When you look back at your last relationship, what do you see? Do you even remember what she went through because of you?
Do you even remember how much harm you caused and how many times she shed a tear for you? Or do you just not care enough to recall the truth?
Today, she is happy. There was a time in her life when she thought that you were her only happiness.
She was all over you and every single day that she didn’t spend alongside you, she would feel like she had missed out on something.
Everyone could see that in her! Whenever she talked about you or your relationship, her eyes would change their color into something so majestic.
She would show the world every single day how proud she was of you and your relationship.
All until the day she wasn’t.
The beginning of every relationship is so dreamy, you feel so fulfilled like you have found just the right person for you. But after a while in the relationship, once you get to know someone better, you start to wonder.
You start wondering if it is worth the fight and the pain, if it is worth the tears and always the same apologies.
That is exactly how you made her feel.
You made her feel worthless at times, like she didn’t deserve that happiness she was showing people, because you thought of her only as someone to meet all your needs.
You have to do the same thing in return, you know? You have to spoil her in order to be spoiled by her. You have to show her that she is indeed the only one who can make you happy.
But you did not do that. Instead, you hurt her with your words and actions!
Now that she is gone, you want her back?
The moment when she saw that your relationship wasn’t going anywhere, she decided to leave and never look back at the torture you put her through.
She loved herself enough to know that what you showed her wasn’t unconditional, that it wasn’t what she wanted or needed.
And yes, if you were wondering, she did cry. She cried her eyes out when she had to make that decision to walk away from you.
She didn’t think that you would be the one to disappoint her this much but it’s too late now to go back and change that, so do not even try.
The fact that you can’t handle the reality of the situation, the fact that you can’t let go and you can’t let her be happy without you, just shows that you never loved her in the first place.
Someone who loved her, someone who cared about her, would let her be happy. If you truly did love her, you would want her to be happy, with or without you!
Looking at her, in the arms of another, in the arms of someone who treats her right, must be hard. You are hurting right now.
You see that spark in her eyes when she is with him that once was there only if you were with her. You see her smiling, like she smiled at you once upon a time.
Your heart must be torn into tiny little pieces but just remember that the way she felt in your arms was way worse. She was breaking while you were holding her.
So do not come after her now. Do not expect her to forgive you. Do not make her miserable again by ruining her life.
You had your chance and you blew it. You had an amazing woman in your life, she loved you, but you weren’t able to treat her the way she deserved.
You weren’t able to give her all the attention he is giving her, because he knows how valuable she is, he can see how perfect she truly is.
You were never able to do that. All you saw was a few little flaws here and there and it was enough just to point them out to make her cry.
It’s now time for you to leave her life for good and let her live the happiest moments without you.
It’s time for you to realize that you are no more needed in her life, because you had your chance and you didn’t take it.
That’s why now, it’s too late.
Don’t stand in her way.