{"id":93528,"date":"2020-09-16T22:06:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T22:06:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93528"},"modified":"2022-11-20T15:10:22","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T15:10:22","slug":"quando-tuo-marito-guarda-unaltra-donna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-tuo-marito-guarda-unaltra-donna\/","title":{"rendered":"Cosa significa quando il marito guarda un'altra donna?"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you’re having difficulties deciphering what’s really going on in his brain when your husband looks at another woman, you’re just in the right place!<\/p>\n

Prima di approfondire l'argomento <\/b>occhieggiare<\/b> comportamento, voglio che immaginiate il seguente scenario:<\/b><\/p>\n

You’re sitting in a cafe or a restaurant with your husband and you’re having a good time. You laugh, you drink, you eat, and everything seems idyllic.<\/p>\n

Poi una donna entra nel locale (o passa davanti al vostro tavolo) e nello stesso istante notate che il vostro uomo ha alzato la testa per osservarla dalla testa ai piedi.<\/p>\n

Iniziate subito a sentirvi sopraffatti, confusi, insicuri e in un certo senso traditi. Iniziate a porvi domande come:<\/p>\n

Does he think she’s more beautiful and attractive than me? Does he want to be with her? OMG, what if he’s already been with another woman?\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If this sounds familiar to you, I want you to know that you’re not alone on this one. This is exactly what I and my female friends felt every time our men would observe other women.<\/p>\n

A un certo punto ho pensato di impazzire, ma poi ho attivato la mia parte razionale del cervello che mi ha ricordato che a TUTTI GLI UOMINI piace guardare!<\/p>\n

Gli uomini sono creature visive e la loro tendenza a <\/b>occhieggiare<\/b> con altre donne di solito non ha nulla a che fare con <\/b>questioni pi\u00f9 profonde<\/b>, ma solo <\/b>natura umana<\/b>.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Just because your man looks at another woman, this doesn’t mean that he finds you less beautiful or attractive and that he’s no longer interested in being with you.<\/p>\n

But, in some cases, your overthinking might be justified (especially if he’s been unfaithful to you in the past).<\/p>\n

Per aiutarvi a capire cosa pu\u00f2 significare quando vostro marito guarda un'altra donna e cosa fare al riguardo (ammesso che ci sia qualcosa da fare), continuate a leggere qui di seguito.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 gli uomini hanno la tendenza a guardare le altre donne<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quando suo marito guarda un'altra donna, cosa pensa?<\/b><\/p>\n

Instead of isolating your case from the rest of the husbands, wives, and male species, I’ll approach it from the general point of view.<\/p>\n

A differenza delle donne, gli uomini hanno questa capacit\u00e0 di essere attratti dall'altro sesso a livello esclusivamente fisico, senza la necessit\u00e0 di stabilire un legame emotivo.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa che un uomo in un relazione impegnata<\/a> pu\u00f2 essere fisicamente attratto da un'altra donna, anche se ama e rispetta profondamente la sua donna.<\/p>\n

We, women, are more emotionally-oriented creatures and haven’t been blessed with this physical “gift.” That is why it is so hard for us to understand why men do that in the first place.<\/p>\n

Sono guidati dai loro istinti naturali!<\/b><\/p>\n

Gli uomini sono attratti dal nuovo e dal diverso e, se serve un colpevole, la colpa \u00e8 dell'evoluzione.<\/p>\n

Mentre le donne sono programmate per svolgere il ruolo pi\u00f9 sensibile di madre e moglie, gli uomini si preoccupano essenzialmente di diffondere i propri geni.<\/p>\n

So, staring at other women is their natural, biological instinct \u2013 they don’t do it because they want to, but because their body is “forcing” them to.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that they would jump on another woman if you weren’t there with them. Hanno la capacit\u00e0 di decidere di non agire in base ai propri impulsi quando sono circondati da <\/b>donne attraenti<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s important to add that their natural instincts and impulses are being challenged every single day. And do you know how? One word: I media<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Sappiamo tutti che tutti questi annunci sono ricchi di belle donne<\/a>, ladies in bikinis with hot makeup \u2013 even naked women.<\/p>\n

And the main idea of all this is to draw the public\u2019s attention to a certain product by creating lusting.<\/p>\n

As you can see, the media is playing tricks on men and there’s nothing they can do about it.<\/p>\n

Guarderanno quell'annuncio OGNI. SINGOLO. VOLTA.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if they’re not even interested in what\u2019s being advertised, they’ll still do it because their instinct is telling them to do so. (Not to talk about the porn industry that\u2019s the cause of many men\u2019s porn addiction.)<\/p>\n

All I can say is that the media is one cruel place, making other women lose their self-worth and self-esteem just because they’re convinced that they have to look like those models.<\/p>\n

You don’t! Given that this is a topic for another article, leggete questa frase ogni volta che iniziate a paragonarvi a una ragazza pi\u00f9 carina<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 19 segnali allarmanti che indicano che al marito piace una collega + come metterlo alla prova<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando guardare altre donne diventa un problema<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un buon uomo \u00e8 consapevole di avere una moglie meravigliosa e tiene sempre presente quanto segue: I’m a <\/i>uomo sposato<\/i> e non farei mai qualcosa di stupido n\u00e9 farei del male a mia moglie in alcun modo.<\/i><\/p>\n

