{"id":102303,"date":"2020-10-12T10:21:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-12T10:21:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102303"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:39:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:39:16","slug":"o-inferno-sabe-como-te-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-inferno-sabe-como-te-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele pode n\u00e3o ser o teu tipo, mas talvez saiba como te amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Quando pensa no seu homem perfeito, j\u00e1 preparou um conjunto de caracter\u00edsticas que ele simplesmente DEVE ter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Em primeiro lugar, ele deve ser alto, de ombros largos, bonito e, provavelmente, de cabelo escuro e barba. Tem de ser o cl\u00e1ssico macho que \u00e9 suficientemente forte para a carregar nos bra\u00e7os, como nos filmes.<\/p>\n<p>You imagine him being a little dominant but still very respectful and open to compromise. You want him to have the widest smile ever and a set of deep eyes you\u2019ll get lost in every time you look at him.<\/p>\n<p>When you see him, he\u2019ll knock you right off your feet. It will be love at first sight. His scent, his face, the way he walks, and dresses; everything will be just like in your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll get incredibly nervous once you maintain eye contact. It will feel like the butterflies in your stomach are throwing a party.<\/p>\n<p>Just like that, you\u2019ll know that this is it. This is the man you\u2019ve spent all of your life waiting for.<\/p>\n<p>Once you get to know him better, you\u2019ll realize that he is romantic but not cheesy. He gives you the exact amount of attention you need without acting possessive and without boring you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 incrivelmente divertido estar com ele, mas tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 um verdadeiro homem quando se trata de assuntos s\u00e9rios. Est\u00e1 preocupado em perder-te, mas nunca tem ataques de ci\u00fames.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102311\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com camisola preta de gola alta, de p\u00e9, ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-standing-outdoor-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, well, well&#8230; Wouldn\u2019t this be perfect? But hey, I don\u2019t blame you. Let\u2019s face it, almost every woman\u2019s type fits into this description.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hate to burst your bubble but I\u2019m not here to tell you how to win a guy like this over and I\u2019m not here to give you hope that one of these days, he\u2019ll come knocking on your door either.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m about to tell you something the complete opposite of what you want to hear. I\u2019m here to put some sense in your head and ask you to forget all about this imaginary Mr. Perfect.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, please forget about having a type of man completely. Give up on him because he\u2019ll never appear.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Do it because it\u2019s pointless. After all, who can guarantee you that this kind of guy is the one who has what it takes to make you happy?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You might find someone who encompasses each one of your fantasies. Nevertheless, that isn\u2019t a guarantee of anything.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, por favor, <strong>for a change, give all those men who don\u2019t have to necessarily be your type a chance. Exit your comfort zone and try out something new.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not advising you to jump from one relationship to another if that is not something you feel like doing. I\u2019m just asking you not to be so firm about the type of man you see yourself next to.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-102312 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira sentada num banco a olhar para o mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-bench-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be honest, how many times have you rejected a seemingly nice guy? A guy who didn\u2019t have any apparent flaws but didn\u2019t have all the qualities from your checklist either?<\/p>\n<p>Basically, you didn\u2019t even give him a chance simply because he wasn\u2019t your type. Well, why wouldn\u2019t you try a different scenario? Why wouldn\u2019t you take the opportunity and get to know a man like this?<\/p>\n<p>After all, you can\u2019t know that he is wrong for you until you open the doors of your life at least a little bit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He might be the one who will know how to love you better than anyone else. He might be the one you\u2019ve been waiting for your entire life, without even being aware of that.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe this won\u2019t be love at first sight. However, it will be something way better; a love story that will last a lifetime.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe this man won\u2019t give you butterflies and you won\u2019t get lost in his eyes every time he looks at you. Nevertheless, he will make you feel like home and he will give you the sense of belonging we all crave.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe he won\u2019t give you the excitement you hope to experience. However, he\u2019ll give you peace, which is something you might not want but certainly need.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ll be honest here; this man won&#8217;t be perfect. But, hey, neither are you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, you\u2019ll be perfectly imperfect together. After all, that\u2019s what true love is all about.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you think of your perfect man, you already have prepared a set of characteristics he simply MUST have. First of all, he should be tall, broad-shouldered, handsome and probably dark-haired and bearded. He has to be this classic macho man who is strong enough to carry you in his arms, just like in the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":102310,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/He-Might-Not-Be-Your-Type-But-Maybe-Hell-Know-How-To-Love-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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