{"id":101039,"date":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T19:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=101039"},"modified":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","modified_gmt":"2022-03-07T16:08:53","slug":"namorar-um-medico-ou-estudante-de-medicina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-medico-ou-estudante-de-medicina\/","title":{"rendered":"26 Maiores pr\u00f3s e contras de namorar um m\u00e9dico (ou estudante de medicina)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Namorar um m\u00e9dico ou um estudante de medicina pode ser um verdadeiro desafio.<\/p>\n

They have very little free time for date nights, and if Grey’s Anatomy has taught us anything, it’s that work-life balance can be bastante <\/em>desarrumado.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re planning to enter into a romantic relationship with someone in the medical field, I highly suggest that you keep reading.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In this article, I reveal what dating doctors and med students is really like, and whether there’s hope to make the relationship work.<\/p>\n

Ultimately, you’re going to be the judge if the relationship is vale a pena<\/a> or not. Just know that dating a doctor has its perks as well \u2013 it’s not all night shifts, long hours, and life-or-death situations.<\/p>\n

Abaixo, discuto os pr\u00f3s e os contras de ter um parceiro na \u00e1rea da medicina. Descubra se tem o que \u00e9 preciso para o fazer funcionar!<\/em><\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o os benef\u00edcios de namorar um m\u00e9dico?<\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

First, let’s start with the good stuff. As I said, it’s not all long shifts, med school and not having enough time for you.<\/p>\n

L\u00e1 s\u00e3o<\/em> algumas grandes vantagens de sair com um m\u00e9dico tamb\u00e9m! Veja-as.<\/p>\n

Tem o seu pr\u00f3prio m\u00e9dico de servi\u00e7o pessoal \u00e0 disposi\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Magoou a m\u00e3o? Pisou em algo muito afiado? Comeu algo que lhe fez mal ao est\u00f4mago? N\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema. O seu m\u00e9dico est\u00e1 aqui!<\/p>\n

How cool is that? You don’t have to run to the E.R. for every single thing as your partner will be able to help you in an instant.<\/p>\n

You basically have your own personal on-call physician. There’s a reason there aren’t many single doctors out there.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re probably a realmente<\/em> bom ouvinte (uma grande vantagem nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es!)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

One of the major perks of doctors\u2019 jobs is the fact that they are most probably great listeners.<\/p>\n

They hear about people’s issues for a living, for crying out loud.<\/p>\n

You won’t have to deal with someone who can’t listen \u2013 quite the contrary. Isn’t that one of the biggest relationship deal-breakers anyway?<\/p>\n

A sua toler\u00e2ncia a coisas nojentas aumenta subitamente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Eu costumava desmaiar ao ver sangue. Mas desde que fiz alguns amigos na \u00e1rea da medicina, a minha toler\u00e2ncia melhorou muito.<\/p>\n

You’ll be surprised at all the stuff that used to gross you out that now you’re totally fine with. Funny how being with a doctor can change you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 20 coisas que voc\u00ea deve ter em mente ao sair com um cara t\u00edmido<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s in your partner’s nature to take care of you (yes, please)<\/h2>\n

\"Namorado<\/p>\n

Toda a natureza do seu trabalho \u00e9 cuidar das pessoas. Por isso, pode imaginar como isto ser\u00e1 bom para si.<\/p>\n

Regardless of whether you’re dating a female doctor or male.<\/p>\n

A maioria das raparigas tem maquilhagem e coisas giras nas suas malas, enquanto os m\u00e9dicos t\u00eam tudo o que se pode precisar em caso de emerg\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Taking care of people is their job. And if you’re in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a>Se \u00e9 um m\u00e9dico, provavelmente j\u00e1 sabe como os m\u00e9dicos de encontros podem ser \u00fateis.<\/p>\n

D\u00e1-nos uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de crescimento pessoal e de altru\u00edsmo<\/h2>\n

\"imagem<\/p>\n

Estar com algu\u00e9m que faz um trabalho t\u00e3o altru\u00edsta para viver ir\u00e1 certamente afect\u00e1-lo positivamente.<\/p>\n

Ver com o que o seu parceiro lida regularmente vai deix\u00e1-lo mais humilde.<\/p>\n