Quando un uomo vuole far sentire la propria donna amata e protetta, far\u00e0 di tutto per riuscirci. Qualsiasi altra cosa \u00e8 solo una scusa per il suo comportamento egoista.<\/p>\n

Now, that we got that straight, let’s see when looking at other women becomes something you should worry about.<\/p>\n

Well, looking at other women becomes a problem when physical attraction turns into lust that they are not in control of (or don’t want to be in control of).\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando gli uomini perdono l'autocontrollo, iniziano a flirtare con altre donne e alla fine diventano dei veri e propri traditori.<\/p>\n

Il flirt \u00e8 una delle le maggiori bandiere rosse<\/a> and if you notice your husband doing it, then you know it’s not only his natural instinct at work here, but something more than that.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che c'\u00e8 una grande differenza tra lanciare un'occhiata veloce e continuare a guardare, forzare il contatto visivo o addirittura flirtare con altre donne.<\/p>\n

Il lancio di un'occhiata veloce \u00e8 innescato dal suo istinto naturale, ma il flirtare e l'imbambolare continuamente sono innescati da un'intensa lussuria, che potrebbe essere potenzialmente pericolosa se il vostro uomo si sta deliberatamente privando dell'autocontrollo.<\/p>\n

5 segni che vostro marito potrebbe essere infedele<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Indipendentemente dal fatto che si tratti del primo anno di matrimonio o del quinto con l'altra persona, c'\u00e8 sempre un'uguale possibilit\u00e0 di infedelt\u00e0 nel matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Now, I’m not trying to scare you, but you should pay attention to his behavior and potential red flags to notice any changes.<\/p>\n

Se il vostro uomo mostra alcuni o tutti i seguenti segnali, potrebbe fare qualcosa di losco alle vostre spalle.<\/p>\n

Cambiamenti nell'uso del telefono<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Have you noticed that he’s been spending time on his phone more than before and that he’s overly protective of it (literally going to the toilet with his cell phone)?<\/p>\n

Se s\u00ec, questa \u00e8 la pi\u00f9 grande bandiera rossa quando si tratta di relazioni. La matematica \u00e8 semplice: If he doesn’t have anything to hide, he wouldn’t be so protective of his phone.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

But, as always, don\u2019t jump to conclusions before talking to him about it and seeking an explanation for his weird behavior.<\/p>\n

Trascorre meno tempo con voi e mostra meno interesse nei vostri confronti<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If your husband used to spend lots of time with you and now rarely ever hangs out with you, it could mean that he’s losing interest and that is why he prefers spending time with his friends and other people.<\/p>\n

Un altro caso sfortunato \u00e8 che lui passi del tempo con gli amici come scusa per passare del tempo con un'altra donna.<\/p>\n

Se sospettate che sia questo il caso, prestate attenzione ad altri indizi come il profumo, il rossetto sui vestiti e simili.<\/p>\n

Mentire e\/o trovare scuse<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo aspetto \u00e8 collegato a quello precedente. L'infedelt\u00e0 e la menzogna (comprese le scuse) sono strettamente collegate, perch\u00e9 bisogna giustificare le proprie azioni in modo che nessuno sospetti nulla.<\/p>\n

Let me rephrase that \u2013 your husband has to justify his actions.<\/p>\n

Conoscete la procedura.<\/p>\n

If he’s all of a sudden spending extra time at the office because of “extra work,\u201d canceling your plans and doing other crappy things, he’s just trying to cover his sinful deeds so that he can continue his side adventure.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 10 modi per riconoscere un bugiardo psicopatico<\/a><\/p>\n

Improvvisamente si \u00e8 preoccupato eccessivamente del suo aspetto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This one’s totally interesting.<\/p>\n

Many men don’t really care about their appearance (especially if they’ve been married for a long time already), so when they meet someone new, their appearance becomes a top priority.<\/p>\n

Questo include l'andare in palestra regolarmente, l'acquisto costante di nuovi vestiti, la cura della barba, delle scarpe e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

A meno che non sappiate che il vostro uomo ha deciso di lavorare su se stesso per diventare la versione migliore di s\u00e9, allora dovreste preoccuparvi di questo aspetto.<\/p>\n

Sbalzi d'umore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ah, those sweet mood swings! Well, if there’s one thing that can scoprire la potenziale infedelt\u00e0<\/a>\u00e8 l'umore.<\/p>\n

When men know that they are guilty of something, they can’t help but act nervous, defensive, and irritated around you.<\/p>\n

They are not in control of this because it happens on a subconscious level. They cannot act normal around you because they know they’ve done something bad and now their conscience is eating away at them.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 15 segni della sindrome del marito infelice (+ consigli per affrontarla)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cosa fare se lui \u00e8 infedele<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you’ve noticed (or if you notice) that your husband exhibits some or all of the above signs, don’t panic! In some cases, it\u2019s not the end of the road.<\/p>\n

