{"id":9657,"date":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9657"},"modified":"2024-10-25T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2024-10-25T08:52:24","slug":"lanno-prossimo-mettero-me-stesso-al-primo-posto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lanno-prossimo-mettero-me-stesso-al-primo-posto\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel 2025, metter\u00f2 me stesso al primo posto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Nel 2025 voglio provare amore vero.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Voglio sentire la pace dentro di me. E voglio che tutte le cicatrici della mia anima svaniscano. Combatter\u00f2 ogni pensiero di non essere in grado di fare qualcosa.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ho avuto abbastanza pensieri negativi e non \u00e8 una cosa che voglio continuare a fare nel prossimo anno.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>So, 2025, here I come\u2014stronger than ever, more beautiful than ever and one year smarter.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sono cambiato, ma per me va benissimo cos\u00ec. Infine, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/4-reasons-need-learn-love\/\">Ho imparato a volermi bene.<\/a> Ho imparato a rispettare me stessa e a preoccuparmi meno di quello che dicono gli altri.<\/p>\n<p>I will not be the one who doesn\u2019t take chances because she thinks that she can\u2019t handle them. Instead, I will try.<\/p>\n<p>I will try to do things that I never did before and if I fail, I will surely learn a lesson from it. But one thing is for sure\u2014I will keep trying until I get where I want.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025, lascio il mio passato al suo posto.<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114107 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"una bella ragazza dai capelli rossi con una maglietta gialla sta in piedi sulla spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to think about the mistakes I made nor about how they affected my life. Instead, I want to focus on what is in front of me. I don\u2019t want to be harsh on myself just because I failed to do something right.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to feel bad about it anymore. I just want to let it go.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Speaking of letting go, I want to let go of something else\u2014all the toxic people who made a living hell out of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to have any contact with them because I love my life and I don\u2019t want them to ruin it. I don\u2019t want to listen to them gossip about others because they will surely do it about me as well.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to be far away from them because they don\u2019t have the positive energy I crave. I will let go of anyone who makes me think that I am not worthy.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025, voglio<\/i><\/b><b><i>smettere di cercare di essere qualcuno che non sono solo per adattarmi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be someone people will mold into the shape of their own taste. This time, I want to be the real me, even if it means that others will turn their backs on me.<\/p>\n<p>Finora ho imparato che \u00e8 meglio essere soli che in cattiva compagnia.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025 imparer\u00f2 a rispettarmi di pi\u00f9.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114108 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una bella bruna sorridente con una camicia rosa e una gonna bianca \u00e8 in piedi sulla strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Far\u00f2 di tutto per arrivare dove voglio e penser\u00f2 a me pi\u00f9 che agli altri. Questa volta, far\u00f2 di me stessa una priorit\u00e0 e non un'opzione. Credo che questa sia la strada per la felicit\u00e0 e prima o poi ci arriver\u00f2.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025 imparer\u00f2 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/dr-ashlee-greer\/stop-letting-other-peoples-opinions-control-you_b_9587330.html\" rel=\"noopener\">not to bother my head with other people\u2019s opinions<\/a><\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p>I<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ti-deludero-2\/\"> won\u2019t let anyone affect my life<\/a>. Alla fine, sono io a soffrire in questa pelle, o a essere felice, a seconda della situazione. E questo \u00e8 un ottimo motivo per lasciare in pace gli altri.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t tolerate people coming into my life to make me feel sad. If they are to be a part of my life, they need to earn their place there. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025 imparer\u00f2 ad amare di nuovo me stesso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mi accetter\u00f2 con tutti i pro e i contro. Perch\u00e9 questa sono io e tutte le cose che mi sono successe e che mi hanno trasformato nella persona che sono oggi.<\/p>\n<p>Dimostrer\u00f2 a me stesso che non esiste una persona pi\u00f9 preziosa di me. E dopo averlo capito, inizier\u00f2 a crederci anch'io.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nel 2025, mi sto concentrando sulla mia storia.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114109 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg\" alt=\"una bella donna dai capelli rossi con un abito bordeaux e un cappotto grigio cammina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be a side character in someone else\u2019s story. This time, I want to be the protagonist. This year will be special because I will put myself first.<\/p>\n<p>Sceglier\u00f2 me stesso. Penser\u00f2 solo in modo positivo. Mi accetter\u00f2 cos\u00ec come sono.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E quando mi volter\u00f2 indietro alla fine del 2025, voglio dire a me stesso che quest'anno \u00e8 stato l'anno in cui qualcosa \u00e8 cambiato davvero.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Voglio sapere che in quell'anno mi sono posta dei nuovi obiettivi che sono riuscita a raggiungere. Voglio sentire che ho realizzato alcuni dei miei desideri e che mi sono messo sulla buona strada per essere di nuovo felice.<\/p>\n<p>Voglio sentire che quell'anno \u00e8 stato tutto quello che stavo cercando e che finalmente ho trovato la ricetta per una buona vita.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>In quell'anno, voglio sapere che finalmente ho messo me stesso al primo posto!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nel 2025, metter\u00f2 me stesso al primo posto \" class=\"wp-image-176444\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2025, I want to feel real love. I want to feel the peace within. And I want all the scars on my soul to fade away. I will fight every thought about not being able to do something. Because I have had enough negative thoughts and that is not something I want to keep&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":176445,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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