{"id":99949,"date":"2020-09-21T18:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T18:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99949"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:02:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:02:49","slug":"dinamica-di-relazione-romantica-push-pull","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dinamica-di-relazione-romantica-push-pull\/","title":{"rendered":"4 modi per superare con successo la dinamica della relazione romantica push-pull"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per quanto possano sembrare eccitanti le relazioni push-and-pull, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non sono sostenibili a lungo termine. <\/p>\n

Prima che ve ne rendiate conto, questo tipo di storia d'amore roviner\u00e0 la vostra salute mentale, vi esaurir\u00e0 emotivamente e vi render\u00e0 incapaci di costruire nuove relazioni sane. <\/p>\n

Vi insegner\u00e0 che questo tipo di comportamento \u00e8 normale e distorcer\u00e0 la vostra visione dell'amore. In sostanza, lascer\u00e0 danni irreparabili alla vostra intera personalit\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Quindi, avete due scelte. O abbandonare questo momento o fare un ultimo tentativo per risolvere il problema. <\/p>\n

Apparently, you think your relationship is worth saving. Otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t be here. <\/p>\n

In questo caso, ecco quattro cose da fare se volete superare la dinamica \"push-and-pull\" nella vostra storia d'amore. <\/p>\n

Accettare di non essere d'accordo<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Tu e il tuo ragazzo siete opposti polari<\/a> \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Otherwise, you probably wouldn\u2019t be in this mess, would you?<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che probabilmente vi ha attirato l'uno verso l'altro in primo luogo. <\/p>\n

However, after a while, your differences have become a big deal. You have different attitudes, want different things from life, and don\u2019t share the same views on romantic relationships.<\/p>\n

Yes, this is a problem between the two of you. But it\u2019s nothing that can\u2019t be resolved.<\/p>\n

You just have to accept that you\u2019ll never be on the same page regarding some things. You can\u2019t change him nor can he turn you into someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quindi, perch\u00e9 disturbarsi a cercare di farlo? Credetemi, potete farlo funzionare solo se accettate di essere in disaccordo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Instead of trying to change each other\u2019s opinion about literally everything, accept and embrace your differences. You don\u2019t have to be compatible in all aspects of your life. <\/p>\n

Once you do this, I assure you that it will be much easier for you to find the middle ground. This way, you\u2019ll meet each other halfway and your arguments will automatically reduce. <\/p>\n

Misurare le perdite e i guadagni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a type of push-pull relationship, breaking up is always an option. In fact, it seems that the chance of you and your boyfriend splitting is constantly hanging over your head. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of time before one of you will have had enough of these constant tensions.<\/p>\n

Per evitarlo, basta soppesare le perdite e i guadagni. Ogni volta che volete litigare tra di voi, stabilite le vostre priorit\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Che cosa \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante: restare insieme o arrabbiarsi l'uno con l'altro e fare a modo proprio? Avere ragione o <\/b>essere felici<\/b><\/a>? Cosa conta di pi\u00f9: la vostra relazione o il vostro ego?<\/b><\/p>\n

Queste sono le domande che entrambi dovreste porvi ogni volta che incontrate un ostacolo.<\/p>\n

And if you don\u2019t know the answer, your love isn\u2019t strong enough and it\u2019s best to rather give up on any attempt to save it. <\/p>\n

Condividere responsabilit\u00e0 e potere<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Ricordate una cosa: ogni relazione \u00e8 una strada a doppio senso e la vostra storia d'amore non \u00e8 esclusa. Pertanto, \u00e8 assolutamente impossibile che una persona abbia sempre ragione o torto. <\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, entrambi dovete assumervi la responsabilit\u00e0 dello stato della vostra relazione.<\/b><\/p>\n

So che pensi che il tuo ragazzo sia l'unico da biasimare, ma credimi, lui pensa la stessa cosa di te. <\/b><\/p>\n

Allo stesso modo, \u00e8 fondamentale condividere il potere. \u00c8 chiaro che nessuno di voi due \u00e8 in grado di essere <\/b>sottomesso<\/b><\/a>, so you have to reach a compromise in which you\u2019re both completely equal partners.<\/b><\/p>\n

A good suggestion is to take turns on the throne. For example, you can make all the decisions and be in charge one week. However, you have to follow your boyfriend\u2019s lead for the next.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll both feel equally important and leave the power struggle behind. All you have to do is stick to the arrangement without looking for loopholes. <\/p>\n

Identificare gli errori<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One thing\u2019s for certain: This kind of a relationship dynamic is not how things should roll.<\/p>\n

Now that you know it\u2019s at least partially your fault, it\u2019s time to focus on your mistakes and wrongdoings, while your boyfriend does the same. <\/p>\n

Instead of pointing fingers and naming each other\u2019s flaws, you both need to focus on yourselves. <\/p>\n

More importantly, do your best to find the cause of this behavior. For some reason, you\u2019re both attracted to these kinds of relationships. <\/b><\/p>\n

Siete alle prese con le insicurezze? Perch\u00e9 non sapere a che punto siete vi attrae cos\u00ec tanto?<\/p>\n

Where did you learn that this kind of behavior pattern is acceptable? Is the thrill of the push-and-pull relationship something you\u2019d consciously choose over the peace a healthy romance brings?<\/p>\n

Inoltre, cosa potete fare per cambiare tutto questo? Cosa potete fare per cambiare voi stessi?<\/b><\/p>\n

Prendetevi del tempo per riflettere su ognuna di queste domande. Una volta che voi e il vostro partner avrete trovato le risposte, discutetene insieme e cercate di trovare una soluzione definitiva.<\/p>\n

Even though all of this sounds like a lot of hard work, it can be done, if your will is strong enough. I won\u2019t lie to you, it won\u2019t be easy and it\u2019ll take a while before you see any significant progress. <\/p>\n

Ma se voi e il vostro partner condividete il vero amore, l'intero processo sar\u00e0 un gioco da ragazzi per voi. Basta avere fiducia l'uno nell'altro e la vostra storia d'amore ne uscir\u00e0 viva!<\/p>\n

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As exciting as push-and-pull relationships seem to be, the truth is that they\u2019re not sustainable in the long run.  Before you know it, this kind of romance will ruin your mental health, emotionally exhaust you, and make you incapable of building new, healthy relationships.  It will teach you that this type of behavior is normal…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":99954,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99949","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/4-Ways-To-Successfully-Overcome-The-Push-Pull-Romantic-Relationship-Dynamic.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99949","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=99949"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99949\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/99954"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=99949"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=99949"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=99949"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}