Parlatene con lui.<\/p>\n

Seek support and help from your friends, family, and a marriage counselor. Infidelity is a tricky thing, but it’s not something you cannot overcome together \u2013 of course, assuming that he’s ready to work on himself.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare quando il marito guarda un'altra donna?<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

NON saltare alle conclusioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When your man ogles other women, don’t immediately think things like: Deve essere appassionato di <\/i>donne pi\u00f9 giovani<\/i>. Deve fare qualcosa alle mie spalle.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ricordate a voi stessi che si tratta di un istinto naturale, che non pu\u00f2 controllare (ma pu\u00f2 controllare di agire in base ai suoi impulsi).<\/p>\n

If your husband doesn’t show any signs of him being unfaithful to you, then there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n

So, don’t act like a crazy woman (men like to call us this when we go mad) by attacking him in public or demanding to tell you the truth.<\/p>\n

Sometimes the only truth is that they themselves have no idea why they’re doing it, so you shouldn’t take it personally. It doesn’t mean your hubby prefers another woman over you. You are still his favorite girl!<\/p>\n

Siate realistici<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Easier said than done, I totally agree with you. But, it’s really important to be realistic when it comes to these situations. Think about it this way.<\/p>\n

Anche voi notate persone attraenti per strada, al ristorante e cos\u00ec via, giusto? E di tanto in tanto lanciate anche un'occhiata veloce a persone ragazzi attraenti.<\/a><\/p>\n

I personally admit that I do and I’m not ashamed of it.<\/p>\n

It’s completely natural because we’re human beings. It’s in our blood to observe, evaluate, and admire new things. For us women, this doesn’t necessarily have to be guys, it might be skirts and other clothes.<\/p>\n

E per gli uomini possono essere auto nuove e attraenti, donne giovani, tette e sederi<\/a> di tutte le forme e dimensioni, e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

Ricorda a te stessa che prestare attenzione alle cose piacevoli non \u00e8 un problema, purch\u00e9 tuo marito si mantenga civile.<\/p>\n

Ditegli onestamente come vi sentite al riguardo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Regardless if it is the first time or he’s been doing it since you were his fiance, don’t be afraid to tell him honestly how you feel about it.<\/p>\n

This will help you understand what’s really going on in his head and you won’t waste tons of your time overthinking and judging him for nothing.<\/p>\n

When your husband knows that you’re uncomfortable when he glances at other women, he will make sure to remind you that there’s nothing you should worry about because the only woman he REALLY wants to be with is YOU.<\/p>\n

I can say this here, but it’s completely different when you hear it from his mouth.<\/p>\n

You will instantly feel better about the whole situation and no longer see it as an issue, but something trivial that\u2019s not supposed to be controlled, just accepted.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Ecco cosa devi fare quando lui sceglie un'altra donna<\/a><\/p>\n

Oppure prendete in considerazione l'idea di unirvi a<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I hate when people claim that only men stare at other women, whereas women seldom stare at other men because it\u2019s not their style.<\/p>\n

Come on people, we live in the 21st century where double standards don’t stand a chance of survival.<\/p>\n

Here’s another interesting approach. When your husband looks at other women, join him! I mean, comment on something about that woman and say that she really looks good or that you like her outfit.<\/p>\n

Non hai idea di quanto sar\u00e0 felice tuo marito (e allo stesso tempo confuso per questo!). This will show your ultimate confidence because you don’t feel threatened by other women around you.<\/b><\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 davvero HOT! Questo approccio vi far\u00e0 apparire come un capo e un vincitore, quindi prendete assolutamente in considerazione l'idea di provarlo.<\/p>\n

All'inizio sar\u00e0 un po' strano, ma quando vi abituerete, noterete che fare i complimenti alle altre donne (invece di vederle come una minaccia) davanti a vostro marito \u00e8 un'esperienza liberatoria.<\/p>\n

Stabilite limiti sani e lavorate insieme sulla vostra relazione.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Setting healthy boundaries means being willing to work on his behavior \u2013 not looking too often or too long.<\/p>\n

It means making sure that he doesn’t make you feel uncomfortable in different situations and in front of other women.<\/p>\n

It also means reminding you of the fact that you’re his number one priority and the only woman he wants to be with.<\/p>\n

Quando sai che tuo marito si sta impegnando per ottenere tutto questo, sai che tiene davvero a te.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, he wouldn’t care if he stared for a little bit too long when another woman passed by him. It’s important that you work on your relationship together, and nurture patience and mutual effort.<\/p>\n

Il rispetto e l'impegno reciproco sono alla base di ogni sana e <\/b>relazione felice<\/b><\/a>!<\/b><\/p>\n

When you know that your husband is going out of his way to show you that you’re the most special woman in his life, that he genuinely cares about you and loves you, then nothing else matters.<\/p>\n

When you know that you choose him and he chooses you every single day and every single night, you don’t worry when your husband looks at another woman (and he won\u2019t mind if you merely admire another man).<\/p>\n

You focus on worshipping what you have in front of you and that’s the only thing that matters!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 11 chiari segni che lui ama l'altra donna e cosa fare al riguardo<\/a><\/p>\n

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