{"id":98654,"date":"2020-09-15T12:53:57","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:53:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98654"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:52:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:52:18","slug":"gli-ex-fidanzati-ti-ricordano-che-ti-sei-evoluto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-ex-fidanzati-ti-ricordano-che-ti-sei-evoluto\/","title":{"rendered":"Gli ex fidanzati sono l\u00ec per ricordarvi quanto vi siete evoluti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes it\u2019s hard to accept the fact that every experience in our life has a place and meaning, especially when it comes to crepacuore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Romantic feelings are a very sensitive subject and there\u2019s no denying that they affect our life significantly.<\/p>\n

Quando si tratta di relazioni sentimentali, gli alti possono essere molto alti, ma questo significa anche che i bassi sono molto bassi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Possono rendere la vostra vita o distruggerla in pochi secondi.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s true that every cloud has a silver lining but we need time to see it.<\/p>\n

The same goes for your ex. You might think of him with anger and bitterness in your heart but as time goes by, you\u2019ll realize the lesson he brought into your life and you\u2019ll be thankful in some way.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to be thankful to him as a person per se but for an experience that made you a stronger and better person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Inoltre, potete seguire i vostri progressi personali sulla base degli insegnamenti che il vostro ex vi ha dato, intenzionalmente o meno.<\/p>\n

Forse avete difficolt\u00e0 a vedere gli aspetti positivi in esperienze cos\u00ec dolorose e confuse.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I want to share what I have learned and hope you\u2019ll recognize some of these things in your own experience.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La prima cosa che ho imparato dal mio ex \u00e8 che a volte le persone ci fanno del male senza averne l'intenzione<\/strong>. Yes, that\u2019s possible and very frequent.<\/p>\n

Now, that doesn\u2019t mean they shouldn\u2019t face any consequences but it\u2019s easier to understand what they\u2019ve done when you think of it from another perspective.<\/p>\n

Every one of us has a different understanding of the same things and sometimes that means that one person will end up hurt over something that another person doesn\u2019t find important at all.<\/p>\n

Questo mi ha aiutato ad evolvermi in una persona pi\u00f9 comprensiva e persona matura<\/a> che fa un passo indietro e riflette prima di prendere tutto sul personale.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La seconda cosa molto importante che ho imparato \u00e8 riconoscere l'abuso in tutte le sue forme.<\/p>\n

When we think of abuse, we usually have a mental picture of physical abuse but that\u2019s not the only way Le persone tossiche danneggiano gli altri<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Esistono modi pi\u00f9 sottili di abuso, come l'abuso mentale, che si presenta in tutte le sue varianti: insulti, comportamenti passivi-aggressivi, comportamenti restrittivi, gaslighting e altro ancora.<\/p>\n

Per quanto terribile sia stata la mia esperienza, mi ha insegnato a farmi valere e a realizzare il mio potere.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I learned not to sacrifice my own well-being to mend something that\u2019s not worth it. Nothing that constantly brings you down is worth it.<\/p>\n

As soon as I implemented that simple formula in my life, it got better. I would never have realized that so clearly if it wasn\u2019t for my unfortunate ex.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La terza cosa che ho imparato \u00e8 che devi sempre essere te stesso e vivere la tua vita, avere i tuoi hobby e i tuoi amici.<\/strong>, indipendentemente dal vostro stato di coppia.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore che si possa fare \u00e8 perdere se stessi in una relazione e alla fine diventarne infelici per lo stesso motivo.<\/p>\n

No man has a right to restrict your needs or expression because of his own fears and no love is love if you can\u2019t be who you are in it.<\/p>\n

Ironicamente, il fatto di aver dato me stessa a un'altra persona mi ha insegnato che devo tornare a me stessa e abbracciare me stessa per prima.<\/p>\n

Solo voi potete veramente guarire voi stessi e attraverso la guarigione arrivano la crescita e l'evoluzione personale.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alla fine ho capito che tutte le mie relazioni erano un riflesso di come mi vedevo in quel periodo della vita e questo la dice lunga.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s a quote by Stephen Chbosky saying that accettiamo l'amore che pensiamo di meritare<\/strong> e sono d'accordo.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what made me revisit my relationship with myself and realize that every relationship is a chance to learn about myself because all the things we miss in ourself become exaggerated once we\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Guardate indietro a tutte le vostre relazioni e vedete quanta strada avete fatto, come le cose vi innescano di meno e come vi sentite pi\u00f9 felici nella vostra pelle.<\/p>\n

The more you become aware of your own growth, the more you\u2019ll realize how strangely thankful you are for your life and all the people you met along the way, no matter the pain, because pain is something that can transform and evolve just like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Gli<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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