{"id":10368,"date":"2020-08-10T09:29:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T09:29:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10368"},"modified":"2022-02-27T03:26:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T03:26:34","slug":"significa-rapariga-lindamente-partida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/significa-rapariga-lindamente-partida\/","title":{"rendered":"Isto \u00e9 o que significa ser uma rapariga lindamente partida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por detr\u00e1s de todas as paredes, por detr\u00e1s da m\u00e1scara de uma rapariga feliz, est\u00e1 uma mulher. Uma mulher quebrada pelo mundo, dir\u00edamos n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa destru\u00edda por um agressor, abandonada pelos seus amigos e pelo seu amante, que ela pensava serem os seus salvadores.<\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 lembrar-se dela como a menina<\/a> com o riso alto e a atitude alegre, a rapariga que agora se esconde dentro de si.<\/p>\n

Behind everything you’ve become today. The person who broke you for whatever reason doesn’t matter anymore. A \u00fanica coisa que importa agora \u00e9 voc\u00ea mesmo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Para ser um belo rapariga quebrada<\/a> means to see our brokenness not as a punishment but as someone’s misuse of our own empathy and kindness.<\/p>\n

A culpa nunca foi nossa! \u00c9ramos apenas demasiado bons para essa pessoa ou para este mundo em geral. It’s the only thing that can happen when you’re giving yourself away when you’re being vulnerable. It’s what makes us strong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s the time he told you that you’re worthless that gave you the most worth. You might be confused now, but wasn’t it the moment you realized you were worth more than he could ever afford?<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Doeu, eu sei querida que doeu, mas deixa-me dizer-te que todas aquelas vezes em que ele te disse que estavas feia enquanto vestias o teu vestido preferido, as vezes em que ele olhou para outra rapariga e te disse que ela era muito mais bonita, foram na verdade momentos em que a tua fragilidade conduziu ao ser que \u00e9s hoje. E tu \u00e9s maravilhosa!<\/p>\n

It’s amazing to see what a smile can hide. To never show how hurt you are and to still live the life you want.<\/p>\n

That’s true courage. Don’t you think that that’s the main thing that makes you so beautiful? The way you tell your friends to be positive about life and to live and love like everything is OK\u2014although you’re not OK.<\/p>\n

Ser uma rapariga quebrada<\/a> neste mundo significa aprender a confiar novamente nas pessoas um dia.<\/p>\n

To love again and to let someone love us is the hardest part about all of it, but we’re trying! We’re taking our time of course, because time is needed to heal all our wounds. But no matter how slow we’re going, we will still overcome all the obstacles and traps life has for us and we will rise above it all.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a tua alma est\u00e3o a sofrer, mas ao escolheres ser gentil e carinhosa, \u00e9s melhor do que tudo o que alguma vez te aconteceu. N\u00e3o importa quantas vezes ele te quebrou, tu te levantaste!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

A tua experi\u00eancia \u00e9 o que te tornou numa amante, namorada ou esposa fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n

Porque sabes como \u00e9 dif\u00edcil n\u00e3o ser amado, ser enganado, ser abandonado pelas pessoas que mais amas, \u00e9 por isso que nunca te comportar\u00e1s assim com algu\u00e9m que te \u00e9 precioso.<\/p>\n

Amar\u00e1s uma e outra vez sem inten\u00e7\u00e3o de magoar ningu\u00e9m, porque sabes muito bem como isso \u00e9 aterrador.<\/p>\n

One day, someone will help you on your journey to healing completely, someone who will show you how you should be loved and cared for, someone who won’t abandon you when you need them the most.<\/p>\n

That’s when all of it will pay off! All the times you chose kindness over bitterness paid off!<\/p>\n

Porque estar\u00e3o diante de um homem que veio como um anjo, para estar ao vosso lado e para vos dizer que h\u00e1 pessoas boas neste mundo. Tal como tu.<\/p>\n

\"Isto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Behind all the walls, behind the mask of a happy girl stands a woman. A woman broken by the world, we would say. Someone broken by an abuser, left by her friends and her lover whom she thought would be her saviors. You might remember her as the little girl with the loud laugh and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/This-Is-What-It-Means-To-Be-A-Beautifully-Broken-Girl.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10368","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10368"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10368\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}