Permitir\u00e1, sem d\u00favida, um crescimento pessoal que, por sua vez, melhorar\u00e1 toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Aprende-se MUITO sobre coisas m\u00e9dicas<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Be prepared to understand what medical shows are talking about. To me, it’s all alien language. But to you, it all starts making sense.<\/p>\n

And I’m guessing it feels pretty fantastic knowing what all those weird medical terms actually mean and if they’re being used appropriately in the shows.<\/p>\n

You don’t need WebMD anymore because you have an IRL version<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Diga adeus ao WebMD e diga ol\u00e1 \u00e0 sua pr\u00f3pria vers\u00e3o da vida real.<\/p>\n

Who needs to Google random symptoms anymore when you’ve got the real deal?<\/p>\n

And most probably, you’ll be reassured that you’re apenas<\/em> bem (e acreditar mesmo nelas e ter paz de esp\u00edrito).<\/p>\n

Noites de encontro espont\u00e2neas quando t\u00eam um dia de folga ao acaso \u00c9 O MELHOR<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Doctors have the weirdest hours, which makes it rather challenging to organize date nights. But when you DO manage to make it work, it’s the absolute best.<\/p>\n

O seu parceiro tem uma quarta-feira de folga ao acaso e, assim que o avisa, voc\u00ea planeia o dia (e a noite) perfeito.<\/p>\n

And to me, those spontaneous date nights are truly the most priceless ones because they’re so rare and so, so special.<\/p>\n

O seu parceiro tem uma grande perspetiva, que se reflecte em si<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Doctors have a good head on their shoulders, which means they don’t easily get annoyed.<\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 realmente necess\u00e1rio para as rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas, especialmente se o outro parceiro pode ficar agitado rapidamente.<\/p>\n

This way, you have someone to calm you down and rationally explain that things aren’t that bad.<\/p>\n

In turn, you’re going to start seeing things more clearly and stop losing your perspective on the littlest things.<\/p>\n

Aprende alguns truques sobre como remover manchas de sangue com sucesso<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

I don’t know about you, but I viver<\/em> for life hacks. And since your doc is kind of an expert on blood (weird to say, right?), you’ll pick up on some really cool hacks.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como superar o medo de perder algu\u00e9m que voc\u00ea ama em 7 passos<\/a><\/p>\n

D\u00e1-nos um sentimento de orgulho saber que eles fazem a diferen\u00e7a todos os dias<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Todas as vezes o seu parceiro<\/a> sai de casa, especialmente durante toda esta pandemia de COVID-19, sentimos um enorme orgulho.<\/p>\n

Mesmo os check-ups de rotina s\u00e3o um grande problema, quanto mais a realiza\u00e7\u00e3o de procedimentos e a opera\u00e7\u00e3o de \u00f3rg\u00e3os importantes.<\/p>\n

O facto de haver vidas humanas nas suas m\u00e3os \u00e9, numa palavra, indescrit\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

You’ve done online dating and gone through a bunch of silly dating sites, but not until you met eles<\/em> se compreendeste verdadeiramente o significado de orgulho.<\/p>\n

Finalmente deixamos de nos preocupar com as coisas pequenas<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Oh yeah. Things that truly aren’t important stop bugging you.<\/p>\n

Pessoas est\u00fapidas<\/a>, harsh comments, and all those things that pale in comparison to your partner’s job start feeling so silly.<\/p>\n

It’s going to take a lot to upset you now. And that is one of the coolest things about a doctor being your bae.<\/p>\n

V\u00ea em primeira m\u00e3o o que \u00e9 a vida. E toda a sua perspetiva muda para melhor.<\/p>\n

O seu m\u00e9dico conhece todos os pormenores da sua anatomia (faz parte do territ\u00f3rio!)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 provavelmente a tua vantagem favorita do trabalho, certo?<\/p>\n

O seu m\u00e9dico conhece muito bem a anatomia masculina e feminina, e todos sabemos o que isso significa.<\/p>\n

I’ll leave your imagination to run wild, but it must be mentioned that medical school can be super<\/em> \u00fatil tamb\u00e9m para coisas n\u00e3o m\u00e9dicas (s\u00f3 para dizer).<\/p>\n

