{"id":99776,"date":"2020-09-21T16:07:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T16:07:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99776"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:11:54","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:11:54","slug":"processo-di-guarigione-della-fiamma-gemella","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/processo-di-guarigione-della-fiamma-gemella\/","title":{"rendered":"Comprendere e padroneggiare il processo di guarigione della Fiamma Gemella"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Guarigione della fiamma gemella<\/b><b> \u00e8 un processo impegnativo in cui <\/b><b>fiamme gemelle<\/b><b> affrontare e superare le loro paure e i loro traumi per diventare ci\u00f2 che sono veramente e sperimentare la beatitudine dell'unione.<\/b>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 se ne parla tanto nella comunit\u00e0 spirituale?<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re reading this, I suppose you no longer ask yourself whether twin flames are real and you already know what a twin flame is; your perfect half.<\/p>\n<p>Sono il riflesso di voi. Sono qualcuno che vi fa sentire a casa e vi completa.<\/p>\n<p><b>Now, there&#8217;s a catch.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s a magical and beautiful thing to find someone who completes you and understands you but the thing is, if your <\/b><b>fiamma gemella<\/b><b> \u00e8 un riflesso di voi, significa solo che riflette tutte le cose belle e brutte di voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00ec, tutte le vostre debolezze, tutte le vostre paure pi\u00f9 profonde, tutti i vostri meccanismi di difesa, tutte le bugie che dite a voi stessi, tutte le cose da cui volete scappare.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99779 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito bianco seduta sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-dock-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why everyone&#8217;s interested in twin flame healing because that&#8217;s where the struggle begins.<\/p>\n<p>Twin flame journeys can be extremely confusing, depending on what twin flame healing stage you&#8217;re at.<\/p>\n<p>In one period of your journey, you experience nothing but bliss, while in another, you\u2019ll experience enormous pain.<\/p>\n<p><b>La beatitudine deriva dall'unit\u00e0 e il dolore dalla separazione.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The bliss means to accept and see beyond someone&#8217;s current mind programming and the pain comes from allowing to be trapped in another <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/15-segni-che-siete-in-una-cosiddetta-relazione-karmica\/\">schema karmico.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Per programmazione mentale intendo i processi di pensiero appresi che hanno origine dai primi traumi infantili, quando abbiamo trovato meccanismi di coping per evitare il dolore.<\/p>\n<p>Per essere intrappolati in un altro schema karmico, intendo dire che ci rifiutiamo di imparare dalle esperienze di vita ripetute e scegliamo di tornare nella paura invece di entrare nella crescita.<\/p>\n<p>So, if it wasn&#8217;t clear by now, let&#8217;s answer this question once again:<\/p>\n<h2>Qual \u00e8 lo scopo di una fiamma gemella?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99780 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si abbracciano in piedi vicino alla recinzione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-near-fence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The purpose of a twin flame connection definitely isn\u2019t to roll around on cloud nine with your twin.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/scopo-della-fiamma-gemella\/\"><b>Il vero scopo di un <\/b><\/a><b>connessione a doppia fiamma<\/b><b> is to pull out all the things you&#8217;ve buried deep inside which don&#8217;t belong there; it&#8217;s a fight to become your <\/b><b>il vero s\u00e9<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>La vostra fiamma \u00e8 qui per aiutarvi a rimuovere tutte le maschere e tutte le bugie che vi siete detti su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re here to help you recognize what&#8217;s stopping you from being yourself; the ways you keep yourself away from what you deserve and all the walls you build to protect yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>Affrontare la nostra pi\u00f9 grande paura, la nostra pi\u00f9 grande vergogna o le nostre ferite pi\u00f9 profonde \u00e8 un'esperienza estremamente vulnerabile e spaventosa a cui nessuno si iscrive volentieri.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In fact, we&#8217;re so set on avoiding all of that once it gets to breaking point and we have no choice but to face it.<\/p>\n<p>Our life turns upside down and that&#8217;s the moment when one twin flame becomes the runner and the other one becomes the chaser.<\/p>\n<p>For some people, it&#8217;s enough to just feel the strong <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-segni-di-una-profonda-connessione-spirituale-con-il-vostro-partner\/\">connessione spirituale <\/a>di sentirsi sopraffatti e di scappare. Per capire meglio perch\u00e9 questo accade, dobbiamo guardare sotto la superficie.<\/p>\n<p>Sia il corridore che la fiamma gemella inseguitrice hanno le loro ferite che necessitano di un approccio diverso per guarire.<\/p>\n<p>However, there&#8217;s a pretty accurate and frequent pattern among chaser and runner wounds that can be explained in five different types of wounds and their masks.