{"id":102051,"date":"2020-10-05T13:00:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T13:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102051"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:13:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:13:45","slug":"o-meu-felizes-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-felizes-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o meu felizes para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Durante anos, vi-nos aos dois como os protagonistas de um conto de fadas.<\/strong> Pensei que o que t\u00ednhamos era \u00fanico e algo que s\u00f3 se experimenta uma vez na vida.<\/p>\n<p>Our love had its ups and downs but this is how every true romance works, isn\u2019t it? You overcome obstacles and you go through different phases.<\/p>\n<p>However, despite the entire roller coaster, if you\u2019re meant to end up together, eventually, you find your way to each other.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas,<strong> o pr\u00edncipe e a princesa conseguem sempre derrotar a bruxa m\u00e1 e todas as outras for\u00e7as que se unem contra o seu amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, a diferen\u00e7a \u00e9 que <strong>we didn\u2019t have anyone casting spells to break us apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o havia meias-irm\u00e3s ciumentas com os seus m\u00e9todos sorrateiros, cujo \u00fanico objetivo era interferir entre n\u00f3s os dois.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, <strong>tu foste o \u00fanico vil\u00e3o da nossa hist\u00f3ria o tempo todo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, I had the strength to fight everyone as long as I had you by my side. However, I couldn\u2019t fight against YOU to keep YOU by my side.<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m de ser totalmente imposs\u00edvel, teria sido tamb\u00e9m completamente in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102054\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa com uma coroa \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pensive-woman-with-a-crown-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For years, deep down, I was perfectly aware that we\u2019d never been compatible. We never got along properly and our entire <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ela-esta-farta-de-se-esforcar-numa-relacao-que-esta-condenada-ao-fracasso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a rela\u00e7\u00e3o estava condenada ao fracasso<\/a> desde o primeiro dia.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, quer\u00edamos coisas diferentes na vida. Eu queria-te a ti e tu querias todas as outras raparigas.<\/p>\n<p>Eu queria um futuro calmo ao teu lado e tu querias algu\u00e9m que esperasse pacientemente que te recompusesses.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I wanted a fairy tale and you turned my life into a nightmare. I wanted you to be my happy ending and now you\u2019ve become my happily never after.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You see, no matter what happens and no matter how much time passes, I\u2019ll never let you back into my life.<\/p>\n<p>Nem que a minha vida dependesse disso e nem que fosses o \u00faltimo homem na terra.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A palavra nunca: a \u00fanica finitude.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not saying this because I\u2019m angry. I\u2019m not saying it because I want to get even and break your heart as well.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not using any reverse psychology techniques here, where you\u2019re supposed to come running back to me as soon you hear that I don\u2019t want you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102055\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher pensativa a olhar atrav\u00e9s da janela de vidro com gotas de chuva\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying this because I\u2019m trying to deceive myself. I\u2019m not comforting myself while deep down, I still miss you like hell.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pela primeira vez, estas palavras saem da minha boca porque estou a falar a s\u00e9rio. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t want you back and I\u2019m not giving you access to my life ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E sabem qual \u00e9 a melhor parte? Que eu vou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ser-feliz-sem-ele-e-a-melhor-vinganca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ser feliz sem ti<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De facto, esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de ser verdadeiramente feliz e satisfeito.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, pensei que eras a fonte da minha felicidade, mas acabaste por ser a minha maior desgra\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t believe I\u2019m saying this but I really am relieved that I got rid of you. Relieved for finally leaving you in the past, where you belong.<\/p>\n<p>After all, I\u2019m not the one who lost anything when you left.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa nas \u00e1guas com um pano h\u00famido a cobri-la e a prender-lhe os cabelos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-the-waters-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, perdi um homem que nunca me tratou bem, um homem que nunca esteve disposto a mexer um dedo por mim e um homem que nunca me amou como eu o amava.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, ganhei muito quando te virei as costas. Em primeiro lugar, voltei a ter a minha vida nas minhas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os.<\/p>\n<p>You see, a miracle happened; I\u2019m no longer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-e-a-dependencia-emocional-10-formas-de-a-ultrapassar-com-sucesso\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emocionalmente dependente<\/a> em si.<\/p>\n<p>My existence doesn\u2019t revolve around you anymore and you\u2019ve stopped being the center of my world.<\/p>\n<p>Mais importante ainda, recuperei o respeito e o amor-pr\u00f3prio. Depois de todo este tempo, aprendi que tenho de me p\u00f4r em primeiro lugar, por muito que ame a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>I learned never to settle for less than I deserve and I learned that I\u2019m worthy of someone\u2019s efforts and undivided attention.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So, I guess our story didn\u2019t have a happy ending after all. However, I don\u2019t care because mine will and that\u2019s all that matters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Adeus, meu amor. Desejo-te tudo de bom, porque me ensinaste muito. Mant\u00e9m-te o mais longe poss\u00edvel de mim.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For years, I saw the two of us as the main protagonists of a fairy tale. I thought that what we had was unique and something you experience only once in a lifetime. Our love had its ups and downs but this is how every true romance works, isn\u2019t it? 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