Todos eles t\u00eam de passar por uma forma\u00e7\u00e3o em obstetr\u00edcia e ginecologia, pelo que o seu vasto conhecimento faz realmente parte do territ\u00f3rio. Que vantagem!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 18 tipos de amantes: Qual deles \u00e9 voc\u00ea?<\/a><\/p>\n

Now, Let’s Look At Some Of The More Challenging Aspects<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

By now you’ve realized that dating a doctor isn’t all that bad, right?<\/p>\n

So this is the perfect time to familiarize yourself with some of the cons that you’ll simply have to deal with. Here’s what you should expect.<\/p>\n

Sair com um m\u00e9dico significa ter de lidar com muitas horas loucas e longas<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Especially if this is the first time you’re dating a doctor. Be prepared for a lot of unexpectedly long hours, night shifts, and time away.<\/p>\n

They won’t always have enough time to explain it, so you’re just going to have to be okay with it.<\/p>\n

It seems tough, I know, so let’s put it this way. They’re off potentially saving a life. Is anything realmente<\/em> mais importante do que isso?<\/p>\n

Eleva o facto de estar ocupado a um n\u00edvel totalmente diferente<\/h2>\n

\"pessoal<\/p>\n

If you believed YOUR job was hectic, wait until you start seeing a doctor. You’ll realize that you never really knew the meaning of busy.<\/p>\n

But at the same time, it’s going to put things into perspective as well.<\/p>\n

You’ll start seeing that as much as they want to spend time with you, they are fully dedicated to their job.<\/p>\n

And that is a truly commendable thing. It’s not like they querer<\/em> para estarem muito ocupados. \u00c9 essa a natureza dos seus exigentes empregos.<\/p>\n

Os m\u00e9dicos e os estudantes de medicina est\u00e3o muitas vezes demasiado exaustos para funcionar<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e9dico<\/p>\n

Can you blame them? Seeing your doctor or med student tired will make you wonder if you’re actually tired in the first place.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, trabalha das nove \u00e0s cinco horas, quase sempre sentado e com muito poucas interrup\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Quando se compara com o calend\u00e1rio deles, parece um passeio no parque.<\/p>\n

I am in no way saying that your job isn’t tiring. But compared to what doctors and medical professionals go through daily, it’s a whole other level of tiredness.<\/p>\n

It’s really difficult to plan anything around their schedule<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sim. Uma vez, sa\u00ed com um tipo que estava na faculdade de medicina (ainda nem sequer era m\u00e9dico) e deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa.<\/p>\n

A quantidade de trabalho pr\u00e1tico que fazem \u00e9 espantosa. Tentar planear o seu hor\u00e1rio era quase imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

As aulas s\u00e3o longas e cansativas, para n\u00e3o falar da quantidade de estudos que implicam.<\/p>\n

So basically, consider yourself lucky if you plan something and actually manage to go through with it. It’s a rare occasion.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Identificar e compreender uma pessoa que evita o amor<\/a><\/p>\n

O stress do trabalho pode afetar o seu humor geral<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e9dico<\/p>\n

Os m\u00e9dicos lidam com muita coisa s\u00e9ria todos os dias. Ocasionalmente, t\u00eam encontros com a morte, e isso \u00e9 n\u00e3o<\/em> piada.<\/p>\n

Consegue imaginar ter um doente cuja vida depende do seu pr\u00f3ximo passo? E agora, imagine perdedor<\/em> o referido paciente?<\/p>\n

You cannot possibly tell me that it wouldn’t mess with your head.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea ao seu parceiro toda a paci\u00eancia e compreens\u00e3o do mundo. Eles fazem algumas das coisas mais dif\u00edceis que existem.<\/p>\n

Doctors are known to have to abruptly leave the minute they’re called away<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don’t be surprised if you’re mid-date and your doctor gets called away. It happens a lot (not just on TV). Nothing trumps medical emergencies.<\/p>\n

A maior parte das vossas noites de namoro ser\u00e3o passadas em frente \u00e0 televis\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

And you’ll most likely be watching reruns of Scrubs, Grey’s Anatomy, and other med shows. You’ll probably LOL at all the stuff they get wrong.<\/p>\n

Plus, your partner will most likely frequently fall asleep mid-show (no judging). It’s what the job does to them.<\/p>\n

