{"id":10420,"date":"2020-03-07T12:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T12:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10420"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:40:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:40:08","slug":"carta-aberta-homem-ferido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-homem-ferido\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao homem que me magoou"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos os dias, penso: \"N\u00e3o pode ficar pior do que isto. J\u00e1 desci o mais baixo que podia. Mas depois o ch\u00e3o abre-se de novo e engole-me ainda mais.<\/p>\n

Tu puseste-me l\u00e1. Cavaste a minha sepultura, enterraste-me vivo. Continuas a atirar-me com as tuas tretas. Mais mentiras, mais verdades.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been screaming for a long time. I found anger that I never knew I had. Uma raiva que aprendi contigo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Senti que nada poderia melhorar as coisas. N\u00e3o havia nenhuma explica\u00e7\u00e3o, nada que me ajudasse a compreender como e porqu\u00ea fizeste tudo isto.<\/p>\n

Escolheste isto.<\/b> Escolheste magoar-me todos os dias, com as tuas palavras, com as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Each day that you didn\u2019t tell me of your betrayal. Two years of my life based on an illusion. I felt robbed.<\/p>\n

Like someone had stolen my time and energy, stolen my love. I gave you everything I had when it wasn\u2019t even yours to get. Nunca foste meu<\/a>Nem por um momento.<\/p>\n

But in the midst of my pain, I forgot that no one will suffer as much as you will now. Now that you have finally accepted what you\u2019ve been, and how you\u2019ve treated everyone who was close.<\/p>\n

You will have to live with yourself, with the emptiness and regret. And that saddens me, it scares me, it makes me feel sorry for you. You caused the damage and now you\u2019re trying to pick up the pieces.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nunca quis que sofresses sozinho.<\/b> Sempre quis cultivar o que h\u00e1 de bom em ti. Queria fazer emergir o homem que sempre quiseste ser.<\/p>\n

And now I have done, even though I wasn\u2019t there to do it. Pushing me away left you alone and forced you to confront yourself. It finally made you want to change.<\/p>\n

As minhas ora\u00e7\u00f5es foram atendidas de uma forma que me deixou completamente destro\u00e7ado. Mas se isso mudar a tua vida, se reverter os teus anos de sofrimento, ent\u00e3o valeu a pena.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m glad for the good that has come from it. There is comfort in seeing myself as a martyr and that my pain isn\u2019t for nothing.<\/p>\n

The last step I can take to help you is to tell you\u2026 Eu perdoo-te.<\/b> Perdoo-te porque finalmente compreendo que as pessoas magoadas magoam as pessoas.<\/p>\n

Magoaste-me porque tinhas medo. Porque a felicidade sempre se abateu sobre ti.<\/p>\n

Por isso, fica um passo \u00e0 frente: destr\u00f3i-o voc\u00ea mesmo. Deleita-se com esse controlo porque, pelo menos, fez uma escolha.<\/p>\n

I was the thing you destroyed, when all I wanted was to build that happiness in your life. But that\u2019s because you\u2019re hurt, it is not my fault. And although that doesn\u2019t make anything better, it allows me to move forward.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s difficult. Pens\u00e1mos que \u00e9ramos almas g\u00e9meas<\/a>que estar\u00edamos juntos para a eternidade.<\/p>\n

But we must accept that the time we had was all we were destined to have. Not a moment less or more. I guess we will always be connected in our trauma. You brought out a pain in me that I hope never surfaces again when I\u2019ve healed.<\/p>\n

Take this and continue to learn from it. Don\u2019t let me suffer in vain. I will have to reshape myself, a me without you.<\/p>\n

Fiz com que a minha vida girasse \u00e0 volta de te ajudar, apoiar e amar. Agora, o meu trabalho est\u00e1 feito. E tenho de descobrir quem sou sem isso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been in a state of constriction for years, reducing you to nothing.
\nA partir daqui, s\u00f3 pode haver expans\u00e3o. Abra\u00e7a-a.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n

por Hidden Treasure<\/em><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Each day, I think, it can\u2019t get worse than this. I\u2019ve gotten as low as I could. But then the ground opens up again and swallows me further. You put me there. You dug my grave, you buried me alive. You keep throwing your bullshit at me. More lies, more truths. I\u2019ve been screaming for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":77766,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10420","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Man-Who-Hurt-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10420","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10420"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10420\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10420"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10420"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10420"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}