There is this guy who is making your life a living hell. He is the main cause of your troubles and the reason for your depression.
It is possible that he left you, although you still love him. Or maybe you are still involved with this man in a way but his behavior is giving you a headache?
Maybe he doesn’t want to commit and he doesn’t want to take your relationship to the next level? Maybe he is just a fuckboy who is messing you around?
Maybe he is making promises which he never keeps?
Or he abuses you in some way? Maybe he makes you feel bad about yourself and like you are not enough?
Either way, the point is that this guy is making your life difficult and that he is making you feel like you just can’t take it anymore.
His treatment toward you is hurting you and is causing you a great deal of emotional pain.
And you are more than convinced that this will go on forever.
You are convinced that you’ll spend the rest of your life loving this guy and suffering for him.
You are convinced that this pain you are feeling deep inside your chest will never go away, no matter where life takes you.
You think that you could never get over this man and that everything he has done to you will haunt you forever.
You think you’ll always stay stuck in this one place, holding on to the love you feel for him, without any possibility of moving on with your life.
And everyone around you is telling you that time heals all wounds. That a day will come when you won’t even think of this guy.
People close to you keep telling you that this man will soon be a part of your distant past and that sometime in the future you won’t even remember his name or the sound of his voice.
But you think all of this is bullshit.
Because the amount of pain which you feel now is so devastating that you can’t ever imagine it will ever go away.
And you can’t even imagine yourself not thinking about this man and not having him in your life, at least in some way.
With time, this pain has started defining you and it has become a part of your personality. You’ve stopped believing in your bright future and in the possibility of having a better tomorrow.
But let me tell you one thing, although you might not believe it and although it seems impossible for you right now: You will get over this guy.
I know something like this seems unachievable for you now but it will happen.
You will leave this man in the past, where he belongs, and all the pain he is causing you will go away before you know it.
Don’t get me wrong—I am not going to lie to you, telling you that you’ll forget about everything he has put you through, because there are some things that will always remain a part of you.
But there will come a day when you’ll laugh about this man who made you cry.
No, you’ll never laugh about the things he has done to you.
But you won’t be able to believe that you allowed someone like this to break your heart. You won’t be able to believe that you allowed this man to get to you, although he clearly never deserved you.
You won’t be able to believe that you thought it was the end of the world if he didn’t text you back or if he laid his eyes on a different girl.
You won’t be able to believe that you thought that this asshole, whom you should’ve never let in, was your forever person and the man you should spend the rest of your life with.
And most importantly—when true love finally enters your life, and it will happen when you least expect it, you won’t be able to believe that you thought that man loved you.
I’m not going to lie—this won’t happen overnight. But eventually, it will.
And although you don’t believe me now, when it finally does happen, you’ll understand what I’m talking about. And you’ll see that I was right all along.
A teacher. A dreamer. A writer. A woman who’s been through all of the things you are going through. A woman who’s learned on her mistakes and whose advice you can trust. A woman who is trying to find her place under the stars. A woman just like you.