{"id":98641,"date":"2020-09-15T12:49:21","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:49:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98641"},"modified":"2022-02-26T10:51:16","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T10:51:16","slug":"non-capitera-a-nessun-altro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-capitera-a-nessun-altro\/","title":{"rendered":"Spero, dal profondo del mio cuore, che non succeda a nessun altro."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You were the first man I have ever truly loved&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Even though you don&#8217;t deserve to hear from me ever again, I feel the need to write you this letter and finally get the closure I waited so long for.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ne ho bisogno per ritrovare la pace nella mia anima. Ne ho bisogno per sentirmi di nuovo vivo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Quel giorno una parte di me \u00e8 morta davvero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/eri-la-mia-ragione-di-vita-ma-questo-non-significa-che-moriro-perche-te-ne-sei-andato\/\">mi hai lasciato<\/a>. My heart was shattered into a million pieces. I didn&#8217;t want to move on\u2026 not without you.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 stato <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/e-stato-lerrore-della-mia-vita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">il mio errore<\/a> e lo accetto e lo ammetto. Sono anche colpevole del mio cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Permettere al mio cuore di accogliere qualcuno che non ha mai dimostrato di amarmi \u00e8 stato il pi\u00f9 grande errore della mia vita.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Still, I couldn&#8217;t just simply order my heart to forget you right away.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t reach out to my heart to make it understand that it was better that way and unfortunately, my mind wasn&#8217;t functioning either.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/curly-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna dai capelli ricci appoggiata all&#039;armadio in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/curly-haired-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/curly-haired-woman-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/curly-haired-woman-768x525.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/curly-haired-woman-150x103.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dovevo farlo e, grazie a Dio, l'ho fatto. <em>L'amore \u00e8 davvero la cosa pi\u00f9 misteriosa dell'universo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s a beautiful thing when you&#8217;re with the right person but I&#8217;m still confused now and I&#8217;m still trying to define what love really is.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s just so complex and inexplicable.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Il cuore prende il sopravvento sul corpo. Improvvisamente, niente ha pi\u00f9 importanza, tranne quella persona che avete nel cuore, quella persona che amate di pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or at least, that&#8217;s what happened in our case. You became the center of my universe.<\/p>\n<p>Sei diventata l'unica persona con cui potevo parlare, l'unica che volevo al mio fianco ogni minuto della giornata.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t care about anything or anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Again, I&#8217;m admitting, that is my mistake. My one and only mistake, while on the other hand, you made so many mistakes that it just became difficult to count them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing-.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa in piedi in mezzo a una strada vuota\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing--768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-standing--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti ho amato con ogni grammo del mio essere e cosa ho ricevuto in cambio? Insulti, mancanza di rispetto, maltrattamenti e tradimenti.<\/p>\n<p>Be honest at least one time now that we&#8217;re done and tell me, did I really deserve everything you did to me?<\/p>\n<p>Che razza di persona sei quando puoi farmi tutto questo e poi lasciarmi e continuare la tua vita come se non fosse successo nulla?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Even though you deserve the cruelest, most emotionally destructive insults, I&#8217;m not going to do that. I&#8217;m going to be the bigger person now, as I have always been.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, sento il bisogno di ringraziarla per una cosa che in fondo mi ha aiutato a capire di me stesso.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Thank you for showing me how strong and brave a woman I truly am. I wasn&#8217;t aware of it before you put me through hell and I was able to get out of it alive.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m a true warrior. The man I loved the most turned out to be my worst enemy, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-ragazzo-che-mi-ha-salvato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">un demone<\/a> che aveva lottato cos\u00ec duramente per spezzarmi il cuore e distruggermi completamente.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-puoi-vivere-con-te-stesso-sapendo-quello-che-mi-hai-fatto\/\">come si pu\u00f2 vivere con se stessi, sapendo quello che si \u00e8 fatto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves.jpg\" alt=\"donna in maniche lunghe bianche seduta su un divano vicino a pareti bianche\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-wearing-white-long-sleeves-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll understand one day, once you are completely alone and miserable, that treating women as trophies your whole life is precisely what got you there.<\/p>\n<p>I just feel sorry for the next girl in line. I know that the same destiny awaits her. That&#8217;s why I only have one wish;<\/p>\n<p>I hope and pray you won&#8217;t happen to any girl ever again. I hope that you won&#8217;t make anyone else suffer like you made me suffer.<\/p>\n<p>Eri una persona che non avrei mai potuto immaginare di perdere, ma comunque, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dio-elimina-le-persone-dalla-vostra-vita\/\">Dio ti ha tolto dalla mia vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m sure that&#8217;s only because He&#8217;s going to replace you with someone I could never imagine having.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, sei stato il primo uomo che ho amato. Il primo uomo che ha trovato una via d'accesso ai luoghi pi\u00f9 profondi del mio cuore.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You were the first but you won&#8217;t stay the only one or the last one, that I can promise you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to love again. Someone better will come. Someone better will find a way to my broken heart again.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Qualcuno <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/qualcuno-di-speciale-verra-la-vita-non-dare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">verr\u00e0 meglio<\/a>Mi ami come veramente mi merito e non mi lascer\u00e0 mai.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98652\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Spero, dal profondo del mio cuore, che non succeda a nessun altro.\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You were the first man I have ever truly loved&#8230; Even though you don&#8217;t deserve to hear from me ever again, I feel the need to write you this letter and finally get the closure I waited so long for. I need it to find peace in my soul again. I need it to feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":98650,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/I-Hope-From-The-Bottom-Of-My-Heart-That-You-Wont-Happen-To-Anyone-Else.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98641"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98641\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}