After surviving a hard heartbreak, it’s not easy to pick up the pieces. You don’t know how to trust men and you aren’t even sure if you want to anymore. Because of the fear of not being good enough for someone or being unworthy of love, you have created a wall between you and the whole world. But what’s happened now? You have come to realize that the man who you thought to be your whole world isn’t really someone you should be fighting for and you know that you are lovable and that you are worthy of affection, yet you’re still single.
After some time has passed, you start wondering if you’ll ever be able to love again but let me tell you—don’t lose faith! You will love again.
You will love again when you have finally decided to let go of your past. What happened has happened and there’s no way you can change your past. But let’s be honest, you do need to move on. Your heart has been broken and that man made you lose all the hope you had when it came to love. But your past doesn’t define you or your future. Let it stay where it belongs—behind you.
You will love again when everything has fallen into place. When all of your broken pieces come back together and when you feel safe in someone else’s arms, you will know that it’s the right time to love.
You will love again when you stop rushing it. Trying to force your heart to fall in love doesn’t help you create healthy relationships; all it does is put yourself out there for it to be broken once more. Don’t let your heart rush things, its time will come.
You will love again when you feel safe in your own skin. The moment you start loving yourself unconditionally, when you start to love yourself without the need for validation, you will fall in love. It’s more than being able to give yourself to others, it’s about knowing when to take time off and to dedicate your time and efforts to yourself.
You will love again when you meet the right person. That’s the moment when you see him and you simply know that he won’t break your heart. He’s the man who would give you the entire world if you asked him to. There is a man out there for every one of us and we can’t forget that. You need to have faith that you will be able to fall in love again.
Have faith in yourself. Have faith to the point where you know that you will love yourself even if you don’t find a partner. That you will love yourself even if there is no one on your side to tell you how beautiful you are, because you are beautiful in your own eyes. These are the moments you need to look forward to.
Have faith in the good in people. I know that the bad men you’ve encountered made you question the hearts of the rest of the world but believe me, there are good people out there who are going to be more than happy to be in your life. Those are the people you need to love.
Have faith that there is someone who will treat you the way you deserve. I know that you haven’t yet been able to meet a man like that and that you had to try and make it work yourself. But let me just tell you that if it’s meant to be, he will know what to do. He will fight for you and he will make you feel protected. This is the kind of man you need to wait for.
You will fall in love the moment you choose to forgive yourself. The moment you forgive yourself for everything that has happened, knowing that it wasn’t your fault. It’s not your fault that someone toxic found their way into your life. It’s not your fault that he wasn’t able to love you completely. It wasn’t your fault that you loved and you loved fully and unconditionally.
That’s why you will be able to fall in love again. Just don’t lose faith.