While you might not like to admit it, I know that you\u2019ve caught yourself in the following behavior patterns at least once in your life.<\/p>\n
Well, good news: You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n
Commenti sarcastici<\/h2>\n
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Sarcasm and irony are all fun and games when you find someone who\u2019s on the same wavelength as you.<\/p>\n
Tuttavia, ci\u00f2 \u00e8 piuttosto raro e questo tipo di commenti \u00e8 pi\u00f9 probabilmente una forma di comportamento passivo-aggressivo.<\/p>\n
Vedete, gli scherzi sono una cosa. Dopo tutto, tutti amano le ragazze con un grande senso dell'umorismo.<\/p>\n
Ma il sarcasmo \u00e8 tutta un'altra cosa e usarlo per prendere in giro il partner non \u00e8 mai accettabile.<\/p>\n
Ho capito. Lei cerca di mascherare i suoi commenti con l'umorismo.<\/p>\n
If you see that he got insulted, you can always tell that you didn\u2019t mean it and that you were joking.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s time to stop doing it. Your partner needs to know when you\u2019re serious and when you\u2019re just messing around.<\/p>\n
Il trattamento silenzioso<\/h2>\n
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Simply put, you\u2019re giving your boyfriend the silent treatment when you refuse to talk to him.<\/p>\n
However, you don\u2019t tell him that you\u2019ve stopped talking \u2013 you just start ignoring him.<\/p>\n
This is not ghosting; you don\u2019t disappear from his life. You\u2019re still there, you just pretend that he is not present next to you.<\/p>\n
Sometimes you do this because you don\u2019t know to express yourself verbally the right way.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll start insulting him or say something you don\u2019t really mean, so you choose to remain silent.<\/p>\n
At other times, you do it deliberately. You don\u2019t want to break up with your boyfriend, but you want to punish him by not talking to him.<\/p>\n
Either way, this isn\u2019t relazione sana<\/a> comportamento.<\/p>\n You might expect your problems to magically go away if you don\u2019t talk them through.<\/p>\n In reality, you\u2019ll achieve precisely the opposite effect. Sometimes, you need to fight your issues out and solve them in that way.<\/p>\n Sapete che molti uomini accusano le donne di essere sempre assillanti?<\/p>\n Ebbene, anche se si potrebbe considerare uno stereotipo, \u00e8 provato che molte ragazze sono colpevoli di questa forma di comportamento passivo-aggressivo.<\/p>\n In pratica, vi lamentate abitualmente senza un motivo evidente. Andate in giro per casa, tutti scontrosi, dimostrando che non vi va bene niente.<\/p>\n Il problema di questo modello di comportamento \u00e8 che non appare mai dal nulla. Al contrario, ha sempre un retroscena pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/p>\n For you, it\u2019s more than clear that you\u2019re not satisfied with something in your relationship.<\/p>\n Potreste essere insoddisfatti di qualcosa che il vostro ragazzo ha fatto in precedenza.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, lasciatemi dire una cosa.<\/p>\n Your boyfriend doesn\u2019t have the ability to find a cause-effect relationship between these two things.<\/p>\n So, he concludes that you\u2019re just being grumpy for nothing.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to tell you here is that you\u2019ll accomplish literally nothing with this behavior.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019ll just chase him away even more with your negative energy.<\/p>\n Pensate invece alla vostra insoddisfazione.<\/p>\n Chiedetevi cosa vi d\u00e0 veramente fastidio e parlatene in modo maturo con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re one of those people who constantly criticize their partner, I have a newsflash for you: He was like this when you met him. <\/p>\n Inoltre, avete due possibilit\u00e0: Puoi accettare tutti i suoi difetti o allontanarsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t misunderstand me.<\/p>\n Nobody is attacking you for not being happy with your boyfriend\u2019s behavior, his progress in life, or the way he treats you.<\/p>\n However, you won\u2019t get anywhere if you point out his imperfections all the time. In fact, he\u2019ll just end up rebelling even more against you.<\/p>\nComportamento scontroso<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCritica costante<\/h2>\n
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