{"id":102741,"date":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102741"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:47","slug":"erros-que-as-pessoas-cometem-quando-percebem-que-a-relacao-esta-errada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/erros-que-as-pessoas-cometem-quando-percebem-que-a-relacao-esta-errada\/","title":{"rendered":"8 erros que as pessoas cometem quando percebem que o relacionamento est\u00e1 errado, em vez de simplesmente termin\u00e1-lo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos n\u00f3s devemos estar conscientes do facto de que <em><strong>nem todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o feitas para durar para sempre<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, <em>a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o razo\u00e1vel para si<\/em>seria acabar com ele imediatamente.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that might hurt your partner but trust me, if you drag it out some more and pretend that everything&#8217;s okay, you&#8217;ll hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<p><em>Here are some things, some very wrong things, that people do when they realize that their relationship isn&#8217;t the real deal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A \u00fanica coisa que conseguem \u00e9 magoar profundamente o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come\u00e7am a evitar o parceiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102743\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"casal indiferente sentado no sof\u00e1, longe um do outro, em sil\u00eancio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/indifferent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t want to open up to their partner and speak directly about their problems, so they don&#8217;t know how to behave around them.<\/p>\n<p>Pensam que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-razoes-surpreendentes-para-ele-a-estar-a-evitar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">evitar o parceiro<\/a> \u00e9 a sua \u00fanica escolha.<\/p>\n<p>They want to seem distant to their partner as they think that is going to make them break up with them first and that they&#8217;ll be less hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so wrong. <em><strong>Uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta \u00e9 sempre a melhor escolha que se pode fazer.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O jogo da culpa est\u00e1 a come\u00e7ar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102744\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir e sentado no sof\u00e1 da sala de estar \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-arguing-and-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7am um jogo de culpas com o seu parceiro e, de alguma forma, ganham sempre. A cada desentendimento ou problema na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, come\u00e7am a culpar o parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>They never want to admit when they have made a mistake or seek their partner&#8217;s forgiveness; instead, they always want them to apologize first.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00f3 querem pressionar a pessoa amada e deix\u00e1-la com uma \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o, que \u00e9 acabar com ela.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They tell other people they\u2019re single<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102745\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de neg\u00f3cios a conversar no interior de um escrit\u00f3rio, sentados numa cadeira, em \u00e2ngulo superior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/business-man-and-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They start behaving like they&#8217;re single and they tell their friends and family that they&#8217;re no longer in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They probably think that it\u2019s going to be less painful for their partner to find it out from other people but the fact is, it&#8217;s going to hurt them even more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Est\u00e3o sempre a criar dramas desnecess\u00e1rios<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102746\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg\" alt=\"casal com problemas a discutir dentro do quarto, sentado na cama com cabeceira preta \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-having-problems-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start arguing with their partner over some stupid little things.<\/p>\n<p>Their partner won&#8217;t be able to please them anymore and no matter what they do or say, it won&#8217;t be good enough for their other half, who\u2019s using these sneaky ways to put an end to their romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Com todo este drama desnecess\u00e1rio, s\u00f3 querem criar um ambiente emocional t\u00f3xico e fazer com que o seu parceiro termine a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fazer ci\u00fames ao parceiro \u00e9 agora a sua principal fun\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102747\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher com ci\u00fames do seu parceiro que se deita e esconde o telem\u00f3vel enquanto sorri \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/young-woman-jealous-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If they\u2019ve been in a relationship for some time, then they know their partner and the things that bother them the most.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If their partner has always been a little bit jealous, that&#8217;s the first thing they&#8217;ll use.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/os-homens-fazem-para-deixar-as-mulheres-com-ciumes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tentar fazer-lhes ci\u00fames<\/a> first with some small things, like hiding their phone or going out every night but then if that doesn&#8217;t work, they&#8217;ll start flirting with other people in front of them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cortam a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102749\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"casal silencioso sentado na cama com o homem meio nu a olhar para o seu gadget\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/silent-couple-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll start avoiding them as much as they can. They&#8217;ll start canceling plans or stop going to the places where they go.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing that&#8217;s going to bother their partner the most is that they&#8217;ll try to cut off all communication they had.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll stop replying to their calls and messages, even though they&#8217;ll be active on their social media, and we all know that can make us all crazy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Qualquer tipo de abuso est\u00e1 envolvido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102750\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg\" alt=\"a silhueta do punho de um marido violento e uma mulher a chorar sentada no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/violent-husbands-fist-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a pior. Como \u00e9 que abusar de algu\u00e9m emocionalmente ou de qualquer outra forma pode ser mais f\u00e1cil do que falar com essa pessoa e dizer-lhe diretamente que quer acabar com ela?<\/p>\n<p>If you ever even cared for that person, you won&#8217;t allow them to go through that.<\/p>\n<p>Sobreviver\u00e3o \u00e0 rutura e curar-se-\u00e3o dela mais cedo ou mais tarde, mas a <em><strong>O abuso emocional vai deixar consequ\u00eancias no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e mente para o resto da sua vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come\u00e7am a ver outras pessoas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg\" alt=\"O telem\u00f3vel do marido traidor chamado pela mulher e uma amante a fazer amor na cama numa fotografia recortada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/cheating-husbands-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Break up with your other half, leave them via a message or any other way you can but don&#8217;t ever cheat on them and start seeing other people while you&#8217;re still in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easier to be direct with someone even though it&#8217;s going to hurt them than to live with knowing that you broke someone&#8217;s heart just because you weren&#8217;t man enough to tell them the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-esta-a-afastar-se-ou-a-acabar-consigo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">romper com<\/a> algu\u00e9m, especialmente se soubermos que essa pessoa ainda nos ama, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mentiras brancas ou formas f\u00e1ceis de a deixar.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only one way; to be honest with them and tell them how you really feel and that the best thing for both of you would be ending your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, someone will be hurt but that&#8217;s the only way neither one of you will be left with a broken heart.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all should be aware of the fact that not all relationships are meant to last forever. Sometimes you&#8217;ll realize that your relationship isn&#8217;t going the way you wanted it to and the only thing to do, the only reasonable choice for you, would be to end it right away. Yes, that might hurt your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":102752,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8-Mistakes-People-Make-When-They-Realize-Their-Relationship-Is-Wrong-Instead-Of-Just-Ending-It.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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