{"id":102754,"date":"2020-10-08T17:11:30","date_gmt":"2020-10-08T17:11:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=102754"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:21","slug":"e-simplesmente-desrespeitoso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-simplesmente-desrespeitoso\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu n\u00e3o sou dif\u00edcil, tu \u00e9 que \u00e9s desrespeitoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil rotular uma mulher de dif\u00edcil quando ela n\u00e3o quer comprometer o respeito, o amor e a confian\u00e7a?<\/p>\n

I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeah, I get why you do that, but I won\u2019t accept it. I\u2019m not willing to forget who I am just so you can tell me how easygoing and cute you find me. Nope.<\/p>\n

Sempre que uma rapariga tem respeito por si pr\u00f3pria e sabe exatamente o que quer para se sentir amada, cuidada e segura, \u00e9 misteriosamente apelidada de mulher louca e carente que explora o seu homem.<\/p>\n

Are you not used to dealing with a woman who knows she\u2019s good enough and doesn\u2019t question herself just because you decided that you\u2019re the most important person in the relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

There was a time when I actually thought that I might be asking for too much from my boyfriend. Luckily, I\u2019ve realized just how little sense that makes.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not asking you to give anything I\u2019m not already giving you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 pe\u00e7o que sejamos parceiros, iguais no respeito e no carinho que temos um pelo outro. Quero que o meu esfor\u00e7o seja rec\u00edproco.<\/p>\n

You chose to ignore my needs so you can fulfill yours and that doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m being difficult or selfish, it means I\u2019m being desrespeitado<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sei que estavas \u00e0 espera que eu fosse suficientemente insegura para te deixar controlar a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e fazer de ti o rei do meu castelo.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately for you, I\u2019m perfectly aware of how much value I have and I demand to be treated with as much respect and love as I treat you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not okay with you paying attention to me only when you feel like it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I want to constantly feel like you\u2019re there for me and I\u2019m not assentamento<\/a> para nada menos do que isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean that I won\u2019t give you time, freedom, or space for your individuality. It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be at my beck and call 24\/7.<\/p>\n

It only means that you have to give me the respect that I deserve \u2013 the same kind you want me to give you and that I do give happily every day.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m tired of being called nagging and demanding just because I have to remind you of the right way for you to show me you love me.<\/p>\n

You should know that on your own. You should appreciate that I\u2019m willing to give you time to learn and change.<\/p>\n

Parece que, em qualquer situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que espero que te esforces mais e me mostres o qu\u00e3o carinhoso podes ser, encontras uma forma de me desiludir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sure enough, a woman shouldn\u2019t say anything, not even then, unless she wants to be called difficult.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Espera-se que uma boa rapariga se contente com um amor med\u00edocre, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o med\u00edocre e uma paix\u00e3o med\u00edocre, para que possa ter o privil\u00e9gio de ser rotulada de f\u00e1cil, descontra\u00edda e suave.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what? I don\u2019t care what you call me, because what you call me only speaks of who you are and what your shallow expectations of me are.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to guilt-trip me into thinking that I should abandon my rights, my needs, and my wants.<\/p>\n

Things don\u2019t work that way. If you want to have a woman in your life who\u2019ll give you everything. you need to learn to treat her the way she deserves to be treated.<\/p>\n

Em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, o que \u00e9 que quer? Queres ter uma grande mulher na tua vida?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m right here. The thing is, you won\u2019t keep me by trying to baixar os meus padr\u00f5es<\/a> em vez de simplesmente se esfor\u00e7ar mais na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t have you trying to bring me down just so you can feel better about yourself. You\u2019re not being strong or clever by doing that, you\u2019re just being annoyingly insensitive and demeaning.<\/p>\n

I need love, devotion, admiration, and respect and if that\u2019s just too much for you to give, I have a label for you and it says you\u2019re \u2019a low effort man who doesn\u2019t have what it takes to love me\u2019.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll always keep my head high, no matter how difficult you think that makes me.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why is it so easy to label a woman as difficult when she doesn\u2019t want to compromise on respect, love, and trust? I guess it\u2019s easier for men to pronounce a woman impossible to deal with than to actually put some effort into meeting her needs. Yeah, I get why you do that, but I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-102754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Im-Not-Difficult-Youre-Just-Disrespectful.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102754\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}