{"id":98711,"date":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98711"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","slug":"principi-su-cui-dovrebbe-basarsi-ogni-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/principi-su-cui-dovrebbe-basarsi-ogni-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"4 principi fondamentali su cui dovrebbe basarsi ogni rapporto di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nonostante le credenze popolari e il pessimismo, ci sono numerose <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/list-of-couple-goals\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">coppie felici<\/a> intorno a noi.<\/p>\n<p>Coppie che sono riuscite a costruire la loro storia d'amore nel modo giusto e che si godono la vita accanto alla persona che amano.<\/p>\n<p>Coppie che durano, nonostante il periodo in cui vivono.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se ognuno di noi \u00e8 diverso e quindi ha una dinamica relazionale diversa, ci sono alcuni elementi comuni a ciascuna di queste collaborazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Si attengono ad alcuni principi fondamentali su cui si fonda la loro relazione fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Presenza incondizionata<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98715\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg\" alt=\"scatto di una coppia che si tiene per mano mentre parla seriamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no magician and in fact, nobody expects you to be.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you don\u2019t have a magic wand to solve all of your partner\u2019s problems, as much as you try to do so.<\/p>\n<p>You can give your best but there are simply some situations in which you don\u2019t have the capacity to help them.<\/p>\n<p>Devono condurre e vincere alcune battaglie da soli, senza che voi li assistiate in alcun modo.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, a volte, <strong>being there and holding one another\u2019s hand is more than enough<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 proprio per questo che uno dei primi principi su cui dovrebbe basarsi ogni relazione \u00e8 la presenza incondizionata.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you will never abandon one another, no matter what happens, that you\u2019ll remain next to each other and just say that everything will be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Vedete, <strong>la cosa peggiore che potete fare alla persona amata \u00e8 farle vivere la vostra assenza durante le difficolt\u00e0. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s to make them feel alone when they need you the most.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imperativo categorico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"immagine di una donna rilassata che guarda fuori dalla finestra del corridoio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Immanuel Kant said: \u201cAct according to the maxim that you would wish all other rational people to follow, as if it were a universal law.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In parole povere, ci\u00f2 significa che <strong>you should never treat anyone else the way you wouldn\u2019t like to be treated. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Invece, agite verso gli altri come fareste voi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/top-18-reasons-to-be-happy-right-now-no-matter-what\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">essere felici<\/a> che agiscono nei vostri confronti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anche se questo \u00e8 il principio da seguire in tutte le relazioni, \u00e8 particolarmente cruciale come valore di una relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n<p>In pratica, <strong>ogni volta che volete dire o fare qualcosa al vostro partner, mettetevi nei suoi panni. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Chiedetevi come vi sentireste se la situazione fosse diversa e se vi scambiaste di posto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando si segue questo principio, si sviluppa un incredibile livello di compassione verso la persona amata.<\/p>\n<p>Li capite meglio e, di conseguenza, trasformate la vostra relazione in un posto migliore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'amore per se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"donna che fa shopping di vestiti guardandosi allo specchio con indosso la giacca\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti i consigli sulle relazioni vi diranno che l'amore incondizionato tra i partner \u00e8 un must se volete che la vostra relazione funzioni.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is completely true, there is one type of love more important than this\u2014the one you feel toward yourself.<\/p>\n<p>When you first read something like this, you assume it\u2019s quite selfish.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>you can\u2019t make anyone happy unless you make yourself happy, can you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Non si potr\u00e0 mai essere felici finch\u00e9 non si imparer\u00e0 ad amare prima di tutto se stessi, senza mettere in pericolo nessun altro.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t build a healthy relationship with someone else until you have a healthy relationship with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that it\u2019s not your duty to make the other person happy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you both have one task only\u2014to achieve inner peace and inner happiness that doesn\u2019t depend on your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Alla fine della giornata,<strong> quando ci sono due persone appagate, felici e che si amano, qual \u00e8 il risultato pi\u00f9 probabile? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 possibile che questo tipo di coppia abbia una relazione tossica?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Libert\u00e0 completa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna in campo d&#039;oro al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'errore numero uno che le persone fanno di solito quando si tratta di relazioni sentimentali \u00e8 quello di cercare di tenere l'altra parte accanto a s\u00e9, a qualsiasi costo.<\/p>\n<p>Beh, lasciatemi dire una cosa: <strong>Non si pu\u00f2 mai <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-si-puo-perdere-luomo-che-e-destinato-ad-essere-tuo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lose someone who\u2019s really yours.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Therefore, what\u2019s the point of this approach? What\u2019s the point of fears, jealousy or possessive behavior?<\/p>\n<p>Un principio importante che ogni relazione dovrebbe avere \u00e8 la libert\u00e0 illimitata.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s a notion in which both partners have complete freedom to basically do whatever they want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not saying that you should have an open relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you should come up with a mutual agreement regarding the things that are acceptable in the relationship and about those you won\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, \u00e8 qui che finisce il vostro lavoro. L'ultima cosa da fare \u00e8 sprecare energie per cercare di controllare la vostra met\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that <strong>you can\u2019t prevent anyone from leaving you or being unfaithful. If they want to do it, they\u2019ll find a way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, se li mettete in gabbia, si sentiranno intrappolati e soffocati. Di conseguenza, questo non fa che aumentare le possibilit\u00e0 di perderli.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi, per favore, lasciatevi andare. Sar\u00e0 la vostra coscienza a stabilire cosa \u00e8 giusto o sbagliato.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead of forcing one another to stay in this relationship, wouldn\u2019t you be happier knowing that they choose to stay even though nobody is forcing them to?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98725\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"4 principi fondamentali su cui dovrebbe basarsi ogni rapporto di coppia\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite popular belief and pessimism, there are numerous happy couples all around us. Couples who have succeeded in building their romance the right way and who enjoy their life next to the person they love. Couples that last, despite the period they live in. Even though everyone is different and therefore everyone has a different&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":98724,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98724"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}