{"id":9697,"date":"2017-12-06T11:56:56","date_gmt":"2017-12-06T11:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9697"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:53:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:53:10","slug":"la-ragazza-delle-lettere-pensa-di-non-essere-amabile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-ragazza-delle-lettere-pensa-di-non-essere-amabile\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera alla ragazza che pensa di non essere amabile"},"content":{"rendered":"

Potreste pensare di essere troppo, troppo rotti, troppo difficili, troppo danneggiati. Ma non \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

You might think that it\u2019s your fault you\u2019ve been cheated on, lied to. That it\u2019s your fault you were rejected, left and manipulated. You might think that you\u2019re not enough, you\u2019re not worthy and unlovable. But, here\u2019s the thing. Tesoro, tu sei abbastanza, sei degno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siete una donna straordinaria, forte e feroce, molto pi\u00f9 che amabile. E sapete perch\u00e9?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve dated cowards who didn\u2019t know how to be honest about your relationship. You\u2019ve been told way too many lies. You\u2019ve been told that it was your fault, that you were too needy, that you weren\u2019t good enough<\/a>, pretty enough or simply enough. And yet you\u2019re still moving, loving and living.<\/p>\n

You loved but weren\u2019t loved back. You gave everything, but gained nothing but pain. You were left in the ashes of your relationship, trying to get back on your feet. But it\u2019s not you, darling.<\/p>\n

Se n'\u00e8 andato senza rimorsi, \u00e8 andato avanti perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai rimasto nei paraggi. It\u2019s not your fault he was incapable of loving you, it\u2019s his.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You were broken by insecure men who were afraid you\u2019d leave. You\u2019ve been cheated on by men who only cared about themselves. You\u2019ve been lied to by men who didn\u2019t know how to tell the truth.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been left by men who didn\u2019t know how to love. You are not unlovable, it\u2019s them who are incapable of loving.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

You were left because you were the kind of woman who pushed him forward, who made him work, who spoke up and never left things unfinished. He left because he couldn\u2019t handle someone better than him.<\/p>\n

He left because he doesn\u2019t deserve you. He left because he doesn\u2019t know how to commit, how to love, how to care for someone other than himself. He didn\u2019t leave because of your flaws. Se n'\u00e8 andato a causa della vostra forza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t think you are the unlovable one. Don\u2019t ever think that it\u2019s you, don\u2019t ever let anyone take your worth. Perch\u00e9 siete un vero miracolo che va ammirato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been broken<\/a> and yet you\u2019re standing. You were heartbroken and yet your heart is beating. You\u2019ve been through hell and yet you\u2019re still flying. You\u2019ve been hurt and yet you are here; you laugh, you dream and you keep on loving.<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t ever think you need to settle just because you\u2019ve never had a real man. A real man who knows your worth, a real man who knows one woman is enough.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ever think that you are unlovable, because there is a man out there who will be honored to love you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

There is a man out there to whom you will be the sun and stars and everything he could ever wish for. So, don\u2019t let the clouds hide away your light.<\/p>\n

Con tutto il mio amore,
\nUna ragazza che un tempo credeva di non essere amabile<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You might think that you\u2019re too much, too broken, too difficult, too damaged. But you\u2019re not. You might think that it\u2019s your fault you\u2019ve been cheated on, lied to. That it\u2019s your fault you were rejected, left and manipulated. You might think that you\u2019re not enough, you\u2019re not worthy and unlovable. But, here\u2019s the thing….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":9701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/anton-darius-sollers-271293.jpg",800,584,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9697"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9697\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}