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>La fiamma gemella<\/b> <b>inseguitore<\/b><b> e <\/b><b>corridore a doppia fiamma<\/b><b> dinamico<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Ferite dell'inseguitore<\/h2>\n<h2>La ferita del rifiuto equivale alla maschera del ritiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99781 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"donna appoggiata a un albero mentre si trova vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The wound of rejection creates a deep and persistent belief that one&#8217;s existence has no meaning; or in other words, that he or she shouldn&#8217;t exist or doesn&#8217;t have a right to exist.<\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 non sorprende, poich\u00e9 uno dei bisogni umani pi\u00f9 importanti e basilari \u00e8 quello di appartenere. Appartenere significa trovare il proprio scopo e il proprio posto nel mondo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>If a person experiences rejection early in life, they&#8217;re likely to avoid situations where they could be rejected again.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That&#8217;s why they tend to withdraw and pull away in a situation where they should stand their ground.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hanno confini molto deboli e agiscono inconsciamente in modo indifeso o eccessivamente accomodante. A volte questo comportamento fa perdere loro molta energia perch\u00e9 si perdono letteralmente negli altri.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not surprising that they also have a tendency to daydream, which is another way of escaping reality. Overall, they have low self-esteem and attract people who are controlling and abusive.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo aver guarito questa ferita, l'inseguitore impara a porre dei limiti, a fidarsi di se stesso e ad accettare e comprendere il proprio significato nel mondo.<\/p>\n<h2>La ferita dell'abbandono equivale alla maschera della dipendenza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99782 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top giallo a righe appoggiata al finestrino del camper\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-window-of-camper-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La ferita dell'abbandono deriva dall'esperienza di essere stati abbandonati e lasciati da bambini in senso fisico o emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>Per evitare il dolore dell'abbandono, l'inseguitore crea una maschera di dipendenza e di bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>Questo si manifesta come un bisogno di compiacere gli altri, un bisogno di approvazione e di piegarsi agli altri per paura di essere abbandonati di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>Same as the wound of rejection, they don&#8217;t have boundaries and get manipulated easily.<\/p>\n<p>Tendono anche a perdersi negli altri e nei bisogni degli altri, il che \u00e8 uno scenario perfetto per un corridore per esercitare la sua maschera di controllo.<\/p>\n<p>Purtroppo, possono inconsciamente indursi ad accettare l'umiliazione invece di farsi valere.<\/p>\n<p>Quando la ferita \u00e8 rimarginata, gli ex cacciatori sviluppano confini forti e si fanno strada nel loro potere.<\/p>\n<h2>Ferite del corridore<\/h2>\n<h2>La ferita del tradimento equivale alla maschera del controllo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99783 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna dai capelli rossi in top nero seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-floor-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il tradimento \u00e8 una ferita che crea una mancanza di fiducia che porta a un bisogno di controllo in ogni momento o semplicemente a una maschera di controllo.<\/p>\n<p>Quando una persona subisce un tradimento, \u00e8 terrorizzata dall'idea di riporre nuovamente la propria fiducia in qualcuno, quindi trova un modo per controllare l'esito e le persone che la circondano.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why this wound creates a mask of control. Not only do they try to control others and the situations they&#8217;re in but also their own feelings.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 per questo che hanno muri alti intorno al loro cuore e hanno difficolt\u00e0 a far entrare le persone e perch\u00e9 scappano quando qualcuno si avvicina a farli aprire.<\/p>\n<p>Neither runner nor chaser will voluntarily face their wounds; in fact, they&#8217;re rarely fully conscious of them but once they find the person they truly love, they will have no choice but to bring their walls down and stop running away.<\/p>\n<p>Dovr\u00e0 abbandonare il controllo e questo alla fine lo salver\u00e0. Il corridore dovr\u00e0 affrontare le proprie paure.<\/p>\n<h2>La ferita dell'umiliazione equivale alla maschera della conformit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99784 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence.jpg\" alt=\"donna in camicia bianca appoggiata alla recinzione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-leaning-on-fence-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una persona con una ferita da umiliazione \u00e8 stata umiliata e degradata una volta e quindi evita a tutti i costi il ripetersi di un'esperienza simile.<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso, il dolore viene evitato grazie alla compliance.<\/p>\n<p>La conformit\u00e0 \u00e8 un'altra forma di comportamento di controllo, ma in un modo in cui la persona con questa ferita fa tutto il possibile per rendersi e presentarsi come preziosa agli altri.