{"id":10195,"date":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-13T09:56:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:28:38","slug":"6-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-fazer-de-vitima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-fazer-de-vitima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 se fazendo de v\u00edtima para te destruir"},"content":{"rendered":"

O jogo da v\u00edtima \u00e9 uma esp\u00e9cie de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional utilizada pelos homens<\/a> para o manter por perto, para o quebrar ou simplesmente porque acreditam verdadeiramente que s\u00e3o v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the kind of manipulation we quite often brush off because they really have convincing stories and how could a victim be a manipulator?<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s manipulation, after all, so watch out for these signs and excuses that he might be using on you.<\/p>\n

Todas as ex que ele teve eram umas cabras<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia     <\/p>\n

Cada uma delas quebrou-o, enganou-o ou mentiu-lhe. A culpa nunca foi dele, era apenas um rapaz ing\u00e9nuo e jovem que se apaixonou loucamente.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s using this to guilt-trip you into staying with him, making you believe that it\u2019s your job to fix him.<\/p>\n

But how can someone have such bad luck to date only bitches? His past relationships all have one thing in common, and it\u2019s not his bad luck. It\u2019s him.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre a atac\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

No matter what you say, what you do or how you approach him, he always feels like he\u2019s being attacked.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re doing great at work\u2014you\u2019re doing it only so you can leave him, you\u2019re doing it only to show him how much better you are and he is only a stupid boy.<\/p>\n

You try to tell him something that\u2019s been bothering you\u2014you\u2019re only doing it to show him you\u2019re superior; he never meant to hurt you, how could he? After all, he\u2019s the one broken here.<\/p>\n

Ele despeja todos os seus problemas em cima de ti<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He uses you as his trash bin. All of the universe has turned against him, he\u2019s doomed.<\/p>\n

If he gets a parking ticket, he\u2019ll say, \u201cA cop gave me a ticket.\u201d It\u2019s impossible for him to take responsibility for his actions<\/a>. It\u2019s NEVER his fault.<\/p>\n

Como eu disse, o universo est\u00e1 a tentar apanh\u00e1-lo. De entre 7 bili\u00f5es de pessoas, ele deve ser muito especial para ser um dos alvos.<\/p>\n

Por isso, naturalmente, ele precisa de algu\u00e9m para desabafar, para acenar com a cabe\u00e7a enquanto conta a sua triste e pequena hist\u00f3ria de vida.<\/p>\n

In this case, you\u2019re the one he uses for that, without even checking on you, without even thinking how this might affect your mood or state of mind.<\/p>\n

Listening to constant negativity is truly bad for anyone\u2019s health.<\/p>\n

Ele transforma pequenos incidentes em argumentos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to play the victim if you\u2019re the one being yelled at. His way to get away with stupid, little things is to provoke you so much until you snap, and he gets to play the victim once more (whereas he could simply apologize, but that would mean he has to take responsibility for something he has done).<\/p>\n

Ao fim de algum tempo, come\u00e7a a perguntar-se se \u00e9 voc\u00ea que tem problemas de controlo da raiva e se est\u00e1 sempre errado.<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s really trying, and you\u2019re simply being a bitch? Honey, take a good look at your relationship. He could just be manipulating you to get away with his screw-ups.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t seem to understand why no one comes to his defense<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Pobrezinho, porque \u00e9 que ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 do lado dele? Porque \u00e9 que os teus amigos est\u00e3o sempre do teu lado, sempre a apoiar-te, e os dele n\u00e3o est\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Maybe because they know him a little bit better than you had the chance to, maybe his friends know it\u2019s better to stay out of his \u2018problems\u2019.<\/p>\n

Talvez os teus amigos te amem e respeitem tal como \u00e9s, em vez de te virarem as costas.<\/p>\n

Ele vai tentar usar isso para que te sintas culpada por n\u00e3o estares mais do lado dele, para que te sintas culpada porque ele n\u00e3o tem ningu\u00e9m e tu tens tantos amigos.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll start devoting all of your time to him until you\u2019re completely cortado da sua vida privada.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ele NUNCA sente a necessidade de pedir desculpa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Because nothing is ever his fault (duh). Until he learns to take responsibility for the things he has done, you\u2019ll never be able to move forward in the relationship.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know about you, but if I don\u2019t get a sincere apology for something that truly upset me, I\u2019m not able to move on after that incident.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019re constantly going round in circles, with him refusing to apologize and brainwashing you into believing it\u2019s you and not him, how long will it take until you completely lose yourself in his manipulation?<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo \u00e9 que ele vai levar para te quebrar completamente, at\u00e9 te tornares apenas mais uma das suas ex-machos?<\/p>\n

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