actores<\/a>. Pelo contr\u00e1rio, a maior parte dos seus ex-namorados pareciam ser simp\u00e1ticos no in\u00edcio.<\/p>\nEnquanto o cortejavam, fizeram-lhe um monte de promessas e considerou-se sortudo por os ter encontrado.<\/p>\n
No entanto, \u00e0 medida que cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o avan\u00e7ava, as coisas come\u00e7aram lentamente a mudar. Estes homens simp\u00e1ticos transformaram-se em monstros.<\/p>\n
A pior parte \u00e9 que te trataram ainda pior no momento em que lhes mostraste o teu lado vulner\u00e1vel. Quanto mais os am\u00e1vamos, mais idiotas eles se tornavam.<\/p>\n
Ent\u00e3o, qual foi o problema? Bem, o facto \u00e9 que provavelmente come\u00e7ou com o p\u00e9 errado.<\/p>\n
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\u00c9 que cada um destes homens conseguiu encant\u00e1-la de tal forma que se esqueceu de estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas. De facto, parece que nos esquecemos completamente dos nossos \"quebra-galhos\" quando nos apaixonamos.<\/b><\/p>\n
I get your point of view. You think that compromise is everything and you don\u2019t want to ask for too much from the man you care about.<\/p>\n
Afinal de contas, se o amor \u00e9 verdadeiro, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de jogar. N\u00e3o tem problemas em admitir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es ao seu parceiro, nem exige dele o imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n
Bem, infelizmente para si, A maioria dos homens v\u00ea este comportamento como uma oportunidade para a magoar. Come\u00e7am a tom\u00e1-la por garantida e deixam de se esfor\u00e7ar na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n
Don\u2019t misunderstand me; I\u2019m not advising you to become hard to get. I\u2019m not telling you to suddenly become a bitch just to get your boyfriend\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n
However, don\u2019t lower your standards for him either. Don\u2019t settle for the things that shouldn\u2019t be acceptable just because you love him.<\/b><\/p>\n
Remember one thing: you\u2019re training men how to treat you.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Every time you put your man\u2019s needs in front of your own, without expecting him to return the favor when you are in need, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n
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You\u2019re indirectly telling him that he is more important than you and that you\u2019re perfectly okay with your well-being coming last.<\/p>\n
Every time he insults you and you keep quiet, you\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t mind his behavior. You\u2019re showing him that you really do believe him that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\n
Every time he cancels plans without you saying anything about it, you show him that your time isn\u2019t valuable. You\u2019re actually telling him that you can put your life on hold and wait until he has the decency to see you.<\/p>\n
Every time you double or triple text him, despite him not answering your messages for hours without a valid reason, you\u2019re telling him that he has your undivided attention, no matter what.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re showing him that he doesn\u2019t have to lift a finger to win it and that he doesn\u2019t have to fight for your love. You\u2019re indirectly saying that you\u2019re not going anywhere, despite his treatment.<\/p>\n
Every time you catch him flirting with other girls but stay by his side, you\u2019re showing him that you wouldn\u2019t have a problem sharing him with someone else. You\u2019re telling him that you would even accept his infidelity.<\/p>\n
The list can go on forever but I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going. It\u2019s up to you how you will set rules in your relationship and your partner will just follow your example.<\/p>\n
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Whenever you accept this man\u2019s lack of respect, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t respect yourself either.<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you settle for crumbs of his love and attention, you\u2019re telling him that even you think you don\u2019t deserve more.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever you complain about him not treating you right but don\u2019t actually do anything about it, you\u2019re applauding him for his behavior.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Sempre que lhe deres um segunda oportunidade<\/a> for something he shouldn\u2019t have done, you\u2019re showing him that your capacity to forgive is endless.<\/p>\nWhenever you tolerate your boyfriend\u2019s misbehavior, you\u2019re giving him the green light to keep up the good work.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
You\u2019re telling him that everything he does is perfectly acceptable and that you don\u2019t have a problem with his actions. <\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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