<\/p>\n<p>The things they do don&#8217;t always come from love but a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-segni-di-paura-del-rifiuto\/\">paura di essere rifiutati<\/a> o di vergogna.<\/p>\n<p>These types tend to play parents for other people and go above and beyond for things and people they don&#8217;t really care about just to preserve and protect their image and avoid shame.<\/p>\n<p>However, they can&#8217;t hide indefinitely and that&#8217;s why at one point, they will run. These kinds of runners don&#8217;t allow themselves to truly be who they are.<\/p>\n<h2>La ferita dell'ingiustizia equivale alla maschera della rigidit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99785 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna con bracciale di perline bianche seduta vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The wound of injustice originates from an experience when a person was mistreated and didn&#8217;t get what he or she deserved.<\/p>\n<p>People with this emotional wound are very demanding with themselves and they can&#8217;t easily connect with their emotions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re sometimes difficult to talk to and tend to be perfectionists and they often find themselves getting into situations where they feel they are treated unfairly.<\/p>\n<p>Per guarire la ferita, hanno bisogno di sentirsi liberi e spontanei e di esprimere liberamente le proprie emozioni.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Errori comuni: Evitare la codipendenza spirituale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99801 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"donna con foulard colorato seduta vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Too often, we think that our happiness depends on other people, especially our partner. That&#8217;s a lot of pressure for one person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We expect them to be there when we&#8217;re happy, sad, angry or lost and when we have to make big decisions. We also expect them to help us, to solve our problems, to inspire us and heal us.<\/p>\n<p>In effetti, molte persone incolpano o lodano il proprio partner come colui che li ha rovinati o salvati.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni relazione inizia quando riconosciamo qualcosa di cui abbiamo bisogno in un'altra persona e questo sentimento \u00e8 particolarmente intenso quando incontriamo la nostra fiamma gemella.<\/p>\n<p><b>The problem is, we often become obsessed with the idea they can somehow magically heal us, when in reality we&#8217;re both stuck in this 3D reality, in our earthly lives, experiencing everything that karma prepared for us.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nessuno pu\u00f2 guarirci se non noi stessi. Abbiamo il nostro percorso, le nostre sfide ed essenzialmente, s\u00ec, navighiamo questa vita da soli.<\/p>\n<p>However scary that sounds, it&#8217;s true. We need to follow our inner guidance and trust ourselves. We are our own energy healer and everything else is a bonus.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99802 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top a righe che guarda la montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I&#8217;m not saying that our twin flame isn&#8217;t a big part of our life path, I&#8217;m just saying they are a <\/b><b><i>parte<\/i><\/b><b> di esso e non il percorso stesso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In a culture where people worship other people as gods and put responsibility in everyone&#8217;s hands but their own, it&#8217;s important to realize, accept and own our shortcomings, mistakes and responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Another thing that happens is that we think we can save them. We think we know what&#8217;s best for them and we constantly try to make them listen to us.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the complete opposite of what we should be doing because we don&#8217;t know their personal path to well-being. We don&#8217;t get to decide for them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Assuming that you know what&#8217;s better for another person is a trap. Giving unsolicited advice is one of the most irritating things someone can do.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Think about the times when there was some \u2018enlightened\u2019 person in your life who always had answers and solutions for everything and gave unsolicited advice. Now, you don&#8217;t want to be them, do you?<\/p>\n<p>You also don&#8217;t want to shower them with \u2018positivity\u2019, especially when they&#8217;re going through a troublesome time. Both happiness and sadness are valid emotions and they don&#8217;t add or take value from our worth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99803 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top nero a fiori in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no point in pushing certain narratives or feelings on other people. It&#8217;s an inauthentic approach to life and that means it won&#8217;t last.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t get to fully create the narrative, we only get to change the way we look at things when they happen.<\/p>\n<p>One thing we can do, however, is offer help if it&#8217;s wanted. Help comes in different forms. Sometimes a person just needs a shoulder to cry on and isn&#8217;t asking you for solutions.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to understand why someone struggles with certain things but the truth is that there&#8217;s a pain in them that needs to be healed.