{"id":9820,"date":"2020-04-09T14:46:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T14:46:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9820"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:24:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:24:54","slug":"nessuna-seconda-possibilita-sprecata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nessuna-seconda-possibilita-sprecata\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ho pi\u00f9 seconde occasioni da sprecare con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

The more chances you give someone the less respect they\u2019ll start to have for you. They won\u2019t value what they can continually disrespect. – Trent Shelton<\/p>\n

Non sono mai stata una fan delle seconde possibilit\u00e0. Non ho mai creduto che le persone possano cambiare.<\/p>\n

I thought if someone meant any good, they wouldn\u2019t need more than one chance to prove their true face. But I kind of disregarded this when you came along.<\/p>\n

Pensavo fossi un'altra cosa.<\/strong> I thought you were someone special who came along in my life and I thought you\u2019d actually make a difference.<\/p>\n

I made this wild assumption that you\u2019d be the love of my life. And for this idea of love, I did crazy things.<\/p>\n

I thought what we had was worthy of moving the boundaries and sometimes even forgiving something I\u2019d usually never forgive.<\/p>\n

In qualche modo, ho dimenticato i miei valori. Grazie ai miei sentimenti verso di te, ho completamente dimenticato le mie convinzioni personali. Ho dimenticato come meritavo di essere trattato. E ho permesso di essere trattato male.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ho continuato a darti nuove possibilit\u00e0.<\/strong> No matter what you did, somehow I\u2019d keep finding \u2018logical\u2019 explanations for them.<\/p>\n

I tried so hard to stand in your shoes and to see why you did the things you did. No matter what anyone told me, I wouldn\u2019t let it affect my judgments about you.<\/p>\n

You were always right and even if you did some bad things, you definitely didn\u2019t mean them.<\/p>\n

It was just some set of circumstances that made you act recklessly as otherwise you wouldn\u2019t do it. I was so naive when it came to you. But I guess we\u2019re all naive a bit when it comes to love.<\/p>\n

E tutte le possibilit\u00e0 che ho continuato a darti, le hai sprecate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve seen so many girls forgiving some things instead of walking away and I swore I\u2019d never let that happen to me.<\/p>\n

A un certo punto del percorso, ho dimenticato la promessa fatta a me stessa e mi sono rivelata come tutte quelle ragazze che giudicavo in silenzio. Che dire, il karma mi ha fatto davvero visita.<\/p>\n

Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un po' per capire che mi hai trattato male perch\u00e9 te l'ho permesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

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You have no idea how many times I\u2019d sworn not to allow myself to be treated badly.<\/p>\n

I worked so hard on my confidence and I always wanted to ensure that people knew they couldn\u2019t do whatever they wanted with me.<\/p>\n

Ma poi tutto \u00e8 passato in secondo piano ed \u00e8 scomparso quando sei arrivato da solo.<\/p>\n

L'unico motivo per cui hai potuto trattarmi cos\u00ec male \u00e8 che te l'ho permesso. Ti ho permesso di trattarmi male, non consapevolmente ovviamente, ma l'ho fatto.<\/p>\n

Each time I didn\u2019t react the way I was supposed to, I was silently complying with your toxic behavior.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che ti ho lasciato andare via con i tuoi pugni bassi o con qualche parola cattiva, sono stato io a darti il permesso di farlo ancora e ancora.<\/p>\n

Per molto tempo non ho avuto idea di essere stata io a darti il via libera per fare tutte quelle cose che mi hai fatto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Till now, all I gave you were empty promises, and now I\u2019m done with talking empty. Now you\u2019ll get to see me live up to my promises.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done saying I\u2019ll walk away if I see you texting some random girls. I\u2019m done saying I\u2019ll stop talking to you if you ever say a bad word to me one more time.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done saying I won\u2019t be waiting for you to come back once you walk away from me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done promising that you only have one more chance and then giving you another and another and another.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 arrivato il momento di dimostrarvi che anche le brave ragazze se ne vanno. You don\u2019t get to treat me poorly anymore because I\u2019m done letting you treat me poorly.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No more of your jealousy outbursts, no more bringing me down so you\u2019d feel better, no more putting me last and choosing everyone else but me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done mistaking what you did to me for love. You don\u2019t love me, you don\u2019t even know what love is. I\u2019m done.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with forgiving you.<\/strong> I\u2019m done with believing that things will be different if I give you one more chance and I\u2019m done letting you lie to me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done waiting for you to come crawling back to me after everyone else turned their backs on you.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m done giving you second chances. This time for sure, because I\u2019m walking away.<\/p>\n

No matter how many chances I\u2019d give you, you\u2019d gamble them away.<\/strong>  No matter how much time you and I had, it wouldn\u2019t change the outcome.<\/p>\n

Because you\u2019d keep making the same mistakes over and over again, counting on me letting you get away with it like I did before.<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m sorry but I have no more second chances to waste on you because, to be honest, you didn\u2019t even deserve the first one.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll save all my chances for someone who\u2019ll never ask for more than one.<\/strong> I\u2019ll save all my chances for a man who won\u2019t lie to me, cheat on me or flirt with other girls.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll save all my chances for a man who knows how worthy I am and who knows that one woman is enough for a whole life.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll save my all chances for someone who won\u2019t ever need a second chance because he\u2019ll make the best of the first one he got.<\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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The more chances you give someone the less respect they\u2019ll start to have for you. They won\u2019t value what they can continually disrespect. – Trent Shelton I have never been a fan of second chances. I never believed people can change. I thought if someone meant any good, they wouldn\u2019t need more than one chance…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":78661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/I-Have-No-More-Second-Chances-To-Waste-On-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78661"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}