{"id":95717,"date":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=95717"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","slug":"non-rovinare-il-tuo-regalo-a-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-rovinare-il-tuo-regalo-a-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Non rovinare il tuo presente per qualcuno che non \u00e8 mai stato il tuo futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avete passato l'inferno, non c'\u00e8 dubbio.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from.<\/p>\n

L'uomo che amavi pi\u00f9 di te stesso ti ha abbandonato quando meno te lo aspettavi.<\/p>\n

Mentre voi progettavate il vostro futuro insieme, pensando che lui stesse facendo lo stesso, ti ha lasciato<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Proprio cos\u00ec, ti ha abbandonato quando avevi pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui.<\/p>\n

Ha distrutto tutti i tuoi sogni e ha frantumato la tua personalit\u00e0 in un milione di pezzi.<\/p>\n

Ha lasciato ferite in tutto il cuore e nell'anima. Ha lasciato tracce su tutto il vostro essere che credete non possano mai essere cancellate.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, despite all the pain he\u2019s caused you, deep down you still hope that he\u2019ll come back<\/strong>. Of course, you won\u2019t admit this to anyone.<\/p>\n

In fact, you can barely admit it to yourself. You know that it\u2019s completely pointless and in vain but you just can\u2019t help it.<\/p>\n

\"primo<\/p>\n

Even though common-sense keeps telling you that you\u2019re nothing but a fool, your heart can\u2019t stop waiting for a miracle \u2013 a miracle that will probably never happen.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che vivete ancora nel passato. Il vostro traumi<\/a> vi perseguitano e il vostro bagaglio emotivo vi appesantisce.<\/p>\n

Continuate ad aggrapparvi al potenziale. Pensate a tutti i progetti che avevate e vi chiedete dove le cose sono andate male<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to move on. You can\u2019t force yourself to continue your life and finally get over this man.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like your heart refuses to heal. Like it can\u2019t recover and glue itself back together, no matter how hard you try.<\/p>\n

Even when you meet someone new, you compare them to your ex. You can\u2019t give anyone else a chance simply because they are not him.<\/p>\n

In pratica, la vostra vita vi sta passando accanto. I mesi e gli anni passano mentre voi ve ne state pazientemente e pacificamente seduti a non fare nulla.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quanto tempo pensate di perdere ancora?<\/p>\n

Do you think that you will live forever and that you can afford to spend more time on someone who probably doesn\u2019t even remember your name?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I can promise you one thing: one of these days, you\u2019ll see what you\u2019ve done with your life.<\/p>\n

To be exact, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019ve done literally NOTHING.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve been nowhere while this man is long gone and doesn\u2019t give you a second thought.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re destroying your present because of a past that has no future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi dispiace rompere la tua bolla di sapone, ma questo man isn\u2019t coming back<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After all, if he planned on getting back together with you, he wouldn\u2019t have left you in the first place.<\/p>\n

Your past is behind you and it won\u2019t repeat itself.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anything that has happened, so what\u2019s the point of replaying it over and over in your head?<\/p>\n

As much as you don\u2019t want to hear this, the harsh truth is that you won\u2019t get the closure you\u2019re waiting for.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t repent his sins, nor will he give you the apology you want so badly.<\/p>\n

Forse ora non lo vedete, ma il vostro dolore \u00e8 diventato la vostra zona di comfort.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten used to it and you dwell on all the what ifs and could have beens.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you to finally leave the past behind you\u2013where it belongs.<\/p>\n

So che ci vuole molto coraggio, ma vi prego di essere abbastanza coraggiosi da fare un salto nel vostro futuro, nonostante sia sconosciuto. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I assure you\u2013you\u2019re strong enough to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Invece di sperare che il vostro ex torni nella vostra vita, trasferite le vostre energie nella speranza che qualcuno di nuovo incroci il vostro cammino.<\/p>\n

Have faith that the love of your life is yet to come. That you\u2019ll find the right man and he\u2019ll erase every scar your ex left on you.<\/p>\n

Soprattutto: abbiate fede nel fatto che il vostro futuro felice sar\u00e0 di gran lunga migliore del vostro passato doloroso.<\/p>\n

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You\u2019ve been through hell\u2013there is no doubt about that. You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from. The man you loved more than yourself walked away from you when you expected it the least. While you were planning your future together, thinking he was doing the same, he left you….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Don\u2019t-Ruin-Your-Present-For-Someone-Who-Was-Never-Your-Future.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}