<\/p>\n<p><b>Uno <\/b><b>fiamma gemella<\/b><b>&#8216;s pain usually hides their life lessons and that pain along with those life lessons are compatible with the pain and lessons of the other twin flame.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why twin flame relationships can be so complicated. Ultimately, it&#8217;s beneficial and needed but there&#8217;s a lot of really difficult stuff to go through in-between.<\/p>\n<p>One thing you have to remember is that you can&#8217;t take away the pain from your twin. They need to experience it. It&#8217;s part of their path.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99804 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito floreale in piedi nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-in-the-field-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tutti hanno bisogno di attraversare la notte buia dell'anima, tutti hanno bisogno di imparare l'arte di lasciarsi andare e tutte le lezioni dolorose che incontriamo nel nostro viaggio divino.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don&#8217;t lose yourself to another person, even if it&#8217;s your <\/b><b>fiamma gemella<\/b><b>.<\/b> Don&#8217;t give them more than what you have because that&#8217;s not going to do anything but make both of you miserable.<\/p>\n<p>Fiducia nel<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/grazie-universo\/\"> universo<\/a>La fiducia nel processo, la fiducia nel proprio s\u00e9 superiore e la rinuncia a preoccuparsi e a stressarsi per qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a essere.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, our wounds are reflected in a way where we need to be needed by the other person. Don&#8217;t fall for that.<\/p>\n<p>We try our best to be happy, helpful, optimistic, positive and soothing and that&#8217;s the only version of ourselves we accept and we immediately feel weak when we fail to meet our own standards.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, we&#8217;re dependent on others to need us, which makes us feel validated the same way a \u2018&#8217;needy\u2019 person is dependent on our positive energy.<\/p>\n<p>This circle needs to stop and will stop because burnout will occur sooner or later; that\u2019s what codependency does.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99805 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top rosso seduta al tavolo all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-at-table-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Codependency implies that we can&#8217;t be successful and happy without the other person and that&#8217;s simply not true if we&#8217;re living in accordance with our higher self and our divine path.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un vero <\/b><b>amore della fiamma gemella<\/b><b> vi insegna ad amare voi stessi per tutto ci\u00f2 che siete.<\/b> It teaches you that you&#8217;re enough as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Le coppie di fiamme gemelle esistono per imparare l'una dall'altra e per godere del processo di unione che avviene dopo la guarigione della fiamma gemella.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re here to essentially teach us that soulmates, twin flames, karmic relationships, soul connections, the divine feminine and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sintomi-del-risveglio-divino-maschile\/\"> il divino maschile<\/a> are just words we use to describe different expressions of the same thing and that&#8217;s <i>unicit\u00e0<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>However, let&#8217;s get back to the problem of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-segni-evidenti-di-una-relazione-codipendente-superati\/\">codipendenza<\/a>soprattutto la codipendenza spirituale.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Qual \u00e8 la differenza? La codipendenza tradizionale o abilitazione significa fare per quella persona cose che pu\u00f2 fare da sola.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For example, that includes sending financial help, paying things for them, resolving problems they caused, etc. It is also common for dependent people to blame others for the situation they&#8217;re in, e.g. their ex-partner, their parents and so on.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99806 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach.jpg\" alt=\"donna con camicia di jeans in piedi sulla spiaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-beach-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La codipendenza spirituale consiste nel pensare alla propria anima gemella pi\u00f9 che a se stessi, nell'essere ossessionati dalla ricerca di modi per guarirla, in modo da poter essere in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/segni-che-state-vivendo-ununione-di-fiamma-gemella\/\">unione della fiamma gemella<\/a>Permettere un comportamento malsano da parte loro, incolpare se stessi, ferire altre persone a causa loro, ecc. e viceversa.<\/p>\n<p>In breve, <b>when we notice that we are trying to control and change someone else or we let someone else do that to us, we&#8217;re acting codependent.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quello che dobbiamo fare \u00e8 agire per amore e non per paura e questo significa quasi sempre dare amore incondizionato a noi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>That is the main goal; to be who we are, to be whole. That sometimes means putting up boundaries, breaking up with our twin and loving them from afar and that&#8217;s okay too.