever!<\/b><\/p>\n

Who gets to tell you how to be happy? Nobody but you. Because you’re the only one who knows what soothes your soul.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You’re the only one who knows what makes your heart sing. So what if you’re still not there? One day, you’ll be just as happy (if not happier) as you wish you were right now.<\/p>\n

Maybe you’re currently struggling. Maybe you’ve swerved off the path you want to be taking. Don’t worry about it. We all get lost sometimes non sapendo cosa fare della nostra vita<\/a>. It’s not the end of the world.<\/p>\n

Trust me; when I pictured my life at my current age, I definitely didn’t think things would be the way they are. But I’m still happy. <\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter that I had a different vision for where I’d be today. Life had other plans and I’m totally okay with that. Just because you think something will make you happy, it doesn’t necessarily mean that it will.<\/p>\n

Ten years ago, I probably would have been shocked and disappointed if I had known that most of the things I’d envisioned for myself wouldn’t have panned out. But today, I’m fulfilled just the way that I am. <\/p>\n

La vita ha uno strano modo di risolversi nel modo in cui non avreste mai immaginato. Basta aspettare. <\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Identificare, gestire e sopravvivere a una suocera narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Vi aiuta a connettervi con il vostro vero io<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You have to be honest with yourself; if you’re not, what’s the point? You’re never going to be truly happy. You’re never going to be able to be in touch with your feelings.<\/p>\n

But embracing the fact that yeah, life is messy, but it doesn’t mean that you’re doing it wrong will fuel you to keep being true to who you are.<\/p>\n

Vita reale<\/b> isn’t all roses and butterflies. It’s every struggle, failure and sadness in-between. It’s every uncomfortable moment that makes you see who your real friends are.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s every tear you spilled over someone who didn’t deserve you. It’s giving yourself a break after a long, hard day and choosing not to clean the house because you just don’t have the energy.<\/p>\n

That’s life. That’s what’s real. Not pretending to be anything more or less than what you are. <\/b><\/p>\n

When you’re able to embrace it and be okay with every single part of life, even the most uncomfortable parts, you’ll be your best self.<\/p>\n

You’re no good to anyone (especially to yourself) if you keep forcing yourself to be someone you’re not. It’ll keep you perpetually jaded, unfulfilled and miserable.<\/p>\n

Tenete la testa alta e il mento alto. Le cose belle stanno per arrivare. Ma dovete anche abbracciare tutto ci\u00f2 che accade nel mezzo.<\/p>\n

That’s life and that’s the only way to live it. Know that being true to yourself is the only way to go. And if there’s anyone in your life making you feel bad about it, discard them.<\/p>\n

Le vostre emozioni disordinate vi porteranno a rivelazioni inaspettate.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quante volte avete pensato a voi stessi che l'unico modo per essere visti come belli, degni e amabili \u00e8 indossare una maschera e negare la vera essenza di chi siete?<\/p>\n

How many times have you let yourself believe that in order to live up to someone’s expectations you had to tame some part of yourself?<\/p>\n

La vera accettazione deriva dalla capacit\u00e0 di riconoscere che le cose inaspettate in realt\u00e0 portano una saggezza infinita.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ogni singola cosa che vi ha fatto sentire a disagio e a disagio vi ha anche fatto capire tante cose.<\/p>\n

For example, that thing you recently went through; you never would’ve thought that you’d be able to do it, right?<\/p>\n

And look at you now, as if it never happened. That’s what usually happens with unexpected, messy hurdles. They bring you new realizations that are inspiring and encouraging.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che pensate che qualcosa vi distrugger\u00e0 mentalmente, finisce per rendervi pi\u00f9 forti, pi\u00f9 intelligenti e pi\u00f9 perseveranti. <\/p>\n

That’s because until you’re in a situation that demands you to do things you never thought you could, you never really know how capable you are.<\/p>\n

So embrace your messy emotions. Embrace that rocky path. You have to learn to appreciate every single thing you go through because that\u2019s what makes you so strong in the end.<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 disordinata<\/b> and perfection isn’t real. Whoever tells you differently lives in a bubble that’s about to burst.<\/b> <\/p>\n

Let go of your need to censor and control your emotions. Instead, let them rule you and see how better you’ll be for it. The good days are right now. Learn to see them and cherish them.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Sfida di 30 giorni per l'amore di s\u00e9: diventare la versione migliore di se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

Ultimately, accepting life’s messiness feels all kinds of freeing!<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

As I’ve already established, nobody in this world has it all. Not one person leads a perfect life filled with sunshine and rainbows. So why do you keep expecting to get to a place that doesn’t exist?<\/p>\n

Abbracciate la vostra vita cos\u00ec com'\u00e8. Disordinata, imprevedibile, piena di sorprese inaspettate, ma autentica e reale!<\/b><\/p>\n

You’re not a robot. Things won’t always automatically be great but that’s okay!<\/p>\n

Il disordine e gli errori sono strumenti che vi liberano dall'incessante bisogno di fare tutto bene. Ed \u00e8 una bella sensazione una volta che si impara ad accettarla.<\/p>\n

So what if things are a bit confusing right now? So what if you’re stuck in a job you don’t like or in a city you want to escape? It’s not going to last forever.<\/p>\n

Life has this miraculous way of working itself out in the most unexpected ways. Things rarely pan out exactly the way you envisioned they would. But that’s the beauty of life!<\/p>\n

You never really know what you’re getting and it keeps you on your toes every single day. <\/b>Isn’t that the best way to live?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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