{"id":9428,"date":"2020-12-01T16:44:27","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T16:44:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9428"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:37:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:37:34","slug":"9-scuse-che-gli-uomini-usano-per-sottrarsi-allimpegno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-scuse-che-gli-uomini-usano-per-sottrarsi-allimpegno\/","title":{"rendered":"9 scuse che gli uomini usano per sfuggire all'impegno"},"content":{"rendered":"

A un certo punto della nostra vita, ognuno di noi ha incontrato un fobico dell'impegno e probabilmente abbiamo sentito alcune delle sue scuse.<\/p>\n

Alcuni di noi hanno detto stronzate e se ne sono andati, mentre altri erano gi\u00e0 troppo coinvolti e speravano che cambiasse e sono rimasti.<\/p>\n

Calling bullshit and leaving isn\u2019t always easy, but if you heard your man say any of these, watch out, as your man could be a true commitment-phobe.<\/p>\n

Voglio concentrarmi sulla mia carriera<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

His job and career ambitions are so consuming that he can\u2019t afford to have a distraction such as a relationship, but he\u2019s okay with having you around for some casual rolling in the sheets.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 solo che d\u00e0 pi\u00f9 valore alla sua carriera che a una relazione.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s just enjoy what we have<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

And what exactly do you have? You give yourself completely, but he takes only what he wants and what\u2019s there not to enjoy?<\/p>\n

He gets to vent to someone, he has someone who will be there for him, but he\u2019s not there for you? I call bullshit on this; if he enjoys more than you do, leave.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t deserve you<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

He could be saying this because he truly knows your worth and he knows he\u2019s not good enough for you.<\/p>\n

Or this could be something like the good ol\u2019, \u201cIt\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me,\u201d type of excuse. Either way, he really doesn\u2019t deserve you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to ruin our friendship<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Every great love story begins with a friendship and there\u2019s nothing better than dating your best friend.<\/p>\n

But if he insists on staying friends, he really doesn\u2019t see you as anything more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t do labels<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Labels come with boundaries, and that\u2019s something he wants to avoid at all costs. It\u2019s not labels that he hates, he just doesn\u2019t do girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Mi piacciono le cose cos\u00ec come sono<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

You may both be comfortable with the way you are with your situationship, but if you want something more and he doesn\u2019t, then he has no plans on growing with you or evolving your relationship to something more.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 aspettarlo<\/a> if there\u2019s someone out there who is ready to go \u2018all in\u2019 with you?<\/p>\n

Voglio fare le cose con calma<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If he wants to take your relationship slowly, but is eager to take some other things more quickly (you know what I mean), he\u2019s only after one thing. Is he really worth it?<\/p>\n

Il mio ex mi ha fatto davvero male<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

In some cases, an emotionally damaged man could be using this excuse because he doesn\u2019t want to heal, or he\u2019s not ready to move on; he simply needs time that you don\u2019t have to give him.<\/p>\n

Ma in altri casi, potrebbe usare questa scusa solo per entrare nei vostri pantaloni e allontanarsi dalle parti emotive della relazione.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the wrong timing<\/h2>\n

\"bell'uomo<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no wrong time, there are only wrong people. Men who can recognize that you are worth it will make the time.<\/p>\n

He just doesn\u2019t know how to make room for you in his \u2018busy\u2019 life, so don\u2019t bother making room for him in yours.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

At some point in our lives, every one of us has met a commitment-phobe and we have all probably heard some of his excuses. Some of us called bullshit and left, while some of us were already too deep in it that we hoped that he would change and we stayed. Calling bullshit and leaving…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":123244,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/9-Excuses-Men-Use-To-Get-Away-From-Commitment-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9428\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123244"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}