<\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t stop loving them but you&#8217;ll let them find their own way because you can&#8217;t do the things they&#8217;re not ready for. They have to do it themselves, the same as you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il <\/b><b>processo a doppia fiamma<\/b><b> almost never looks the way we imagined it to be. It&#8217;s a lot messier and sometimes it takes years.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Abbiate fiducia nel vostro viaggio della fiamma gemella e concentratevi sul lavoro di guarigione che fate su voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><b>Siate abbastanza coraggiosi da riconoscere le maschere e le paure in voi stessi che vi tengono lontani dalla genuinit\u00e0. <\/b><b>amore per se stessi<\/b><b> e la verit\u00e0 universale.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Cosa pu\u00f2 aiutarvi nel vostro percorso di guarigione?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Esistono vari metodi e campi di guarigione che possono aiutarvi nel vostro percorso di guarigione personale.<\/p>\n<p>Resolving old traumas, getting to know them and understanding them and practicing energy healing will help you in your day-to-day life and eventually with your twin flame path and your twin flame healing\u2014but that shouldn&#8217;t be your biggest problem.<\/p>\n<h2>Guarigione delle ferite del bambino interiore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99807 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta sull&#039;erba che guarda l&#039;oceano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-grass-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Crescendo, ci sono state molte cose che ci hanno plasmato come siamo ora. Alcune di esse sono state positive, altre negative.<\/p>\n<p>The bad ones made us feel unsafe and that&#8217;s the feeling we subconsciously carried into our adult life and that&#8217;s why you need to heal them.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to understand that we shouldn&#8217;t blame our parents or caretakers for everything because they did the best they could.<\/p>\n<p>Questi sono alcuni dei modi pi\u00f9 comuni in cui vi hanno fatto sentire insicuri:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Le \u00e8 stato negato il diritto di esprimere la sua opinione.<\/p>\n<p>Siete stati puniti quando vi siete comportati in modo diverso da come ci si aspettava.<\/p>\n<p>Mancava il divertimento e la spensieratezza nei giochi o era oppresso da troppe responsabilit\u00e0 per un bambino<\/p>\n<p>Non c'era spazio per la spontaneit\u00e0&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Siete stati privati dell'affetto fisico<\/p>\n<p>La manifestazione di emozioni forti era fortemente sconsigliata.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sei stato svergognato<\/p>\n<p>Siete stati criticati o puniti fisicamente<\/p>\n<h2>Guarigione delle ferite della vita passata<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99808 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi all&#039;aperto durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per la legge del karma, ci siamo portati dietro le questioni e i traumi irrisolti delle vite passate nella vita attuale.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t necessarily need to know everything and anything about our past life to understand trauma and how it affects our present psyche.<\/p>\n<p>Cosa fa il trauma alla nostra psiche? Il trauma \u00e8 un'esperienza sconvolgente e travolgente in pi\u00f9 di un modo. Pu\u00f2 essere travolgente in senso fisico, emotivo o spirituale.<\/p>\n<p>During a traumatic moment, our psyche is unable to process what&#8217;s happening and therefore can&#8217;t go back to function the same way it did before.<\/p>\n<p>Nel corso della vita, le conseguenze di queste esperienze possono manifestarsi come fobie, paranoie, ansia, confusione, depressione, malattie, ecc.<\/p>\n<p>Spiega anche perch\u00e9 in certe situazioni abbiamo una risposta di lotta o di fuga, apparentemente senza una buona ragione.<\/p>\n<h2>Guarigione del karma ancestrale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99809 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda seduta vicino all&#039;acqua durante il giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si ritiene che i nostri antenati portino le ferite non curate nel mondo degli spiriti una volta lasciato il nostro.<\/p>\n<p>Per fortuna, il karma ancestrale pu\u00f2 essere liberato e modificato con uno sforzo continuo da parte nostra.<\/p>\n<h2>Cambiare il vecchio sistema di credenze<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99810 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat.jpg\" alt=\"donna con orologio seduta su una barca rossa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-on-boat-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A belief system consists of accepted rules by which we determine what&#8217;s wrong or right, true or false. A belief means that we believe something exists and therefore that it is true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That of course doesn&#8217;t mean that what we think exists in objective reality; as long as we believe it does and accept that idea as true, it exists for us and we base the rest of our thoughts, actions and beliefs on it.<\/p>\n<p>Il problema inizia quando le nostre convinzioni sono molto forti, molto sbagliate o influenzano la qualit\u00e0 della nostra vita.