{"id":9905,"date":"2020-08-08T13:18:46","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T13:18:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9905"},"modified":"2022-02-27T01:36:39","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T01:36:39","slug":"veramente-amato-non-mi-avrebbe-fatto-sentire-come-se-non-fosse-abbastanza-buono-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/veramente-amato-non-mi-avrebbe-fatto-sentire-come-se-non-fosse-abbastanza-buono-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Se mi avessi amato davvero, non mi avresti fatto sentire come se non fossi abbastanza bravo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Just because you walked away, it doesn\u2019t mean my pain is gone too. It doesn\u2019t mean that by walking away you erased all my feelings toward you or that you\u2019ve been able to delete all the memories I have.<\/p>\n

To be honest, I have no idea if I felt more down when we dated or now that you\u2019re gone. The worst part is that I\u2019m not sure you deserve any of it because I never really knew how you felt about me.<\/p>\n

E anche se hai detto che era amore, le tue azioni parlano in modo diverso<\/a>.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought we would make it if I did some things differently. But then when I think about what those things might have been, I can\u2019t find an answer because I gave my all in.<\/p>\n

I did everything I could and it still wasn\u2019t enough. Not that that\u2019s something new, as I have this feeling niente di quello che ho fatto \u00e8 stato abbastanza per te<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And after all this time I wonder how it is possible that we didn\u2019t make it, when I loved you so much. How is it possible that we didn\u2019t make it when you said you loved me too?<\/p>\n

But if you had truly loved me, why would you have made me feel like I wasn\u2019t good enough?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Continuavi a paragonarmi agli altri.<\/strong> You wanted me to be more like this or more like that. There were so many things you wanted from me and wanted me to change and I only wanted one thing from you\u2014to love me for who I was.<\/p>\n

Ma non mi hai mai amato veramente<\/a> perch\u00e9 non mi hai mai accettato per quello che ero. Non hai mai voluto che fossi chi ero veramente, c'era sempre qualcosa di me che ti dava fastidio. <\/strong><\/p>\n

A prescindere da quante cose buone ci fossero, tu continuavi a vedere solo quelle cattive.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Continuavi a sottolineare le mie imperfezioni.<\/strong> I know, I\u2019m far from perfect, but there is more to me than my imperfections. I\u2019m not all imperfect, there are things I really love about myself.<\/p>\n

Anch'io ho dei lati positivi e ho pi\u00f9 tratti positivi che negativi. Ma voi non siete mai riusciti a vedere i lati positivi perch\u00e9 vi siete concentrati solo su quelli negativi.<\/p>\n

After a while, I started seeing myself through your eyes and I too didn\u2019t like what I saw.<\/p>\n

You kept making expectations that I couldn\u2019t reach.<\/strong> Non mi hai mai dato nulla in cambio, ma volevi che facessi tutte le cose che mi chiedevi.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Whenever you didn\u2019t like something about me, you asked me to change it. If I changed it, you\u2019d move to the next thing that bothered you about me and if I didn\u2019t, you kept complaining about it until I too started to hate it as well.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato cos\u00ec difficile per me stare al passo con te e ci ho provato cos\u00ec tanto perch\u00e9 ti amavo.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, non hai mai trovato un posto per me nella tua vita.<\/strong> I never knew where I stood with you. And that\u2019s something no one should experience in love.<\/p>\n

Nessuno dovrebbe mai chiedersi che posto occupa nella vita della persona che ama. E io ero l\u00ec, piena di amore per te, ma senza alcuna promessa di un futuro o anche solo di essere ricambiata.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t shake the feeling that it was me and that I wasn\u2019t good enough for you.<\/strong> I couldn\u2019t see myself with you when you never gave me a glimpse of hope, not a single kind gesture that would tell me that you found me worthy of my love.<\/p>\n

All I could think of was how I couldn\u2019t get anything right. And for so long I wondered how I got there and what was wrong until I finally realized that you weren\u2019t ready to settle.<\/a><\/p>\n

Non sei mai stato pronto a smettere di inseguire e ad accontentarti di una ragazza sola.<\/strong> La possibilit\u00e0 che ci fosse qualcuno di meglio l\u00e0 fuori e che lei si accontentasse di poco continuava a perseguitarla.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Anche tu eri tutt'altro che perfetto, ma credo che dentro di te ci fosse un narcisista molto ben mascherato. E questa parte forte di te non ha mai potuto accontentarsi, non ha mai voluto accontentarsi.<\/p>\n

I realized it wasn\u2019t me and that it was anything too much wrong with me. No girl could ever be good enough for you because that\u2019s just who you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Passare continuamente da una persona all'altra senza mai essere soddisfatti di se stessi o della propria posizione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You said you loved me, but now I know it wasn’t love. You might\u2019ve loved the potential you saw in me, but that wasn\u2019t true love. If it was, I wouldn\u2019t have constantly felt like I was not good enough.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t love because you\u2019re too scared to love. And it\u2019s not that I\u2019m not good enough, it\u2019s that no other could ever be good enough; after all, you never meant to stay to begin with.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So good luck with your chase for the perfect one, but I\u2019m done mistaking what you gave me for love. I\u2019m done bringing myself down because you couldn\u2019t accept or love me for who I was.<\/p>\n

Mi amo cos\u00ec come sono, con tutte le mie imperfezioni e tutti i miei lati positivi e so che anche qualcun altro lo far\u00e0.<\/p>\n

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