{"id":102287,"date":"2020-10-12T10:18:45","date_gmt":"2020-10-12T10:18:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102287"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:39:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:39:50","slug":"ambos-cometemos-erros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ambos-cometemos-erros\/","title":{"rendered":"Ambos cometemos erros: I Thought You'd Change And You Thought I Would't Leave"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quem olha para a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o diz que tu foste o mau da fita. Eras o vil\u00e3o que transformou o nosso romance num inferno.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, estas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o apenas as pessoas que conhecem a minha vers\u00e3o da hist\u00f3ria. Toda a gente, incluindo os nossos amigos comuns e mesmo os que lhe s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximos, pensam da mesma maneira.<\/p>\n

Eras tu que me magoavas enquanto eu era praticamente impec\u00e1vel o tempo todo. Bem, a verdade \u00e9 que eu tamb\u00e9m tive a minha quota-parte de erros.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, nunca te fiz mal nenhum, mas fiz-me sentir miser\u00e1vel. Nunca te tra\u00ed ou fiz deliberadamente algo que pudesse partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, o meu \u00fanico erro foi acreditar que tu irias mudar. Desperdicei anos da minha vida \u00e0 espera de um milagre que nunca viria.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Durante todo o tempo da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tive esperan\u00e7a que as coisas fossem diferentes. Sempre que me tratavas mal, enganava-me a mim pr\u00f3pria, pensando que era apenas uma fase que iria passar.<\/p>\n

Even when you were showing me signs that you couldn\u2019t care less about me, I made excuses for your shitty behavior. I justified you by telling myself that you were just bad at showing love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wanted to believe that you couldn\u2019t live without me, the same way I couldn\u2019t picture myself with any other man. I wanted to think that one day, you\u2019d wake up and realize what you were doing to me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I kept hoping that you\u2019d finally understand that you were not giving me enough love or attention. That you\u2019d see how unhappy I was by your side and that you would do something about it.<\/p>\n

For all those years, I kept waiting for you to magically turn into the man I deserved to have. That you would reveal your good side and that you would show me all of my efforts hadn\u2019t been in vain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I don\u2019t blame you for this. If we\u2019re being honest, you never gave my thoughts any solid background.<\/p>\n

Nunca deste sinais de que isso pudesse vir a acontecer. Nunca fez nada para confirmar as minhas expectativas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, eu ainda os tinha. Era algo a que me estava a agarrar, o \u00fanico raio de luz ao fundo deste t\u00fanel de escurid\u00e3o chamado a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Era a minha \u00faltima gota de salva\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Afinal, se eu tivesse tirado os meus \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa, n\u00e3o teria tido outra escolha sen\u00e3o ver a verdade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Teria de admitir para mim pr\u00f3prio que era um manipulador t\u00f3xico que nunca retribuiria o meu amor e esfor\u00e7o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se isso tivesse acontecido, que mais desculpas teria eu para ficar ao teu lado?<\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 que, durante todo este tempo, estavas perfeitamente consciente disso. Tomaste-me por garantida ao ponto de acreditares genuinamente que eu nunca deixaria de te amar, independentemente do que me fizesses.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You thought you\u2019d acquired so much control over me that there didn\u2019t exist an option where I was leaving you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estavas t\u00e3o seguro de ti que eu continuava a esperar por uma mudan\u00e7a que nunca viria. Nunca.<\/p>\n

Tinhas a certeza de que eu nunca me afastaria de ti e que me contentaria com as tuas migalhas de p\u00e3o enquanto eu respirasse.<\/p>\n

Bem, esse foi o teu maior erro. Porque Adivinha o qu\u00ea? Apesar das nossas expectativas, fui-me embora.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Virei-te as costas e nunca mais olhei para ti. Deixei-te no passado, onde \u00e9 o teu lugar.<\/p>\n

Sabes, depois de todos estes anos, finalmente parei de me esfor\u00e7ar em algo que estava condenado a falhar. Depois de todo este tempo, olhei para ti pelo que realmente eras.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, Comecei a amar-me mais do que alguma vez te amei.<\/strong> Tirei-te do pedestal em que te coloquei h\u00e1 muito tempo e dei-me finalmente o primeiro lugar na minha pr\u00f3pria vida.<\/p>\n

Sim, matar toda a esperan\u00e7a que havia em mim foi dif\u00edcil. <\/strong>De facto, nunca pensei que conseguisse.<\/p>\n

However, I succeeded, didn\u2019t I? It finally got to me; you never had any intention of changing because why would you? After all, losing me was something you never dreamed of happening.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whoever looks at our relationship says that you were the bad guy of the story. You were the villain who turned our romance into a living hell. No, these are not only the people who know my side of the story. Everyone, including our mutual friends and even those close to you, think the same…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":102296,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/We-Both-Made-Mistakes-I-Thought-Youd-Change-And-You-Thought-I-Wouldnt-Leave.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102296"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}