<\/p>\n<h2>Taglio del cavo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99811 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con giacca di jeans in piedi vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-water-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il taglio dei fili \u00e8 una pratica che ci aiuta a recuperare l'energia e a ritornare a confini energetici sani.<\/p>\n<p>Every time we enter into a relationship with someone, we develop energetic cords and that&#8217;s not something bad but normal. Energetic cords help us understand other people and create genuine relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, nei casi in cui le relazioni diventano tossiche, potremmo voler tagliare i fili e lasciare andare le altre persone. Questa pratica pu\u00f2 aiutarci a superare il passato e a impegnarci per noi stessi e per la nostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Segni di guarigione<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere is a moment in our healing journey when our denial crumbles; we realize our experience and its continued effects on us won&#8217;t \u2018just go away\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s our breakthrough moment. It&#8217;s the sun coming out to warm the seeds of hope so they can grow our personal garden of empowerment.\u201d \u2015 Jeanne McElvaney&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Twin flame healing only occurs when both of the flames heal individually. After problems in a relationship, especially after the lesson of separation and maturation, you&#8217;ll notice signs of healing on yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'ossessione si fermer\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99812 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda con giacca nera in piedi vicino alla porta della saracinesca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-shutter-door-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Obsession with your other half will stop. You&#8217;ll simply accept the fact that you love them and you will love them forever no matter what but they have their own path and sometimes you won&#8217;t be a part of it.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, you&#8217;ll stop feeling sad and unfulfilled. Instead, you&#8217;ll get back to the things that make you happy and in touch with yourself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You won&#8217;t be afraid anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99813 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top bianco in piedi in riva al mare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-on-seashore-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La lezione della separazione scatena una notevole quantit\u00e0 di ansia in entrambi i partner, che provoca paure e incapacit\u00e0 di vivere la vita normalmente.<\/p>\n<p>It pulls you away from the present moment and makes you live in imagined scenarios. However, after the healing, you&#8217;ll let go of this fear and start living your life freely.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll finally understand what self-love is<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99864 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"donna con gli occhi chiusi in piedi circondata da fiori bianchi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-surrounded-with-flowers-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll start to treat yourself with respect, you will recognize your own <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-bellezza-interiore-cosa-significa-in-realta\/\">bellezza interiore<\/a> e vi percepirete come una persona degna di amore, affetto, attenzione e di tutte le cose che desiderate veramente.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll finally feel at peace with yourself and enjoy your own company.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Smetterete di sentirvi vuoti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99873 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna con cappotto marrone in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not unusual to feel numb and empty after we experience emotional abandonment by a partner.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta che sarete guariti e avrete imparato a fidarvi del vostro s\u00e9 superiore e della connessione divina, il vostro senso dello scopo torner\u00e0 in voi e vi sentirete di nuovo voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>You will feel that your spirit has been lifted and you&#8217;ll have the strength to carry on and keep living your life to the fullest with or without them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll stop getting triggered by the same old things<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99875 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg\" alt=\"donna con rossetto viola in piedi vicino ai fiori\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-flowers-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le cose che in passato vi hanno fatto piangere e infuriare vi lasceranno senza reazioni, il che \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 grande segno che avete superato il trauma.<\/p>\n<p>The more you explore yourself and detach from your old self-image and beliefs, the more you&#8217;ll find yourself in a state of contentment and spiritual bliss.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start practicing mindfulness daily<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99876 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con poncho marrone che guarda la montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-mountain-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La mindfulness \u00e8 semplicemente essere consapevoli del momento presente e fare le cose con attenzione. Aiuta a diminuire l'ansia, aumenta l'attenzione e la concentrazione e aiuta a migliorare la comunicazione e il sonno.