{"id":98670,"date":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","slug":"un-legame-autentico-e-un-attaccamento-tossico-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-legame-autentico-e-un-attaccamento-tossico-2\/","title":{"rendered":"4 differenze tra un legame autentico e un attaccamento tossico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non importa quanti anni avete o quanta esperienza di relazioni avete, il fatto \u00e8 che molte persone hanno difficolt\u00e0 a determinare cosa sia il vero amore.<\/p>\n

Il nostro cuore e la nostra mente hanno un modo di giocare con noi e di convincerci che la nostra scelta sbagliata \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 un vero affare.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, this is nothing unusual. However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t learn to differentiate between a allegato tossico<\/a> e un legame autentico con un'altra persona.<\/p>\n

A prima vista, si potrebbe pensare che questi due concetti non abbiano nulla in comune.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, it\u2019s incredibly easy to mistake one for the other.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we\u2019re here to give you 4 crucial things that make all the difference in the world.<\/p>\n

Altruismo vs. egocentrismo<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Quando si ha un legame sano con qualcuno, non c'\u00e8 spazio per l'egoismo.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to love this person more than you love yourself. However, his needs also matter.<\/p>\n

Volete che sia felice e non potreste mai avere un sorriso sul viso mentre lui piange.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Voi due siete una squadra e condividete tutto.<\/p>\n

There are compromises involved and you\u2019re both ready to make some sacrifices for the sake of the other person\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we\u2019re talking about a toxic attachment, you\u2019re self-centered. The only thing that matters to both of you is your own needs.<\/p>\n

A toxic partner couldn\u2019t care less about the consequences of his actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn whether his behavior will hurt you, as long as he is okay and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He only puts himself first while you\u2019re nowhere to be found on his priority list.<\/p>\n

Invece di spingervi ad andare avanti, quest'uomo compete con voi. Invece di godere dei vostri successi, lo intimidiscono.<\/p>\n

Calma contro farfalle<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

\u201cThe Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate,’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation.” Monica Drake<\/em><\/p>\n

Questa citazione riassume bene una delle principali differenze tra un legame autentico e un attaccamento tossico.<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, \u00e8 qui che molti si sbagliano.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019ve trovare l'anima gemella<\/a> quando ti gira la testa ogni volta che ti guarda e quando senti le farfalle nello stomaco che danno vita a una vera e propria festa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You feel this unbearable excitement you can\u2019t control, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo \u00e8 probabilmente un segno di un attaccamento tossico.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, tutte queste sensazioni sono solitamente seguite da angoscia, dubbi e assenza di tranquillit\u00e0 in generale.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, when you meet the love of your life, you\u2019ll feel peace. For the first time ever, you\u2019ll feel completely calm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found your harbor and your home. You\u2019ll know that this is where you belong.<\/p>\n

Sostegno e codipendenza<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Essere coinvolti con un uomo tossico comporta una dipendenza emotiva.<\/p>\n

You feel like you couldn\u2019t live without this person by your side and as if your life would be completely pointless if you happened to lose him.<\/p>\n

In fondo, \u00e8 questo che vuole il vostro partner. Vuole che pensiate che sia lui a dare un senso alla vostra esistenza e che sia l'unico scopo che avete in questo mondo.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, when it\u2019s the real deal, you won\u2019t need this man by your side.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll consciously choose him to be a part of your life and you\u2019ll want him there.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sar\u00e0 il vostro pi\u00f9 grande sostenitore e il vento sotto le vostre ali.<\/p>\n

Quello che vi ispirer\u00e0 a essere migliori e che vi spinger\u00e0 verso l'indipendenza.<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t feel threatened once he sees that you\u2019re becoming self-sufficient. Instead, he will be proud of your strength and power.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put all of his efforts into making you addicted to him, the way a toxic boyfriend will certainly try doing.<\/p>\n

Invece, voi due crescerete in due individui sani che si completano a vicenda senza essere reciprocamente codipendenti.<\/p>\n

Felicit\u00e0 e tristezza<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Vero l'amore va combattuto<\/a>\u2014there is no doubt about that. Whoever tells you that it doesn\u2019t take a lot of effort and energy is probably lying.<\/p>\n

The fact is that all the pieces of your puzzle can\u2019t magically fall into place without you lifting a finger.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore non \u00e8 tutto rose e fiori. Ogni relazione ha i suoi alti e bassi.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you and your partner care for each other, you can\u2019t avoid having bad days from time to time.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, un legame autentico con un altro essere umano dovrebbe rendervi felici.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, un attaccamento tossico vi fa sentire infelici per la maggior parte del tempo.<\/p>\n

Ci fa sentire a disagio, ci fa sentire tristi e ci porta pi\u00f9 sofferenza che gioia vera e propria.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, Se avete ancora dei dubbi su quale sia la categoria in cui rientra la vostra relazione, ponetevi questa semplice domanda: Sono felice o triste per la maggior parte del tempo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like that, you\u2019ll get all the answers you need.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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