Their work is really important and you’ll have to learn to live with that<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, their work trumps your needs. It sucks to say, even more to admit it, but it’s the reality.<\/p>\n

They’ll make an effort to spend quality time with you, but their patients need them too.<\/p>\n

Consegue lidar com o facto de ter de partilhar a sua cara-metade a maior parte dos dias?<\/p>\n

Os m\u00e9dicos trazem trabalho para casa (por mais que tentem n\u00e3o o fazer)<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It’s not intentional. But having to deal with what they deal with, it’s really not that surprising. They deal with human lives, deaths, and emergencies all day long.<\/p>\n

You have to expect them to bring work home on some days. Talk to them, let them vent. It’ll be easier for your partner and it’ll help you understand their day better.<\/p>\n

You won’t always understand what they’re talking about with their work friends<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Quando entram em conflito com amigos de trabalho<\/a>, you’ll find yourself baffled at times. But it’s really not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

Eles trabalham numa \u00e1rea espec\u00edfica e os seus amigos de trabalho s\u00e3o praticamente os \u00fanicos que compreendem verdadeiramente algumas das coisas por que passam. Deixe-os falar.<\/p>\n

They’ll get it all out of their system when they get home, and be ready to focus on you and your happy life together.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de eu te amo: 200+ exemplos para ele e para ela<\/a><\/p>\n

Por vezes, a falta de tempo de qualidade em conjunto pode afect\u00e1-lo mentalmente<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s gostamos de passar o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel com a nossa cara-metade.<\/p>\n

That’s totally normal. But the fact that they don’t have lots of free time will sometimes be a bit much.<\/p>\n

You won’t want to make a big deal, but you’re going to feel a certain type of way. You’ll get moody, annoyed, and upset, even though you understand that it’s not their fault.<\/p>\n

All I can say is that it’s totally okay to lose it sometimes. You’ll miss your person. Just know that they probably miss you just as much!<\/p>\n

Some people might think you’re only dating a doctor for their money<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There are going to be people out there (maybe even friends and acquaintances) who’ll make really tasteless assumptions.<\/p>\n

There’s this belief that all doctors are loaded. But nobody considers the medical school debt that they’re left with upon graduating.<\/p>\n

So some folks will feel free to assume the money is what drew you to them because you couldn’t possibly actually be in love!<\/p>\n

Nevermind those ignorant individuals. Let them assume. You can’t tell people what to think, but you pode<\/em> distanciar-se deles.<\/p>\n

Coment\u00e1rios negativos ocasionais de que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 condenada chupar<\/em><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

People talk. They shouldn’t, and they really have no place discussing your private life, but trust me, they will.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente pensa que conhece o seu neg\u00f3cio e, por vezes, os coment\u00e1rios negativos s\u00e3o demasiado dif\u00edceis de gerir.<\/p>\n

As if you don’t already know how stressful dating a doctor can be!<\/p>\n

It’s only doomed if you let it be. So don’t! Let irrelevant people say what they want and focus on who matters:<\/p>\n

Tu e o teu parceiro!<\/p>\n

As long as you make an effort every single day to make it work, that’s all that matters. It’s you and them against the world.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, What’s The Verdict?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Que namorar um m\u00e9dico n\u00e3o \u00e9 tarefa f\u00e1cil. Os hor\u00e1rios loucos, as sa\u00eddas a meio da noite e o cansa\u00e7o constante s\u00e3o inevit\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

BUT, when you bring all the positives into the equation, it’s really not that bad. After all, it’s all about effort and understanding.<\/p>\n

If you can make peace with the fact that your partner has a really important job that people’s lives literalmente<\/em> depende, p\u00f5e tudo em perspetiva.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se tiveres amor, respeito e confian\u00e7a, podes fazer funcionar<\/a> without a shadow of a doubt. Just don’t make them choose, there’s honestly no need for that.<\/p>\n

Cada momento que passarem juntos ser\u00e1 ainda mais precioso e, para mim, isso vale bem a luta.<\/p>\n

Os m\u00e9dicos s\u00e3o os her\u00f3is desconhecidos da atualidade e merecem algu\u00e9m que compreende e aceita plenamente<\/strong> a natureza do seu trabalho altru\u00edsta e desgastante.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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