{"id":103201,"date":"2020-10-15T14:13:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T14:13:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=103201"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:46","slug":"apaixonar-se-por-alguem-inesperadamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixonar-se-por-alguem-inesperadamente\/","title":{"rendered":"Apaixonar-se por algu\u00e9m inesperadamente \u00e9 o tipo mais bonito de amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos esses homens errados e rela\u00e7\u00f5es erradas esgotaram-me emocionalmente por completo. Demasiadas pessoas tra\u00edram-me, demasiados homens magoaram-me.<\/p>\n<p>My heart was broken way too many times, I&#8217;m still surprised at how it managed to heal and survive. <em><strong>Durante muito tempo, estive convencido de que a minha alma estava morta.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 estava a viver porque tinha de viver, mas <em>Eu estava completamente vazio por dentro.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Antes disso, pensava realmente que todos n\u00f3s temos uma alma g\u00e9mea algures por a\u00ed, mas depois aceitei que n\u00e3o havia ningu\u00e9m destinado a mim neste mundo e fiquei em paz com isso.<\/p>\n<p>Tomei uma decis\u00e3o, pensando que era a \u00fanica correcta para mim. <em><strong>Decidi levantar as m\u00e3os e deixar de lutar.<\/strong><\/em> Decidi desistir completamente do amor e de encontrar a pessoa certa.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that was my mistake actually. I should never have been trying so hard to find the one. I should never have been trying to force someone to love me or have been trying so hard to deserve someone&#8217;s love.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Love isn&#8217;t a thing that should be found, it actually finds us when we&#8217;re ready to take it and welcome it in our life.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>O amor puro e honesto \u00e9 sempre claramente vis\u00edvel aos nossos olhos, tanto quanto o \u00e9 ao nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-103224 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2.jpg\" alt=\"homem de t-shirt cinzenta a beijar a testa de uma mulher ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there is love, you can see it from far away and if you have to prove anything to yourself to get someone&#8217;s love and affection, then you&#8217;re just wasting your time.<\/p>\n<p>Tal como desperdicei tanto do meu precioso tempo com pessoas que nunca mereceram um minuto sequer.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I&#8217;m not sorry for those mistakes and that waste. I embraced them all as my lessons and made something good out of them.<\/p>\n<p>Something that&#8217;s only now meant to teach me a life lesson and serve as a reminder of how I should never give too much of myself to other people and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez tenha aprendido tudo da maneira mais dif\u00edcil, mas o importante \u00e9 que aprendi e isso mudou completamente a minha vida. Fez de mim a pessoa que sou hoje. Mais forte, mais s\u00e1bia, mais feliz e, acima de tudo, mais amada do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Quando me encontrava na encruzilhada mais importante da minha vida e estava quase a desistir completamente do amor, ele entrou na minha vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Love knocked on my door so unexpectedly. The first time I didn&#8217;t actually invite it, it came. And from the first moment I saw it, I knew it had honest intentions and that it was there to stay forever.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I honestly hadn\u2019t expected it because I had just started thinking that it was never going to happen to me and I was slowly accepting that. But it did and it happened in a way I could never have even imagined.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher de m\u00e3os dadas a olhar para o oceano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He wasn&#8217;t my type at all but still, he managed to fulfill all of my expectations. He didn&#8217;t mind all those not so perfect sides of me and accepted me as I was.<\/p>\n<p>Viu-me no meu melhor, mas tamb\u00e9m no meu pior e continuou a amar-me da mesma forma, exatamente da mesma forma. <strong>Nunca tive de lhe provar nada porque ele confiou no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o desde o momento em que se apaixonou por ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I learned how important it is to trust in God&#8217;s perfect timing because He definitely has everything planned for us already.<\/p>\n<p>We can plan as much as we can but in the end, we all know that He&#8217;s the one who decides on our destiny.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m so grateful to Him for giving me such a beautiful destiny. I&#8217;ll forever be grateful for sending me the right guy at the right time, even though I wasn&#8217;t aware of it then.<\/p>\n<p><em>Agradecer-Lhe-ei para sempre por este convidado inesperado que acabou por ser o meu salvador. Por este lindo amor inesperado que fez de mim a pessoa mais feliz do mundo. Pelo homem que trouxe a minha alma de volta dos mortos.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The guy who showed me that when there&#8217;s true love, the timing is always right. <strong>O homem que ama perfeitamente todas as minhas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> The guy who spends every day showing me that he&#8217;s the one who is meant for me.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, a vida pode ser t\u00e3o imprevis\u00edvel, t\u00e3o maravilhosamente imprevis\u00edvel. <strong>He was the only one I wasn&#8217;t looking for, yet he is the only one who has and will forever have my heart.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All those wrong men and wrong relationships have emotionally drained me completely. Too many people have betrayed me, too many guys have hurt me. My heart was broken way too many times, I&#8217;m still surprised at how it managed to heal and survive. For a long time, I was convinced that my soul was dead&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":103222,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-103201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Falling-For-Someone-Unexpectedly-Is-The-Most-Beautiful-Kind-Of-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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