{"id":94264,"date":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=94264"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","slug":"la-sua-attenzione-non-significa-nulla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-sua-attenzione-non-significa-nulla\/","title":{"rendered":"La sua attenzione non serve a nulla se non si ha il suo rispetto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lei \u00e8 una donna attraente e molto desiderabile, non c'\u00e8 dubbio.<\/p>\n

Ovunque andiate, ci sono molti ragazzi che vi fissano, che cercano di comunicare con voi e di chiedervi di uscire.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 diverso dagli altri. A prima vista, sembrava infatuato di te.<\/p>\n

Aveva occhi solo per te. Ti stava addosso e faceva di tutto per conquistarti.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec, naturalmente, hai pensato che fosse quello giusto. Ti ha dato tante attenzioni e si \u00e8 comportato come se fossi la donna dei suoi sogni.<\/p>\n

However, as soon as he got what he wanted, everything changed. No, I\u2019m not just talking about taking you to bed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to the fact that this guy started treating you differently as soon as you showed him that he had captured your heart.<\/p>\n

As soon as he became aware that you\u2019d fallen for him, he showed you his true colors.<\/p>\n

Da quel momento in poi, si \u00e8 notato che questo ragazzo aveva assolutamente nessun rispetto per te<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Non ha mai preso in considerazione le vostre opinioni, i vostri sentimenti o i vostri desideri.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quindi, hai iniziato a fare qualsiasi cosa per catturare la sua attenzione<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You just wanted the man from the beginning of your relationship back \u2013 at any cost.<\/p>\n

Eravate pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa servisse per diventare pi\u00f9 simpatico a questo ragazzo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t even have to directly ask you to change \u2013 you did it by yourself.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you started pretending to be someone you\u2019re not. However, you didn\u2019t do it with the intention of deceiving him.<\/p>\n

Volevi solo che lui ti vedesse migliore, pi\u00f9 intelligente, pi\u00f9 attraente e pi\u00f9 interessante.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, con il tempo, hai perso te stessa. La ragazza che eri un tempo non si trovava pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: I know that you want this guy\u2019s undivided attention.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re the happiest person in the world when he texts you or when he likes your social media posts.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

So che il vostro cuore salta di gioia quando trova il tempo di vedervi.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, while you were busy chasing him and trying to get his attention, you missed something much more important: his respect \u2013 which you\u2019ve never got.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Believe me on this one: His attention means nothing if you don\u2019t have his respect.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, quest'uomo non \u00e8 diverso da tutti gli altri ragazzi che ti guardano nei locali.<\/p>\n

For someone like him, you\u2019re nothing but a piece of meat. He sees you as a trophy \u2013 as a girl all of his friends would like to be with but can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about your reputation or future. Most importantly: he doesn\u2019t care how you feel and whether you might suffer later on.<\/p>\n

Deep down, he knows you\u2019re a catch. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He knows that he is not enough for you, which is why he gives you breadcrumbs of his attention \u2013 so you will always come asking for more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Usa tutta questa situazione per mantenere il controllo su di te. Fa dei giochi mentali per tenerti agganciata perch\u00e9 non ha nient'altro da offrire.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t do whatever he asks you to do. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run into his arms every time he calls you, don\u2019t sleep with him if that\u2019s the only thing he wants, and don\u2019t send him nudes in the hope of getting a text back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Credetemi: questo \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 rispetto.<\/p>\n

This guy doesn\u2019t really appreciate your presence in his life, nor does he cherish the deep love you feel for him.<\/p>\n

Cosa state aspettando esattamente? Pensate che he\u2019ll change<\/a>? That he\u2019ll grow to respect the real you with time?<\/p>\n

If that is so, you\u2019re just wasting your time. Things will remain like this forever and this guy will never start treating you right.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you not to give him any more of your energy. Instead, be patient enough to wait for a guy who deserves you.<\/p>\n

Instead of fighting for this immature boy\u2019s undivided attention, wait for a real man who will give you many more valuable things, such as respect, loyalty, and appreciation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 il vero amore.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re an attractive and highly desirable woman \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Wherever you go, there are plenty of guys staring at you, trying to communicate with you and ask you out. He is no different than the rest. At first glance, he seemed to be infatuated with you. He had eyes for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":100499,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/His-Attention-Means-Nothing-If-You-Dont-Have-His-Respect.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94264"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}