{"id":10376,"date":"2020-06-14T09:49:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T09:49:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10376"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:37:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:37:46","slug":"10-sinais-de-que-nao-quer-um-relacionamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-nao-quer-um-relacionamento\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que ele n\u00e3o quer um relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Em <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/nicole-tarkoff\/2017\/11\/this-is-how-we-find-love-in-the-bullshit-age-of-modern-dating\/\" rel=\"noopener\">a era do namoro moderno<\/a> e quase todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es, saber qual \u00e9 a nossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao nosso homem \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>Com ele a fugir ao compromisso e a fingir ter uma doen\u00e7a mortal s\u00f3 para evitar a conversa, a \u00fanica forma de saber em que p\u00e9 estamos \u00e9 procurar sinais.<\/p>\n<p>And, well, they\u2019re more than obvious. Your rose-tinted shades may blind you from seeing them clearly, but they\u2019re still there.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Ele acabou de terminar com outra pessoa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97889\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a olhar \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a great chance you might end up as a rebound girl.<\/p>\n<p>Dating someone who just got out of a relationship and hasn\u2019t had time to move on is a one-way ticket to getting your heartbroken.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s no wonder he refuses to talk about you two moving on from casually hooking up, because he\u2019s simply not ready to enter another relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Ele pode at\u00e9 ainda estar apaixonado pela ex.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t take you on serious dates<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97890\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se os vossos encontros se baseiam apenas no engate, no Netflix e no relaxamento e em passar tempo juntos em sua casa ou na dele, sem nunca sa\u00edrem juntos em p\u00fablico ou convidarem outras pessoas, pode ser que seja apenas o seu engate.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay if you\u2019re down with this kind of a relationship, but if you\u2019re hoping to have a real one, maybe he\u2019s not the guy to have it with.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s not ready to take you out properly and show you off, he won\u2019t be ready to commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>Mereces algu\u00e9m que namore contigo para o resto da tua vida, n\u00e3o que te esconda desde o primeiro dia.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He disappears for days and pretends it\u2019s not a big deal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97892\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a ouvir o homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-listening-to-man-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se um homem gosta mesmo de si, vai garantir que arranja tempo e espa\u00e7o para si na vida dele.<\/p>\n<p>Even if he has no time to spend with you, he will text you and let you know that he\u2019s thinking of you.<\/p>\n<p>But if he takes vacations from your relationship without even getting in touch with you before or during it, he\u2019s simply not worried about losing you.<\/p>\n<p>If he knows that you\u2019ll be waiting for him no matter how shitty his behavior is, there\u2019s no reason for him to commit to you or change for you.<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que o faria? Ele tem todos os <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/in-practice\/201504\/5-hidden-benefits-being-in-long-term-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">os benef\u00edcios de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> sem estar num.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele abandona-a no \u00faltimo minuto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97893\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He knew he had other plans on your date night, he just didn\u2019t bother to let you know about them before it was too late.<\/p>\n<p>Ele mant\u00e9m-na como uma rede de seguran\u00e7a, para que se os seus outros planos falharem, ele tenha algu\u00e9m a quem recorrer.<\/p>\n<p>Or simply he doesn\u2019t feel like going out in public with you.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no reason you should put up with this behavior, so put yourself first for once and ditch his lying ass.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele mant\u00e9m-te separada dos amigos dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97894\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-texting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada enquanto o homem envia mensagens de texto\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-texting-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-texting-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-while-man-texting-150x101.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You never got to meet them and he keeps telling you, \u201cYou\u2019d be bored, you won\u2019t like them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But the thing is, when you\u2019re dating someone, you want everyone to meet that special someone.<\/p>\n<p>You want to make sure your friends behave properly so your significant other will like them, you want to make sure to involve that person in every single part of your life, because they\u2019re already a big part of it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>If he keeps you away from his friends and family, he just doesn\u2019t plan on moving forward with you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele nunca se compromete<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97896\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-arguing-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s either his way or no way. If you want to go out to the movies or grab some dinner, he insists you stay home. And you stay home.