<\/p>\n<p>After experiencing great amounts of mental distress on your journey and healing yourself, you&#8217;ll find yourself making a habit out of mindfulness to keep yourself content.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Quali sono le fasi della fiamma gemella?<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ricerca di <i>l'uno<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna con maglione grigio in piedi vicino a un campo d&#039;erba\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-grass-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In this early stage, you&#8217;re searching for your twin flame. You have this internal feeling that there&#8217;s a person you&#8217;ll meet who&#8217;s going to be your perfect match.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you don&#8217;t know when or where will they show up but deep inside yourself, you know it will happen.<\/p>\n<p>At this time, it&#8217;s common for a person to start working on something new, something that will prepare them for their twin flame in some way, such as exploring their consciousness and subconsciousness, developing self-awareness or taking up a new hobby.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trovare <i>l'uno<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99880 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna in piedi su un tetto durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-standing-on-rooftop-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s possible that before meeting the one, you&#8217;ll notice the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/22-segni-che-dimostrano-che-state-vivendo-un-amore-da-fiamma-gemella\/\">segni della tua anima a specchio<\/a> sta arrivando.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you may have a premonition in your dreams, you may experience telepathy or get weirdly interested in something you didn&#8217;t know about before that will lead you to them.<\/p>\n<p>The first time you meet or get in contact with each other, you&#8217;ll know that something special has happened for real.<\/p>\n<p>Potete provare gioia, meraviglia, ansia e tutta una serie di emozioni. Vi sentirete estremamente curiosi e attratti da questa persona che conoscete appena.<\/p>\n<p>This person will immediately find a way to your heart and stay there. You&#8217;ll have an underlying feeling that they will change your life completely.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Innamorarsi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99883 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con cappello nero e donna sorridente all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next step on the twin flame journey is falling in love. You&#8217;ll fall and you&#8217;ll fall hard. Your twin flame mirror will make you feel like nobody else before.<\/p>\n<p>The more you get closer, the deeper your love will go. You&#8217;ll feel very different and will probably ask yourself what&#8217;s happening to you but you won&#8217;t be too concerned as long as they&#8217;re with you.<\/p>\n<p>L'attrazione tra voi due sar\u00e0 fuori scala e vi sentirete fortunati ad aver trovato qualcuno che vi capisce cos\u00ec tanto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La relazione perfetta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99885 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna sorridente che guarda un uomo seduto vicino a un albero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-looking-at-man-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After the initial craziness, hopefully, you&#8217;ll start a relationship. In the beginning, everything will be fairy-tale-like.<\/p>\n<p>Vi sentirete come se aveste trovato il vostro partner perfetto, che capisce le vostre esigenze e che pu\u00f2 darvi tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno. Sar\u00e0 il vostro migliore amico e il vostro amante.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll feel safe and inspired by them. You&#8217;ll probably be inspired to engage more in spirituality and learn about new things from them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Problemi in paradiso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata seduta sul divano vicino a un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-sitting-near-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is the problematic phase. After the initial infatuation starts to wear off, you&#8217;ll find yourself acting weirdly sensitive around them.<\/p>\n<p>Emergeranno tutte le vostre differenze e farete fatica a tenere sotto controllo il vostro ego.<\/p>\n<p>Apart from mirroring everything that&#8217;s good in you, your partner will mirror painful things too.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, they will probably do it by acting opposite to how you do, so you&#8217;re passive, your twin will be aggressive, if you&#8217;re quiet, your twin will be loud and so on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questo finir\u00e0 per creare un'atmosfera estremamente irritante e uno dei due comincer\u00e0 a pensare di lasciarsi.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is that in this stage, you&#8217;re both living in illusion and are blind to see how you can grow from your experiences. You can&#8217;t recognize the lesson even when it&#8217;s painfully obvious.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Questa fase innesca il processo di guarigione della vostra fiamma gemella.