{"id":97490,"date":"2020-09-17T13:46:35","date_gmt":"2020-09-17T13:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=97490"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:01:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:01:17","slug":"essere-la-persona-piu-grande","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-la-persona-piu-grande\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 dovreste essere sempre la persona pi\u00f9 grande"},"content":{"rendered":"

When your real friends tell you to be the bigger person, they\u2019re saying that you should always find the forza nel vostro cuore per perdonare<\/a> coloro che vi hanno fatto del male e sollevatevi al di sopra di tutte le vostre esperienze negative.<\/p>\n

Essere il <\/b>persona pi\u00f9 grande<\/b> significa che, per quanto qualcuno vi faccia del male, non nutrite alcun risentimento nei suoi confronti. <\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find some kind of justification for those who have broken your heart, made your life miserable, or even abused you in any way. <\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn’t matter whether we’re talking about your ex, high school friend, coworker, or family member, the bottom line is pretty much the same: You should take the moral high ground and let positivity take over you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re more than someone who wants revenge for all the pain you\u2019ve suffered. You\u2019re above holding grudges or giving someone a taste of their own medicine.<\/b><\/p>\n

Instead, whenever another person does you harm, you should understand them in a way, move on, and get over whatever it is they\u2019ve done to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Uno essendo il <\/i>persona pi\u00f9 grande<\/i> quote says: \u201cDon\u2019t treat people as bad as they are. Treat them as good you are.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sounds almost perfect, doesn\u2019t it? However, what happens when the person who hurt you doesn\u2019t deserve you treating them this way?<\/p>\n

Cosa succede quando il vostro abusatore vede il vostro perdono come un via libera per continuare a spezzarvi? Quando ti vede prendere <\/b>la strada maestra<\/b> come un'approvazione del loro <\/b>comportamento tossico<\/b><\/a>?<\/b> <\/p>\n

From one point of view, you behaving like this should have a therapeutic effect on the other party as well. They\u2019re expected to admire your reaction, which will make them ashamed of their own actions.<\/p>\n

In questo scenario, chi ha distrutto la vostra vita sar\u00e0 divorato dal senso di colpa. Finir\u00e0 per chiedere scusa per le sue malefatte o, come minimo, si taglier\u00e0 fuori dalla vostra vita. <\/p>\n

Tuttavia, purtroppo, le cose possono prendere una piega completamente diversa.<\/p>\n

Invece di avere un enorme rispetto per la vostra capacit\u00e0 di perdonare, nella maggior parte dei casi, la persona tossica inizia a considerarvi uno stupido a cui pu\u00f2 continuare a fare del male.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Essi darvi per scontati<\/a> e si aspettano che li perdoniate, indipendentemente da ci\u00f2 che vi fanno. Dopo tutto, il vostro amore incondizionato per loro \u00e8 evidente. <\/p>\n

Una volta che si vive un'esperienza del genere, si inizia anche a vedere se stessi come stupidi. <\/p>\n

All this time, you\u2019ve been always the forgiving one \u2013 the one who\u2019s walked away from arguments and tried to understand whoever\u2019s hurt you \u2013 without looking for ways to pay them back. <\/p>\n

However, rarely has anyone appreciated it. Instead, they\u2019ve kept playing and using you. So naturally, you\u2019ve given up.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve decided that the only way to survive this harsh world is to blend in with the masses. You have no other options but to become just like everyone else in your surroundings. <\/p>\n

You simply have no more strength to give away your unlimited forgiveness to those who have never deserved it. You\u2019ve stopped accepting the non-apologies and  praying for your heart to soften up. <\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to tell you that you\u2019re making the mistake of your life if you don\u2019t change your ways. In fact I\u2019m begging you: Be the <\/b>persona pi\u00f9 grande<\/b>, no matter who or what you\u2019re dealing with.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

At first, you may think you\u2019re doing all of this for the sake of the other party with a toxic vibe.<\/p>\n

You want to show them that you\u2019re above them and would never stoop to their level, despite the fact that you\u2019re the damaged one. <\/p>\n

Naturally, you think to yourself that your positivity and forgiveness are the last things they deserve. After everything this person has put you through, no one\u2019s expecting you to wipe their slate clean.<\/p>\n

Ma questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che dovreste fare. Naturalmente, perdonare \u00e8 una cosa e dimenticare \u00e8 un'altra.<\/p>\n

Nobody is telling you that you have to welcome them back in your life and pretend that everything is in perfect order. Instead, just be the better person and don\u2019t play their game. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t misunderstand me. I\u2019m not giving you this advice because the persone tossiche nella vostra vita<\/a> deserve it. Don\u2019t be the bigger man to make things easier for them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t behave like this because it\u2019s the right thing to do either. Don\u2019t do it because it\u2019s expected of you or just because you want to prove a point to someone else, including the one who hurt you.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Invece, fatelo per voi stessi, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 una delle rare cose che differenziano le persone cattive da quelle buone. <\/p>\n

Do it because it will serve as proof that you never had the same vibe as them and that they didn\u2019t manage to pollute you with their evil.<\/b><\/p>\n

Come prova del fatto che non saranno mai in grado di raggiungere il tuo <\/b>morale<\/b>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Most importantly, be the better person because, at the end of the day, it\u2019s the only way to free yourself from their chains \u2013 the only way for you to finally start your process of lasciarsi andare<\/a> e andare avanti senza alcun bagaglio che vi appesantisca.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the best thing you could ever do for your self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Fatelo perch\u00e9 vi liberer\u00e0 dalla loro tossicit\u00e0. Perch\u00e9 vi purificher\u00e0 e vi porter\u00e0 pace.<\/p>\n

Vedete, essendo il <\/b>persona pi\u00f9 grande<\/b> doesn\u2019t mean becoming someone\u2019s <\/b>zerbino<\/b>. Instead, it\u2019s about not allowing anger, resentment, and other negative emotions to take the best of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean being blind or stupid. In fact, it means being smart enough to choose your battles wisely and know how to get rid of pettiness.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you a coward who backs out. On the contrary, it makes you a hero. It makes you emotionally intelligent to the point where you can redirect your energy in the right direction. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s about not allowing the bitterness to turn you into someone you essentially aren\u2019t. About not giving this person even more importance by allowing them to change the core of your personality. <\/p>\n

Fidatevi di me. Questa \u00e8 la strada da seguire. Al <\/b>fine giornata<\/b>, prendendo <\/b>la strada maestra<\/b> \u00e8 l'unico modo in cui la vostra coscienza sar\u00e0 cristallina. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the only way for you to leave this painful situation being proud of yourself and of the fruits of your <\/b>lavoro proprio<\/b>. <\/b>L'unico modo per sentirsi meglio e costruire la propria autostima. <\/p>\n

That said, your real friends will never blame you if you don\u2019t have the strength to be the bigger person just yet. After all, you\u2019re just a human being and it\u2019s perfectly normal to have a vengeful part of yourself. <\/p>\n

Nessuno vi giudicher\u00e0 se non siete in grado di controllare i vostri impulsi e le vostre emozioni in ogni momento. Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario sforzarsi di essere l'uomo migliore.<\/b><\/p>\n

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