Sometimes you get really down on yourself for not yet having the man of your dreams by your side. Negative thoughts keep spinning around in your head…
Like how something must be wrong with you for not being with him yet. But the truth is, he just hasn’t found you yet, but you are his perfect woman.
You don’t realize that everyone has to go on their own journey to find the person they’re meant to be with, even if that means multiple partners, marriages, or life adventures.
Everyone has their own length of time to wait and their own journey to make before they find their person.
Yes, it sucks when you see other couples who were able to find their soulmates so young but the thing is, every experience is different. You get to experience more love and fun alone than they will.
You’ll meet someone in a way more spontaneous way than they probably met their significant other. Just remember, everything happens for a reason.
And even though right now you may be a little impatient, there will be a time where you won’t only have to worry about yourself. Take this time to be selfish.
Make sure you enjoy your ‘me time’ and the fact that you can do whatever you want without having to consider anyone else’s input and make this the time where you focus on what makes you truly happy, because these will all be the traits he falls in love with.
Your man is out there on his journey to find you. There will be bumps in the road and it might be a hard journey, but he will come.
And it will be one of the best things that has ever happened to you. But you also can’t just wait around. You need to live your life, because that is how you’re going to find him.
He can’t wait to meet you. And I’m sure every day he imagines what you look like and how amazing it will be to finally find you.
But the thing is, you will be so much more than he ever could’ve imagined.
You’re going to be the woman who blows his mind. You’re so intelligent, free, and you just get life. – the girl he never thought he could find, let alone imagine.
You may think something is wrong with you right now because you haven’t found him. But he won’t want to change a thing. And he’d probably feel sad knowing this is how you’re feeling now.
Remember, time goes so quickly. And before you know it, you will be coming home to his handsome face and you won’t know where all that time went.
So right now, take a deep breath. Love where you are at in life, because you won’t ever get this time back.
And when you meet him, remember what it was like waiting for him. And how it was more worth it than you could ever explain!
Here’s to you finding the man who knows you are his perfect fit. And who will cherish you, like you’ve always been waiting for.
by Nicole Clements