{"id":98448,"date":"2020-09-15T12:30:45","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:30:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98448"},"modified":"2022-04-28T23:50:36","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T23:50:36","slug":"risolvere-i-problemi-con-il-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/risolvere-i-problemi-con-il-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segnali che indicano che dovreste assolutamente risolvere le cose con il vostro partner"},"content":{"rendered":"

“To be, or not to be; that is the question.” To work things out, or not to, that is an even better question.<\/p>\n

When you’re having a rough patch or going through some bad times one way or another, the first thing that naturally comes to your mind is GETTING OUT and salvare se stessi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Si tratta di una scorciatoia che molti di noi hanno scelto di seguire per mancanza di motivi per risolvere le cose.<\/p>\n

But don’t get me wrong; in some situations, getting out (breaking up) is the only right thing to do, such as when we\u2019re in an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni migliori non sono quelle perfette di default, ma quelle in cui i partner fanno uno sforzo continuo nonostante ogni difficolt\u00e0 e ostacolo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

If you both know that you’ve done everything in your power and still nothing has changed, then you know the best option is to go your separate ways.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se i seguenti segnali sono veri nella vostra relazione, allora dovreste prendere in considerazione l'idea di risolvere le cose con il vostro partner invece di lasciarlo, perch\u00e9 le cose miglioreranno DEFINITIVAMENTE:<\/p>\n

La relazione vi rende ancora (desiderosi di essere) una persona migliore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Prima di fare qualsiasi cosa, fermatevi un attimo e pensate se vi piacevate di pi\u00f9 prima di questa relazione o se vi piacete di pi\u00f9 adesso.<\/p>\n

Se la risposta \u00e8 la seconda, \u00e8 un buon segno.<\/p>\n

Usually, when a relationship is toxic and bad for you, there’s not a chance of you flourishing and becoming a better person.<\/p>\n

La stessa cosa \u00e8 successa a me di recente.<\/p>\n

Ho avuto una relazione per un po' di tempo e prima di rottura<\/a> con loro, ho capito che non ero pi\u00f9 la stessa persona di prima.<\/p>\n

Invece di diventare una persona migliore, ero completamente cambiata in una persona che non riconoscevo pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Dopo qualche tempo di nuovo single, mi sono ricaricata e mi sono sentita dieci volte meglio di prima.<\/p>\n

People around me confirmed that I was glowing once again and that’s exactly how I felt inside out.<\/p>\n

I conflitti esterni vi rendono infelici (non i conflitti interni alla vostra personalit\u00e0).<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Nella maggior parte dei casi, le relazioni sono messe a dura prova da conflitti esterni, come problemi di denaro o di amore e altre circostanze.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you’re living under the same roof with your parents and you have no privacy or you are currently unemployed.<\/p>\n

A causa di tutto questo stress, potreste evitare di fare l'amore con il vostro partner, di coccolarvi e di svolgere altre attivit\u00e0 romantiche.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 allora che le cose iniziano ad andare male in una relazione e uno dei due partner (o entrambi) inizia a sentirsi trascurato.<\/p>\n

Still, it’s important to understand that these problems can be SOLVED and you shouldn’t break up with your partner.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should both understand that the problem is not your relationship and instead something you can’t really influence but you can work on making things better.<\/p>\n

Continuate a sostenervi e a rispettarvi a vicenda<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

No, I don’t mean sostenersi a vicenda<\/a> sui social media, ma nelle situazioni reali (soprattutto nei momenti difficili).<\/p>\n

If you’re still supportive and respectful of each other, it means you are probably still in love.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che quando le coppie si disinnamorano, non si rispettano pi\u00f9 e la relazione inizia a crollare. La mancanza di rispetto \u00e8 una delle pi\u00f9 grandi signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Se in una relazione non c'\u00e8 sostegno o rispetto, si tratta di un'enorme bandiera rossa, perch\u00e9 queste situazioni sono spesso irreparabili.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, la mancanza di passione o la difficolt\u00e0 di dire Ti amo<\/a><\/em> al momento sono cose che possono essere risolte con uno sforzo reciproco.<\/p>\n