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La dinamica del corridore e dell'inseguitore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99887 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda in felpa grigia in piedi vicino alla montagna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/woman-standing-near-mountain-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Man mano che la tensione cresce, le vostre differenze appariranno sempre pi\u00f9 grandi, finch\u00e9 uno dei due inizier\u00e0 a scappare e l'altro far\u00e0 di tutto per restare.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, here&#8217;s where the runner\/chaser dynamic begins.<\/p>\n<p>In questa fase pu\u00f2 succedere di tutto. A volte il corridore scompare letteralmente o interrompe ogni contatto, lasciando l'inseguitore in confusione, senza alcuna spiegazione.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la maggior parte dipende dalla maturit\u00e0 di entrambi. A volte la separazione dura anni, altre volte si risolve in pochi giorni.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Arrendersi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99888 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si abbracciano in piedi vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-hugging-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dopo il periodo turbolento arriva la resa. Dopo aver conosciuto le vostre insicurezze e le vostre debolezze, iniziate ad aprirvi l'un l'altro a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/p>\n<p>In this stage, you recognize the ego and its games and let yourself relax and don&#8217;t get offended or hurt so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Iniziate a imparare a non identificarvi con le vostre convinzioni passate e con il vostro dolore.<\/p>\n<p>This stage of a relationship isn&#8217;t a one-time thing. It will happen again and again as you learn and accept different parts of yourself and each other.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il sindacato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-99889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si tengono per mano durante il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/couple-holding-hands-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In questo, la finale <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/stadi-a-doppia-fiamma\/\">stadio a doppia fiamma<\/a>, you&#8217;ll both find peace and mutual interest that will bring you a sense of joy and fulfillment.<\/p>\n<p>Man mano che l'ego si indebolisce, tratti come il perdono, l'empatia e la pazienza diventano parte della vita quotidiana e delle relazioni.<\/p>\n<p>Entrambi lavorate per l'unione e la beatitudine.<\/p>\n<h2>To wrap up&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>Il processo di guarigione della fiamma gemella \u00e8 un percorso accidentato e chi si aspetta una favola rimarr\u00e0 profondamente deluso.<\/p>\n<p>However, it&#8217;s worth it and sooner or later, it will happen. All you need to do is have patience and love for your partner.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Le relazioni con le fiamme gemelle sono uguali a tutte le altre relazioni, nel senso che richiederanno molti sacrifici e sistemazioni per funzionare, ma l'aspetto positivo di queste relazioni \u00e8 che vi ricorderanno costantemente lo scopo della vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Through your twin flame, you&#8217;ll be able to explore parts of yourself you never knew existed and they will trigger the growth you didn&#8217;t know was possible.<\/p>\n<p>As a reward for your bravery to face your fears, you\u2019ll get a deep understanding of life and the bliss that comes with it. Your fears will vanish and you\u2019ll start living your life authentically and freely.<\/p>\n<p>L'autrice Nikki Rowe ha riassunto perfettamente il viaggio della fiamma gemella con le seguenti parole:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you&#8217;re lucky enough you&#8217;ll come across a certain individual who will completely shake up your life. A spark so deep you feel it before meeting them, a soul preparation for a drastic change. Whether this chance meeting is fleeting or holds longevity, it&#8217;s a signpost you won&#8217;t be able to ignore and you&#8217;ll be a completely different person to whom you were before. This is magic, this is fate, this is purpose. And this is why we are alive, to experience a soul in human form and embrace the depth of life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Twin flame healing is a challenging process where twin flames face and overcome their fears and traumas in order to become what they truly are and experience the bliss of the union.&nbsp; Why is it so talked about in the spiritual community? If you&#8217;re reading this, I suppose you no longer ask yourself whether twin&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":99778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29615],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-soulmate-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29615,"label":"soulmate"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Understanding-And-Mastering-Your-Twin-Flame-Healing-Process.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29615,"name":"soulmate","slug":"soulmate-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29615,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you believe in twin flames - a person you're meant to have in your life no matter what? 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