{"id":96950,"date":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=96950"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","slug":"scuse-per-smettere-di-usare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/scuse-per-smettere-di-usare\/","title":{"rendered":"5 scuse che dovreste smettere di usare per rimanere in una relazione tossica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Visto dall'esterno, lasciare una relazione tossica dovrebbe essere un gioco da ragazzi. In fondo, tutto sembra essere abbastanza chiaro.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible.<\/p>\n

Allora, cosa vi trattiene dall'andarvene, quando le cose sembrano essere cos\u00ec ovvie?<\/p>\n

Well, the point is that you\u2019re probably using all kinds of excuses to stay in this toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier for you to hold on to these thoughts than to step out of your comfort zone and actually make a difference.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe will become the man I need\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"Il<\/p>\n

Il motivo numero uno per cui le donne rimangono in relazioni sbagliate \u00e8 una speranza che non ha alcun fondamento logico.<\/p>\n

Even though there\u2019s absolutely no sign that your il fidanzato potrebbe cambiare<\/a>Per qualche motivo credete davvero che questo accadr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Vi aspettate che una mattina si svegli magicamente e capisca che dovrebbe smettere di farvi del male.<\/p>\n

Pensate che il vostro amore finir\u00e0 per fargli cambiare strada e che la vostra storia d'amore cambier\u00e0 in meglio.<\/p>\n

Well, I hate to burst your bubble but people don\u2019t change unless they have a desire to do it themselves.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019re waiting for a miracle that is unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will regret my decision\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

What if you start to miss this man after you\u2019ve found the courage to leave him? What if you regret your decision the moment you make it?<\/p>\n

E se vi rendete conto che, dopo tutto, avreste dovuto restare con lui?<\/p>\n

E se si rivelasse l'amore della vostra vita e non riusciste mai a dimenticarlo?<\/p>\n

Queste e altre domande simili vi passano per la testa ogni volta che pensate di lasciarvi.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something \u2013 this is exactly what your toxic boyfriend wants you to think.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 lui che ha installato questi dubbi nel vostro cervello.<\/p>\n

The one who is deliberately playing with you and manipulating you into thinking that you can\u2019t make it without him.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this one: if you do leave him, it will be the best choice you\u2019ve ever made and you won\u2019t regret it for a second.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is just emotionally broken\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: your boyfriend doesn\u2019t treat you the way he does because he is emotionally unavailable and broken.<\/p>\n

He is not hurting you because he doesn\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n

Non vi sta spezzando il cuore senza che ve ne rendiate conto.<\/p>\n

Non vi sta dando briciole del suo amore e delle sue attenzioni perch\u00e9 \u00e8 incapace di amare.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, sta facendo tutto questo semplicemente perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 farlo. In poche parole, \u00e8 uno stronzo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With this in mind, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that he doesn\u2019t deserve your sympathy, so it\u2019s about time you stopped giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You keep finding excuses for his behavior and trying to dig deeper under his cold exterior. No, you won\u2019t find a vulnerable heart who loves you there.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find nothing. There is no other part of his personality \u2013 he is just like that and this needs to stop being the reason why you stay with him.<\/p>\n

Accontentarsi di poco o morire da soli<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Per lei ci sono solo due opzioni nella vita. Puoi lasciare questo ragazzo e morire da sola o continuare ad accontentarti di meno di quanto meriti.<\/p>\n

So, you assume that it\u2019s better to be with someone than to face loneliness.<\/p>\n

This man has convinced you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved and without him, you\u2019ll be forever single.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

In fact, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a man who deserves you if you pluck up the courage to leave this one behind.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, anche se si finisce per essere single, non c'\u00e8 assolutamente nulla di male.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll rock your solitude.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will be his hero\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un altro degli equivoci comuni a molte donne quando si tratta di rimanere in una relazione tossica \u00e8 la convinzione che il loro uomo abbia bisogno di loro.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest: you would probably walk away from your boyfriend but you feel responsible for him.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019re the only one who can save him. The only one who can drag him out of his darkness and show him the light.<\/p>\n

Hear me out on this one: it\u2019s not your duty to aggiustare gli uomini rotti<\/a>. It\u2019s not your responsibility to sort his life out, help him grow up, or fight his demons.<\/p>\n

Smettete di anteporre la sua felicit\u00e0 alla vostra. E soprattutto: smettete di anteporre questa relazione condannata alla vostra pace.<\/p>\n

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Looking on from the outside, leaving a toxic relationship should be a piece of cake. After all, everything seems to be pretty clear. You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible. So, what is keeping you from leaving, when things seem to be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":96960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96950","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Excuses-You-Should-Stop-Using-To-Stay-In-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96950"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96950"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96950"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96950"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}