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like clubbing and he feels like going to a game, he goes to the game. He doesn\u2019t have the word compromise in his vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s simple\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/signs-he-doesnt-care-about-your-feelings\/2056210\" rel=\"noopener\">he doesn\u2019t care about you or your feelings<\/a>. Ele s\u00f3 se preocupa com ele, o que n\u00e3o deixa lugar para ti no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Vale mesmo a pena perder o sono por causa dele?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s only affectionate in private\u2014never in public<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97897\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-kissing-woman-in-head.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher na cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-kissing-woman-in-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-kissing-woman-in-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-kissing-woman-in-head-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/man-kissing-woman-in-head-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re alone, he can\u2019t keep his hands off of you. He kisses you, touches you and drives you crazy with desire.<\/p>\n<p>But the moment you step outside, he turns all \u2018coworker\u2019 mode.<\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t even hold your hand and if he sees someone he knows, he only introduces you by your name, without labeling what you are to him.<\/p>\n<p>If he decides to put on a label, it\u2019s \u2018friend\u2019. His excuse: There\u2019s no reason for anyone to know about my private life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nunca fala sobre o futuro e evita fazer planos para o futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97899\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem s\u00e9rio a falar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-man-talking-to-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He never talks about the future, simply because he doesn\u2019t plan on having one with you.<\/p>\n<p>Se tentar falar de planos para o futuro, ele muda de assunto e avan\u00e7a rapidamente, sem sequer lhe dar qualquer informa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>And if you try to have \u2018the talk\u2019 with him, he says he\u2019s not ready, he\u2019s too tired, etc. He avoids anything that has any connection with commitment and labeling your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He says he\u2019s bad at dating<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97901\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar e sentado no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/couple-talking-and-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Poor little thing, and now I\u2019m supposed to make you better at it? No.<\/p>\n<p>This is an attention seeking excuse, where in case anything shitty happens, he can say, \u201cI warned you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No, you didn\u2019t. You just never felt like putting any effort into this relationship, into us.<\/p>\n<p>Desde quando \u00e9 que ser mau em alguma coisa \u00e9 uma desculpa para n\u00e3o tentar melhor\u00e1-la?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m bad at cooking, and still I\u2019m regularly burning my pans and smoking up my kitchen.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/life\/motivation\/5-reasons-why-you-should-never-give-up-even-when-you-cant-see-the-finish-line\" rel=\"noopener\"> O importante \u00e9 nunca desistir.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He says he doesn\u2019t want a relationship<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97902\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This seems quite self-explanatory, but the thing is, almost-relationships are everywhere now. It\u2019s when you\u2019re practically boyfriend and girlfriend, although you\u2019re NOT.<\/p>\n<p>When he says that he doesn\u2019t want a relationship or is not ready for one, what he really means is that he doesn\u2019t want one with you.<\/p>\n<p>We all want to believe that we\u2019re the one who can change his mind, the one he will finally commit to. But we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been there; I fell in love with a man who made me his almost, but he never made me his choice. He never showed any will to do so, no matter how hard I tried and hoped.<\/p>\n<p>Independentemente do que eu fizesse, de ser boa ou m\u00e1, ele nunca me viu como sua namorada.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not because there\u2019s something wrong with me, it\u2019s not because I didn\u2019t try enough (trust me, I did), it\u2019s simply because he never wanted a relationship in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Ele s\u00f3 queria os benef\u00edcios de ter um.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 sinais de que ele n\u00e3o quer um relacionamento\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the age of modern dating and almost relationships, knowing where you stand with your man is almost impossible. With him running away from commitment and pretending to have a deadly illness just to avoid the talk, the only way to know where you stand is to look for signs. And, well, they\u2019re more than&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":97905,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/10-Signs-He-Doesnt-Want-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. 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