{"id":9397,"date":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9397"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","slug":"ogni-ragazza-ama-il-ragazzo-sbagliato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ogni-ragazza-ama-il-ragazzo-sbagliato\/","title":{"rendered":"A ogni ragazza innamorata del ragazzo sbagliato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Meritate di svegliarvi al mattino e di non mettere in dubbio l'amore della persona che vi sta accanto. Meritate di parlare liberamente, follemente e appassionatamente, e di non pensare nemmeno per un secondo che le parole che escono dalle vostre labbra imbronciate stiano annoiando la persona che finge di ascoltare. Meritate il tipo di amore<\/a>, the kind of wild passion that has only existed in \u201cNicholas Sparks\u201d novels and in your wildest daydreams.<\/p>\n

Vorrei che fosse cos\u00ec per te.<\/strong> I wish he didn\u2019t make you question who you are or who you\u2019re going to be. I wish he provided the net to catch you when you feel like breaking. I wish he wasn\u2019t the catalyst to your broken heart. I wish he wasn\u2019t the reason why you\u2019re crumbling. I wish he didn\u2019t make you cry, or leave you behind. I wish he didn\u2019t make you doubt love because love is actually quite a beautiful thing.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ll find it one day.<\/strong> And that love, it\u2019ll be warm, and it\u2019ll be inviting. It\u2019ll leave you feeling glowing because real love is the kind of love you deserve to have and have deserved to have all along. You deserved real love while you sat in your room behind locked doors. You deserved real love while you told the same story to your best friend for hours on end. You deserved real love during the fights and when his words made you feel, if for only a minute, less than how you should ever feel about yourself.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 lui a definire voi e adesso, in questo preciso momento, I know it\u2019s hard to let him go.<\/strong> L'immagine di ci\u00f2 che potrebbe essere, di chi ha promesso di essere, rimane con voi; indugia<\/strong>. Ero come te. Mi sono aggrappata all'immagine dell'uomo che volevo che fosse: forte, protettivo, amorevole, ma lui non \u00e8 mai stato nulla di tutto questo per me. La maggior parte delle notti faceva solo finta. Mi sono stancata di addormentarmi da sola in un California King, guardando il nostro amore andare in pezzi e per un po' ho combattuto. Ho provato a convincermi che stare insieme ne \u00e8 valsa la pena<\/a>. Ho cercato di convincermi che tutte le relazioni hanno momenti difficili.<\/p>\n

Ma questo non era un periodo difficile. Amore mio, mi ha colpito. Mi ha violato. Mi ha fatto dubitare di me stessa. Mi ha fatto odiare me stessa. Mi ha fatto giurare che la vita non sarebbe mai migliorata e per un po' ho accettato il tipo di amore che pensavo di meritare.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste as much time as I did being too afraid to pursue a chance at true happiness. Don\u2019t belittle yourself. Don\u2019t devalue yourself.<\/a> Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019re okay with a subpar kind of love-or life.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore richiede coraggio e impegno. Richiede di fare delle scelte su quale tipo di amore e quale tipo di vita vi definir\u00e0 in ultima analisi. Scegliete la felicit\u00e0. Scegliere l'uomo<\/a> who is going to see sparks fly when you smile at him. Choose the man who dances with you to no music, who tells you he loves you because he means it, not because he thinks it\u2019s what you want to hear at that moment in time. Scegliere l'amore prima di tutto.<\/strong> Decide that you have no choice but to show yourself the kind of love that you know you\u2019re deserving of someone who will inspire you, cherish you, and want the very best for you for as long as time stands still. Quell'amore inizia con voi.<\/strong> And I promise you that real kind of love, those sparks…they\u2019ll find you. And when they do, you\u2019ll be ready.<\/p>\n

di Courtney Dercqu<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You deserve to wake up in the morning and not question the love of the person lying beside you. You deserve to speak freely, crazily and passionately, and not think for even the slightest second that the words spewing from your pouty lips are boring the person who pretends to listen. You deserve the kind…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":9400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/oladimeji-odunsi-306172.jpg",800,631,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}