{"id":102667,"date":"2020-10-08T17:05:44","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:05:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102667"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:56:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:56:01","slug":"ainda-confio-nos-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ainda-confio-nos-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"Ainda confio nos homens, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredito nas suas palavras"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I still can&#8217;t believe how foolish and naive I was in all of my previous relationships. I let men use me just because I loved them and didn&#8217;t want them to leave me.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I also made mistakes. I made so many mistakes. I hurt myself so many times that it&#8217;s impossible to count them anymore.<\/p>\n<p>O meu maior erro foi o facto de nunca ter tido as prioridades certas na vida.<\/p>\n<p><em>Nunca me coloquei em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/formas-simples-de-se-tornar-uma-prioridade\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">o topo da minha lista de prioridades<\/a> porque esse lugar sempre pertenceu ao homem com quem eu andava a sair.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>O meu erro \u00e9 que normalmente dou tudo de mim \u00e0s pessoas de quem gosto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think about the possible consequences, I just want to get them to like me, even though I have to pay a great price for that.<\/p>\n<p>Pago sempre. Da \u00faltima vez, tive de pagar com o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <em>Uma coisa t\u00e3o bela e pura; coitada, foi esmagada num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102669\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada, debru\u00e7ada no sof\u00e1, a olhar para o seu smartphone na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/upset-woman-leaning-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It still is. I&#8217;m still trying to gather all those pieces and glue them back together. But it&#8217;s so hard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s unbelievably difficult to heal my broken heart when the person I loved and trusted the most was the one who broke it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ele sabia que estava a bater s\u00f3 para ele mas, mesmo assim, partiu-a sem olhar para tr\u00e1s<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ele pisou-a e esmagou-a num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os, como se nunca se importasse com ela. Como se nunca tivesse gostado de mim.<\/p>\n<p>Oh meu Deus, a ironia. Na verdade, ele estava sempre a dizer-me que eu era a \u00fanica pessoa de quem ele gostava.<\/p>\n<p>He was always telling me how he\u2019d do everything to protect me and my innocent heart.<\/p>\n<p>He swore that he\u2019d never again allow anyone to hurt me and he was the one who did. His everyday lies and his false promises did it.<\/p>\n<p>Magoaram-me de uma forma que nada nem ningu\u00e9m antes o fez. E tamb\u00e9m de uma forma que nunca mais ningu\u00e9m far\u00e1, porque fiz uma promessa a mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102670\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e deprimida sentada a pensar profundamente na praia \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/sad-depressed-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I promised myself that from now on, I&#8217;ll never again believe a man&#8217;s pure words.<\/p>\n<p>As palavras devem ser seguidas de ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Fiz uma promessa ao meu pobre cora\u00e7\u00e3o e s\u00f3 ser\u00e1 assim ou n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 de todo.<\/p>\n<p>Mais uma vez, apercebi-me de como <em><strong>as palavras podem ser as armas mais perigosas.<\/strong> <\/em>You don&#8217;t see it with your eyes but still, it&#8217;s so powerful that it can kill you or wound your heart forever.<\/p>\n<p>No, I won&#8217;t let you get in my head again with your lame and fake apologies. No, I&#8217;m not guilty and neither are my expectations.<\/p>\n<p>Disseste que eu tinha expectativas irrealistas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ti. O que \u00e9 que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/expectativas-nao-satisfeitas-sao-a-causa-comum-de-relacionamentos-desfeitos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> expectativas irrealistas<\/a>? Como \u00e9 que se pode dizer isso?<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 esperava que me amasses sinceramente e que nunca me mentisses e fizeste exatamente o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>Eu s\u00f3 tinha essas duas expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si e voc\u00ea falhou-me. A explica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito simples: tu <strong>nunca<\/strong> me amava!<\/p>\n<p>So, don&#8217;t come now with your half-baked excuses, you won&#8217;t be able to trick me into forgiving you or forgetting about everything you did to me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102671\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret.jpg\" alt=\"mulher cheia de remorsos m\u00e3o a tapar a boca \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-filled-with-regret-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A minha voz interior tentou avisar-me tantas vezes de ti e das tuas mentiras nojentas.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Estava sempre a calar os meus intestinos<\/strong><\/em>, hoping it was wrong and how you\u2019d prove to me one day that you honestly believed it when you told me that you loved me.<\/p>\n<p><em>Now, I&#8217;m tired.<\/em> I&#8217;m so exhausted from everything.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m tired of shushing that inner voice of mine, letting you control my life, having to heal my broken heart so many times, your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-mais-palavras-doces-e-promessas-vazias-quero-honestidade-e-esforco\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">promessas v\u00e3s<\/a> and insincere apologies&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>A minha alma est\u00e1 cansada<\/em>. It&#8217;s all so very tiring and that\u2019s because there are so many fake people like you. My soul has to be on guard all the time, so another like you won&#8217;t get to hurt it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No, I&#8217;m not going to put my walls up. I&#8217;m not going to give up on finding true love, on finding the right man. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because I know that it&#8217;s out there somewhere, that the man of my dreams is out there somewhere, and that he&#8217;ll never do anything that could hurt me.<\/p>\n<p><em>Acredito mesmo nisso.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You didn&#8217;t manage to make me hate all men, you just made me realize that I should be much more careful whom I give my trust and love.<\/p>\n<p>You just made me realize that a man can&#8217;t love you with words but can very easily destroy you with them.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I still can&#8217;t believe how foolish and naive I was in all of my previous relationships. I let men use me just because I loved them and didn&#8217;t want them to leave me. Yes, I also made mistakes. I made so many mistakes. I hurt myself so many times that it&#8217;s impossible to count them&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102672,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102667","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/I-Do-Still-Trust-Men-I-Just-Dont-Believe-Their-Words-Anymore.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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