I vostri amici e la vostra famiglia sono ancora favorevoli alla vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando si tratta di relazioni, i nostri amici e familiari sono di solito giudici migliori di noi stessi.<\/p>\n

Notano sempre se siamo pi\u00f9 felici in una relazione o se \u00e8 diventata un peso per noi.<\/p>\n

So, if your best friends or family members are telling you that you shouldn’t break up with your partner, it is because they know that you are still a good match and you can work things out.<\/p>\n

Dal loro punto di vista, siete ancora innamorati l'uno dell'altra, ma dovete solo lavorare per migliorare le cose (qualunque sia il problema) e se sarete pazienti e coerenti, ci riuscirete sicuramente.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come aggiustare una relazione interrotta: 10 modi per ricucire le cose<\/a><\/p>\n

Volete ancora stare con il vostro partner, nella buona e nella cattiva sorte.<\/h2>\n

\"inquadratura<\/p>\n

If you said, “I do,” then you know the true difficulty and the meaning of the statement \u2018for better or worse\u2019.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re married or in a relationship, I want you to ask yourself the following: “Do I still feel good with my partner when I’m both at my worst and at my best?”<\/p>\n

Volete ancora stare con loro sia quando le cose vanno male sia quando tutto fila liscio?<\/p>\n

Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, allora dovreste risolvere la situazione invece di rompere con loro.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 significa che avete ancora una base sana nella vostra relazione. Potete ancora contare l'uno sull'altro, indipendentemente dalla situazione.<\/p>\n

It’s easy to be with someone when everything works perfectly but wanting to be with someone even when everything is falling apart is a sign of true love and devotion.<\/p>\n

I momenti felici mettono in ombra quelli negativi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

One sure-fire way to figure out if you’re in an abusive and relazione tossica<\/a> che non ha futuro \u00e8 confrontare i momenti felici con quelli negativi della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Do you notice that the happy moments are the ones prevailing in your mind? If yes, then you know there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n

Vivete la vita al massimo, non abbiate rimpianti, rilassatevi e godetevi ogni secondo trascorso con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

Work on improving those little things that are causing you trouble at the moment and you’ll be just fine.<\/p>\n

Avete la sensazione che dobbiate restare insieme<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Infine, ma non per questo meno importante, se il vostro istinto (quella vocina nella testa) vi dice che dovreste risolvere la situazione e restare insieme, allora dovreste fidarvi di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Il vostro istinto \u00e8 la vostra anima che vi dice cosa dovete fare, quindi non dovete mai metterlo in discussione.<\/p>\n

Invece, \u00e8 bene rimanere positivi e ripetere a se stessi: Possiamo risolvere il problema!<\/p>\n

If you believe that you can, then you’re already halfway there.<\/p>\n

Per aiutarvi a trovare la motivazione, ecco un elenco di citazioni ispirate a risolvere i problemi.<\/p>\n

39 citazioni ispirate sul lavoro per aiutarvi a superare i problemi relazionali<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

1. \u201cWhatever problems arise in a romantic relationship, it\u2019s important to face them together as a couple. If an aspect of the relationship stops working, don\u2019t simply ignore it, but instead address it with your partner. Things change, so respond to them together as they do.\u201d \u2013 Anne Nwakama<\/p>\n

2. \u201cBehind every happy couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interferences to be that way. Why? Because it\u2019s what they wanted.\u201d \u2013 Kim George<\/p>\n

3. \u201cRelationships last long not because they\u2019re destined to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people made a choice. To keep it, fight for it and to work for it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

4. \u201cYou can\u2019t just give up on someone just because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships aren\u2019t great because they have no problems. They\u2019re great because both people care about the other person to find a way to make it work.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

5. \u201cWe are told that people stay in love because of chimica<\/a>, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.\u201d \u2013 Ellen Goodman<\/p>\n

6. \u201cForget all the reasons why it won\u2019t work and believe the one reason why it will.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

7. \u201cEvery relationship needs an argument every now and then. Just to prove that it is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.\u201d \u2013 Melchor Lim<\/p>\n

8. \u201cA beautiful relationship does not depend on how well we understand someone but it depends on how well we avoid misunderstanding.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Citazioni d'amore che toccano il cuore; 100 + citazioni struggenti per la persona amata<\/a><\/p>\n

