{"id":10389,"date":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10389"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","slug":"7-dicas-para-deixar-de-ser-obcecado-o-homem-nao-quer-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-dicas-para-deixar-de-ser-obcecado-o-homem-nao-quer-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"7 dicas sobre como parar de ficar obcecado por um cara que n\u00e3o d\u00e1 a m\u00ednima para voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first thing you need to understand is that there are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop obsessing over that particular one, especially if that fish just doesn\u2019t want to bite your hook bait.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena, porque o \u00fanico resultado desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 magoar-se.<\/p>\n

And another thing is that while you\u2019re fishing for the wrong one, the right one may just slip through your fingers because you\u2019ve put all your energy in a person who doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Being hooked on the wrong guy has become a Hollywood clich\u00e9. Almost every romantic Hollywood plot begins with a young and beautiful woman who aches for a guy who is completely uninterested or he is just a friend.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t give up. If he is a friend, she will continue to hurt in silence, misreading all the signals he is sending her in the hope he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, ele at\u00e9 tem uma namorada e, como todos os bons amigos fazem, ela senta-se pacientemente e ouve os seus problemas amorosos, esperando que as coisas entre eles se desmoronem e que ele abra de repente os olhos e perceba que o seu verdadeiro amor esteve sempre \u00e0 sua frente.<\/p>\n

Or, she will ache for the guy who doesn\u2019t even know she exists. Ela sofrer\u00e1 em sil\u00eancio<\/a> e ela far\u00e1 as pazes com o facto de nunca vir a estar com ele, mas o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o recusar-se-\u00e1 a seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

She will watch him from a distance and she will continue breaking her own heart because she is hooked on him and doesn\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n

Mas, ao contr\u00e1rio da vida real, estas hist\u00f3rias t\u00eam sempre um final feliz.<\/em><\/p>\n

O rapaz que era seu amigo apercebe-se de repente que esteve apaixonado por ela este tempo todo e vivem felizes.<\/p>\n

Or that guy who has never noticed her suddenly opens his eyes and has an epiphany\u2014he falls in love with her immediately.<\/p>\n

Well, in real life, things usually don\u2019t go that way. Usually, you waste your life and time on someone who is just not right for you and he could never be because you don\u2019t have the right one.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that you didn\u2019t find him yet because you\u2019ve wasted time trying to impress someone else. And that leads to a broken heart and pain.<\/em><\/p>\n

Spare yourself the pain and try to cut the problem at its root. Stop breaking your own heart by hoping he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Stop living in a romantic movie. You\u2019ll have your moment and it won\u2019t be a cheesy clich\u00e9.<\/p>\n

It will be the most romantic moment of your life and it will be your happily ever after. But first, learn how to stop obsessing over a guy who\u2019s not into you.<\/p>\n

1. Lembra-te que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeito<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o que tu fizeste parecer. Ele \u00e9 um ser humano tal como tu e tem as suas peculiaridades, como todos n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 impec\u00e1vel nem omnipotente, por isso deixe de olhar para ele com \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa e deixe de ver apenas as coisas boas que ele fez e que a arrebataram.<\/p>\n

Stop for a second and try to look at the whole picture. Try to act like this situation doesn\u2019t concern you, like you are observing him and his behavior for a friend.<\/p>\n

Seja objetivo e fa\u00e7a uma lista de pr\u00f3s e contras e depois leia os seus contras e analise-os bem.<\/p>\n

Once again, remember that no one is perfect. Maybe that should help you take him off of the pedestal you\u2019ve put him on.<\/p>\n

2. For\u00e7ar n\u00e3o o vai ajudar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que o deixe louco e lhe implore que lhe d\u00ea uma oportunidade e ele desista, est\u00e1 a preparar-se para um futuro desgosto. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de algo de bom sair\u00e1 dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t into you from the moment he saw you, if there is no connection between the two of you, it will never be.<\/p>\n

3. Fala com os teus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"Dois<\/p>\n

Se a pessoa a quem vai pedir ajuda for realmente seu amigo verdadeiro, dir-lhe-\u00e1 a verdade. Dir-lhe-\u00e1 que deve deixar isto em paz e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m, when you\u2019re blinded by obsession<\/a>, emotions and a possible past you had with him, you can\u2019t look at the whole picture, so your obsession grows even more.<\/p>\n

Pode at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a imaginar coisas ou a dar mais significado a coisas que s\u00e3o triviais.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when a good friend is more than welcome. Try to present the problem that is bothering you with as many facts as possible and try to exclude your emotions from it.<\/p>\n

O seu verdadeiro amigo dir-lhe-\u00e1 o que deve fazer ou talvez cheguem a uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o em conjunto, porque duas cabe\u00e7as s\u00e3o melhores do que uma.<\/p>\n

Anyhow, it\u2019s always nice to hear selfless and sincere advice from a person who cares for you deeply.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ll miss out on your best years<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If you continue obsessing over someone who doesn\u2019t know you exist or who sees you just as a friend or a friend with benefits, there\u2019s a high chance that you\u2019ll miss out on someone who truly wants to be with you.<\/p>\n

If you continue to think about him, you\u2019ll waste your youth and your best years.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to spend the time of your life when you are supposed to have the most fun in tears and sorrow.<\/p>\n

Mereces ter algu\u00e9m que te ame pelo que \u00e9s. Mereces algu\u00e9m que fique feliz por acordar ao teu lado todas as manh\u00e3s.<\/p>\n

Mereces algu\u00e9m que queira passar o resto da sua vida contigo.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Acabar com a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o social<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Looking at his Facebook profile won\u2019t get you anywhere except to heartbreak.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll stalk him, look at his amazing photos, see where he is going and with who he is with and it will only make you sad and maybe even jealous.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get sucked into an infinite hole of previous information and girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Your obsession will just keep growing as you reveal new things about him. It will be like you\u2019re addicted. You will just keep wanting more.<\/p>\n

6. Recupere a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Sente-se e tenha uma conversa consigo pr\u00f3prio. Lembre-se de como \u00e9 incr\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Remind yourself that you don\u2019t need anyone to be happy, especially not someone who doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que te negas a oportunidade de conhecer algu\u00e9m que nunca te perder\u00e1 de vista e que te proteger\u00e1 de tudo e de todos?<\/p>\n

You need to realize that if you go on a date with someone and they don\u2019t call you back, it\u2019s not your fault. You are not the one to blame if he didn\u2019t like you but you liked him.<\/p>\n

You need to be patient because if you stick to the one who doesn\u2019t want to be with you, you\u2019ll miss out on the one who does.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t let him take advantage of you<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

By liking him and getting nothing in return, you\u2019re just going to stay in his shadow.<\/p>\n

Ele sabe que pode contar consigo, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, e us\u00e1-la-\u00e1 para conseguir o que quer.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to be someone\u2019s causality, someone\u2019s convenient tool for the time he needs it.<\/p>\n

Ele tamb\u00e9m pode atra\u00ed-lo, dando-lhe aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficiente apenas para o manter fisgado.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll say something or he\u2019ll \u2018open up\u2019 and give you a reason to think he is into you when he\u2019s not. Don\u2019t fall for that and manter o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Remember that you are one special person. Don\u2019t undermine and disrespect yourself.<\/p>\n

Temos de nos orgulhar de quem somos porque, um dia, algu\u00e9m que estava \u00e0 nossa espera vai bater \u00e0 nossa porta.<\/p>\n

So, make sure you are there when he does instead of chasing someone who couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

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