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<\/p>\nCada pessoa \u00e9 \u00fanica e tem o seu pr\u00f3prio conjunto de qualidades e defeitos. No entanto, todas as pessoas que sofrem de perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica t\u00eam algumas coisas em comum.<\/p>\n
Each narcissist has one primary goal: To humiliate and put down his victim. After all, it\u2019s the only way they can feel better about themselves.<\/p>\n
Invalidating his victims pumps a narcissist\u2019s ego. It gives him control and incredible satisfaction.<\/p>\n
\u00c9 exatamente assim que o fazem:<\/p>\n
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Todos os narcisistas, sem exce\u00e7\u00e3o, se auto-elogiam. Pelo menos, \u00e9 assim que querem ser vistos aos olhos dos outros, especialmente daqueles que querem invalidar.<\/p>\n
Exageram quando se trata das suas realiza\u00e7\u00f5es. Tudo o que alcan\u00e7am \u00e9 \u00f3timo e importante.<\/p>\n
When a narcissist talks about himself, he\u2019ll always use superlative only. He\u2019ll present himself as flawless and almost perfect.<\/p>\n
At first, you\u2019ll probably admire this man\u2019s high level of self-confidence. You\u2019ll be knocked off your feet by the faith he has in himself.<\/p>\n
No entanto, isto \u00e9 apenas uma m\u00e1scara. De facto, ele est\u00e1 a fazer tudo isto s\u00f3 para provar a ambos que \u00e9 melhor do que voc\u00eas.<\/b><\/p>\n
Sem que se aperceba disso, este homem est\u00e1 de facto a competir consigo. Ele est\u00e1 a comparar os seus sucessos e est\u00e1 subtilmente a dizer-lhe que est\u00e1 acima de si em todos os campos da vida. <\/b>Por outras palavras, he’s trying to destroy your self-esteem<\/a>. <\/p>\n When he does this, he doesn\u2019t have to tell you directly that you\u2019re n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom<\/a>. Em vez disso, o seu gabarolice coloca-o indiretamente em baixo.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard about the term, \u201cgaslighting\u201d. It\u2019s a common tactic almost all narcissists use in an attempt to brainwash their victims.<\/p>\n Basicamente, ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/b><\/a> isn\u2019t typical lying. Instead, it\u2019s more about twisting the truth. <\/b><\/p>\n For example, after your fight with a narcissist is over, he\u2019ll do his best to convince you that things didn\u2019t go the way you remember them.<\/p>\n Even though you know very well what you said or heard, he\u2019ll work at changing your memory and making you believe what he wants you to believe.<\/p>\n If you have never experienced something like this, you\u2019ll probably think it\u2019s utterly impossible. However, trust me, this works more often than you might think.<\/p>\n This way, your abuser places a tiny voice at the back of your mind. A voice that keeps on telling you that you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/b><\/p>\n Obviously, you can\u2019t be trusted; you misinterpret things and your brain is playing with you.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 exatamente o que este manipulador quer que pense. Ele quer que confie mais nele do que em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n Consequently, you\u2019ll start thinking poorly about yourself. You\u2019ll have doubts about your judgment making skills and you\u2019ll fall into this trap.<\/p>\n When someone does nice things for you, you assume that they do it because they\u2019re kind, or you see it as proof of their love for you.<\/p>\n However, in the case of a narcissistic person, things are never what they seem. In fact, whenever a narcissist treats you well, it\u2019s all a part of his emotional bribery.<\/p>\nGaslighting<\/h2>\n
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