When it comes to your looks, the most critical person is you. You are probably not even aware of how good you look. The only thing you see when you look in the mirror are things that are wrong with you, things that aren’t perfect, but you don’t see how beautiful you really are.

That is the reason why you are so nervous when you get naked with someone for the first time, although it doesn’t even have to just be during the first time.

You know that all of us consider different things to be beautiful. Someone likes big butts, someone else likes thin thighs and so on. We are not all the same and that’s where the beauty lies.

But if you’re still insecure about your body when you get naked, read these tips to feel better in your own skin.

1. Get the right light

If you really want to look like a supermodel when you get naked with him, use candlelight because it softens your body lines and brings out your best features. Also, candlelight brings some mystery to the overall atmosphere. If you don’t want to use candles, turn on the lamp beside your bed or a light in the hallway. This will make your body look incredibly hot.

2. Spray tan

This is a great way to look thinner without actually losing any weight. Or if you don’t want to go to the trouble of doing that, try bronzing your legs with a darker shade from the outside and blend it in toward the inner parts of your legs with a lighter shade. You can do the same with your cheekbones if you think the problem is with your face. Tanning is also perfect for hiding stretch marks or other imperfections.

3. Exfoliate

Get a tube of exfoliating scrub as soon as possible. No one likes to see dry parts of your skin, such as rough elbows or knees. If you don’t have the time to go to the pharmacy, make your own scrub out of sugar and tackle all the problematic places while you are in the shower. This will remove all the dead skin and open your pores, which will allow your skin to moisturize. The result is perfect and smooth skin. Does it get any sexier than that?

4. Put on some perfume

Not all sexual stimulants lie in the visual. There are other things that will make you hotter other than previously mentioned. Put on some perfume, but not too much and only in the right places. You have to moisturize your skin before doing this because the perfume will stay on longer than on dry skin. The best places to put your perfume are behind your knees, down your back, inside your elbows, behind the ears, on your hair and in your belly button.

5. Wear high heels

I know they are not the most comfortable shoes to wear, but it takes a lot of effort and maybe a little bit of suffering to look sexy and feel beautiful. That’s why high heels are a perfect choice. They make your legs look long and sexy and they lift your butt. I haven’t met a single woman who doesn’t feel hot in high heels. It will give you just the right amount of confidence you’ve been lacking.

6. Shave carefully

Although waxing and laser hair removal are the best options, sometimes you just don’t have the time to make it to your next appointment and then you have to deal with hair that has grown in the meantime. So reach for your emergency kit and use the sharpest men’s razor you can find. Go through the problematic areas from all angles. Don’t just go up and down but also right and left and there won’t be a single hair left. For avoiding redness later, put on some moisturizing aftershave.

7. Do a quick workout

If you don’t do this usually, it doesn’t matter. Before you start getting ready for your big date, do a short workout just before having a shower. Do a few push-ups, sumo lunges, and squats. It will make you feel better and firmer and it will also boost up your confidence.

8. It’s all about the pose

Don’t face your date standing up straight because it will make you look stiff. Stand at a ¾ angle, as this pose emphasizes your breasts, butt and thighs and makes your body silhouette absolutely stunning. There is another pose you must try while talking to him, too; bend one knee, or put your hand on your waist and cock your hip out.