{"id":9393,"date":"2017-12-01T12:19:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T12:19:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9393"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:06:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:06:09","slug":"ragazza-pensa-che-non-amera-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazza-pensa-che-non-amera-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che pensa che non potr\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 amare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dovrete.<\/strong> I know… I know, it hurts right now. So che vi sentite spezzati, malconci<\/a>e incapace di raccogliere le energie per alzarsi dal letto. So che non c'\u00e8 nulla che possa dire o fare per consolarvi.<\/strong> But this pain you are feeling in this moment, that seems like it\u2019s going to consume you, it will pass.<\/strong> Not before it\u2019s had its way with you, not before it\u2019s made you feel all the feels you have to feel, but eventually, it will fade into the past and become part of what makes you who you were meant to become.<\/p>\n

Una volta che il dolore vi ha liberato dalla sua presa, vi sputer\u00e0 fuori un po' pi\u00f9 forti e un po' pi\u00f9 diffidenti. Crederete che l'amore sia il nemico. Che l'amore \u00e8 in definitiva la causa di tutta questa agonia e giurerete di non provarlo pi\u00f9. Giurerete a Dio e a chiunque vi ascolti che non amerete MAI pi\u00f9. Che non lascerete mai che qualcuno o qualcosa vi riporti in quel posto. Chi pu\u00f2 biasimarvi? C'\u00e8 voluto tutto quello che c'era in voi per sopravvivere a quel dolore, perch\u00e9 mai dovreste volerlo fare di nuovo? Come potete anche solo immaginare di permettere al vostro cuore di aprirsi di nuovo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been there. In that place where love seems like your enemy and your heart a weapon to be used against you. But it\u2019s not. Siete fatti per amare e per essere amati.<\/strong> Il vostro cuore \u00e8 destinato a riempirsi di gioia e felicit\u00e0. Love didn\u2019t break you<\/a>. Love didn\u2019t desert you. He did. And now he\u2019s gone. Let him take all of the blame, and leave love for you. Let the person who didn\u2019t love you be the cause of your pain, and let love be the solution. Let love be the thing that heals you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Start small if you have to, love your favorite coffee cup that delivers liquid life into your mouth and warms your soul on a cold morning. Love your bed that feels like you\u2019re floating on a cloud when you need to escape the pressures of the day. Love the way your cat cuddles with you in the morning.<\/p>\n

Look at all of the things you love and the joy that those things bring you. Love didn\u2019t hurt you. Love didn\u2019t make you cry. Love gives you a thousand reasons to be happy every day. Don\u2019t blame love because he did you wrong. He is not love. He is just an asshat who didn\u2019t know what he had, and that\u2019s on him-not love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before you swear off love and promise you will never do it again\u2026 take notice of all the things you have in your life that you do love=your family, your friends, yourself. He didn\u2019t take love from you.<\/a> He didn\u2019t render you incapable of mustering up that emotion. Amate ancora e amerete ancora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amore,
\nA girl who thought she would never love again… until I realized, I never stopped.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You will. I know… I know, it hurts right now. I know you feel broken, battered, and incapable of mustering up the energy to even get out of bed. I know that there is nothing I can say or do that will console you. But this pain you are feeling in this moment, that seems…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":9395,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/alexandru-zdrobau-195418-1.jpg",800,580,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}