9. \u201cEvery relationship has its problems but what makes it perfect is when you still want to be there when everything goes wrong.\u201d \u2013 Ritu Ghatourey<\/p>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

10. \u201cThe couples that are meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

11. \u201cWhen you find someone you can truly love, you will fight to keep that relationship. No matter what obstacles you both will face, you will never give up on each other. You may get lost along the way, but one of you always keeps catching the other. Soon one day both of you will have each other\u2019s backs.\u201d \u2013 Jenna Bognar<\/p>\n

12. \u201cYou can\u2019t have a relationship without any fights but you can make your relationship worth the fight.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

13. \u201cLove isn\u2019t when there are no fights in the relationship. Love is when once the fight ends, love is still there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

14. \u201cRelationships include: fights, gelosia<\/a>, arguments, and tears. But a real relationship fights through all of those with love.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

15. \u201cA relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

16. \u201cAll relationships have one law. Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you\u2019re there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

17. \u201cA true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to let go of each other.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

18. \u201cLove is the remedy of all problems, misunderstandings become jokes, insults become humor, a perfect relationship.\u201d \u2013 Dielnov Muchati<\/p>\n

19. \u201cGreat couples still get angry with each other, but they continue to discuss until there is a solution even if it takes several days.\u201d \u2013 Bob Grant<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

20. \u201cThe emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.\u201d \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: I 6 problemi relazionali pi\u00f9 comuni che non si possono risolvere<\/a><\/p>\n

21. \u201cTrouble is part of your life, and if you don\u2019t share it, you don\u2019t give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.\u201d \u2013 Dinah Shore<\/p>\n

22. \u201cI think a relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.\u201d \u2013 Woody Allen<\/p>\n

23. \u201cThere is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.\u201d \u2013 Bryant H. McGill<\/p>\n

24. \u201cProblems should be like speed bumps. You slow down just to get over it, but you don\u2019t let it stop you from heading to your destination.\u201d \u2013 Sonya Parker<\/p>\n

25. \u201cAll relationships go through bad times, but real relationships get through bad times.\u201d \u2013 Anurag Prakash Ray<\/p>\n

26. \u201cHold no grudges and practice forgiveness. This is the key to having peace in all your relationships.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n

27. \u201cProblemi nelle relazioni<\/a> occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n

28. \u201cWe don\u2019t develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.\u201d \u2013 Barbara de Angelis<\/p>\n

29. \u201cBoth people need to care deeply about the other person, to put the other\u2019s needs before their own, and to make a daily commitment to that person to stick it out.\u201d \u2013 Alessandra Torre<\/p>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

30. \u201cIn any serious relationship, if you don\u2019t gather your partner\u2019s opinion before making a decision that impacts you both, you\u2019re just storing up trouble for the future.\u201d \u2013 Cindy Woodsmall<\/p>\n

31. \u201cThe truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.\u201d \u2013 Bob Marley<\/p>\n

32. \u201cGood communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.\u201d \u2013 Kelli Jae Baeli<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Tu sei la mia vita: Detti profondi e belli per lui e per lei<\/a><\/p>\n

33. \u201cExplain your anger, don\u2019t express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

34. \u201cShared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.\u201d \u2013 Swedish proverb<\/p>\n

35. \u201cSome of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they\u2019re trying to find someone who\u2019s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way una relazione durer\u00e0<\/a> is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.\u201d \u2013 Anthony Robbins<\/p>\n

36. \u201cSometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.\u201d \u2013 Socrates<\/p>\n

37. \u201cTo solve the problem you have to recognize your share of responsibility. If you only blame the other person, you will never solve it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

38. \u201cNobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

39. \u201cThe extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.\u201d \u2013 Henry Cloud<\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Spero che queste citazioni sulle relazioni di coppia vi abbiano ispirato a risolvere i problemi con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

Remember that you can achieve anything together and overcome any obstacle only if you want to and if you’re still in love with each other.<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 la forza pi\u00f9 potente del mondo e pu\u00f2 fare qualsiasi cosa. Vi auguro la migliore fortuna e tanto amore!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come risolvere una relazione tossica in 8 semplici passi (e 7 segni che ne avete una)<\/a><\/p>\n

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