{"id":9748,"date":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","slug":"uomo-che-ama-labuso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-che-ama-labuso\/","title":{"rendered":"All'uomo che mi ama dopo il mio abuso"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che \u00e8 difficile amare una persona distrutta. So che \u00e8 difficile amare qualcuno che \u00e8 ancora bloccato nel suo passato di abusi.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch<\/b> . Amare una persona che crede di non essere amabile.<\/a> But you still love me, you\u2019re still here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re still waiting for me.<\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie. Grazie per aver creduto in me. Grazie per aver creduto che posso migliorare. Per aver creduto che posso amare di nuovo, per aver creduto che posso superare le mie paure.<\/p>\n

Thank you for being my biggest fan and support. For holding my hand even when I didn\u2019t know I needed you to hold it. Grazie per essere stata la mia forza quando non ne avevo pi\u00f9.<\/b> . Per essere state le mie ali mentre le mie erano spezzate.<\/p>\n

Grazie per la vostra pazienza. So che ci sono ancora momenti in cui ricado in quello stato d'animo.<\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m waiting for your approval because I learned to wait for his. <\/b><\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m afraid you\u2019ll be unhappy because he made me believe that his happiness was my only goal in life.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And I know how hard it is to love a broken soul, to wait for someone who doesn\u2019t even know what true love looks like.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi ricordato chi sono. Grazie per avermi mostrato quanto posso essere forte, quanto sono straordinaria e feroce. Thank you for showing me that I\u2019m lovable.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every single day you make sure I hear \u2018I love you\u2019. Every day you make sure that I know my worth. Thank you for that.<\/p>\n

After being constantly broken and abused, it\u2019s hard to remember who you once were. It\u2019s hard to believe you are lovable, when the person you loved the most told you you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi fatto ridere.<\/b><\/p>\n

Honestly, I hadn\u2019t laughed for so long that I forgot how to do it. My laugh was rusty, so it was weird when I first heard it after all that time. You know, I never thought I\u2019d smile again. I never thought I\u2019d be happy again.<\/p>\n

Credevo seriamente di essere incapace di essere felice. Bloccata in quel pozzo senza fondo di disperazione, emozioni e sogni infranti. Bloccata in quel periodo in cui lui aveva un potere assoluto su di me. Bloccata in quel mio inferno.<\/p>\n

Ma, in qualche modo, hai trovato il modo di tirarmi fuori da questa situazione. Hai trovato il modo di farmi sorridere.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Hai capito come amarmi, come farmi sentire il tuo amore<\/b> .<\/p>\n

With every kiss, every feather-like touch and every \u2018I love you\u2019 I hear. You make me feel loved when you share your silence with me.<\/p>\n

Mi fai sentire amata quando condividi con me le tue paure e i tuoi pensieri pi\u00f9 profondi. Mi fai sentire amata ogni singolo minuto della giornata e ti ringrazio per questo.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi amato nel momento in cui non ero amabile.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Thank you for wanting me when I didn\u2019t want myself when I didn\u2019t want this life. Thank you for showing me how amazing it can be.<\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi dato qualcosa per cui vale la pena vivere e lottare. E grazie per avermi fatto capire che non \u00e8 mai stata colpa mia.<\/p>\n

Ci vuole un tipo speciale di uomo per amare una donna distrutta, per amare una donna maltrattata. E tu sei la mia.<\/p>\n

\"All'uomo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know it\u2019s hard loving someone broken. I know it\u2019s hard loving someone who is still stuck in their abusive past. I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch . To love someone who believes she is unlovable. But you still love me, you\u2019re still here. You\u2019re still…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":119748,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/To-The-Man-Loving-Me-After-My-Abuse-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}