{"id":93607,"date":"2020-09-29T12:50:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T12:50:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93607"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:53","slug":"hai-il-cuore-spezzato-ma-concentrati-sulla-lezione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/hai-il-cuore-spezzato-ma-concentrati-sulla-lezione\/","title":{"rendered":"So che avete il cuore spezzato, ma concentratevi sulla lezione, non sulla delusione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Scommetto che non c'\u00e8 persona al mondo che non abbia commesso errori nella sua vita.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t a human being alive who hasn\u2019t made some wrong choices they regret now.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you let some wrong people in, if you made a lousy judgment regarding your career, or if you would now change some decisions you made in the past.<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 che, in qualche modo, avete finito per avere il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n

Forse ti hanno preso in giro. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Forse qualcuno di cui vi fidavate completamente vi ha pugnalato alle spalle o vi ha abbandonato quando ne avevate pi\u00f9 bisogno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe you feel like you\u2019ve wasted your entire life until now. Maybe you ended up with your heart broken and shattered into pieces.<\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa sia, c'\u00e8 una semplice verit\u00e0: tutto questo fa parte della vita.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, pain, resentment, and regret are all things you\u2019ll experience on your journey.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mi dispiace dirtelo, ma non c'\u00e8 nulla che tu possa fare per evitare che la vita accada.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le persone continueranno a deludervi e a ferirvi e il vostro cuore continuer\u00e0 a spezzarsi, per quanto cerchiate di evitarlo.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci sono anche delle buone notizie. You\u2019re the only one who can control how you react to the things going on around you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have any control whatsoever over other people\u2019s actions. However, you do have full control over your thoughts and feelings.<\/p>\n

In pratica, what I\u2019m trying to say is that it\u2019s up to you to decide what to focus on: the disappointment or la lezione<\/a> il tuo cuore spezzato ti ha insegnato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you keep on focusing on the pain, you\u2019ll just produce more pain.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll produce more anger, resentment, grudges, and the desire for revenge.<\/p>\n

Nessuna di queste emozioni negative far\u00e0 del male a chi vi ha fatto del male. Non li colpiranno n\u00e9 li faranno pentire.<\/p>\n

So, at the end of the day, when you focus on the bad things, you only do bad to yourself. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, if you choose to focus on the lessons you\u2019ve learned thanks to all of these negative experiences, you\u2019ll do yourself a favor. <\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll continue to grow until you finally become the person you were meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll always find obstacles along your path. There will always be unexpected challenges and hardships.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il modo in cui reagite a tutte queste situazioni determina il corso della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 ci\u00f2 che determina la vostra salute mentale ed emotiva.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s try a little experiment.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno apparisse con un bastone magico e vi desse l'opportunit\u00e0 di cancellare tutti i vostri errori e le vostre scelte sbagliate, cosa fareste?<\/p>\n

What would you do if you had the chance to erase each one of the tears you\u2019ve cried, all of your dolori del cuore<\/a>, and all the traumas you\u2019ve had to endure?<\/p>\n

Scommetto che accettereste immediatamente l'offerta, senza pensarci troppo.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, chi si lascerebbe sfuggire l'opportunit\u00e0 di annullare tutto ci\u00f2 che di negativo gli \u00e8 capitato nella vita?<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m asking you to stop right there and consider this: what kind of person would you be today if it weren\u2019t for this heartbreak?<\/strong><\/p>\n

What would happen to all the difficult but extremely valuable lessons you\u2019ve learned?<\/strong> They would also be erased, wouldn\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Pertanto, rimarreste completamente sprovvisti di informazioni sulla vita.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have the wisdom, discernment, perspicacity, and clairvoyance that you have today.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t know half the things you know now.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be able to determine what\u2019s good for you or to read people, and your intuition wouldn\u2019t be as developed.<\/p>\n

Most importantly: if it weren\u2019t for this heartbreak, you wouldn\u2019t have the strength you possess today.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate all the good things happening to you.<\/p>\n

All the smiles you experience now would be worthless if you couldn\u2019t compare them with tears. <\/strong><\/p>\n

All the happiness wouldn\u2019t have the same meaning if you couldn\u2019t compare it to the sadness you went through.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t see the value of the love in your life if it weren\u2019t for all the hatred you previously experienced.<\/p>\n

Quindi credo che tutti i l'inferno che hai passato<\/a> alla fine ne \u00e8 valsa la pena.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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